Why do male people with TQ+ identities need to use the female only space when they have a mixed sex one available? How can they justify using the female only one in the certain knowledge that it excludes and removes that provision from every woman there? Some of whom do not hold the belief that a male person is ever at any time anything other than a male person like any other male from the male sex class? Why are women wangled and wangled and nagged and scolded at about bending and accepting and understanding, and yet these men have absolutely no responsibilities to anyone else of any kind?
They can fucking be kind, and do some understanding, and they won't need a lot of cod science either.
It comes down to (again) You Do You. Get your kit off in front of whomever you like, if you consent to use a mixed space then jolly good for you. Stop trying to bully women into enabling men to use them, exclude them and destroy their spaces because you believe that anyone with a penis is much more important to you than anyone without. Your sexism is your own problem. The only body you can provide to this political movement is your own.