I don't see what's wrong with suggesting that those with continuing trauma should seek therapy. I acknowledge that accessing it can be prohibitively difficult.
I am very resilient but have lost track of how many times I've been told on this board that I need to seek help for not being more traumatised. I find this extremely bizarre and it has contributed to my view that you normalise and even fetishise trauma. Most of my friends have been raped or sexually assaulted multiple times. It is sadly quite normal in our society. I don't know anyone who's trauma manifests in the way so many people on this board claim is somehow the standard response.
As for 'countless times.' I don't much feel like counting. Does that make me less credible? Should I make a spreadsheet?