Dating as a TERF

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I'm a 34 year old female. I'm currently dating via Tinder.

When the gender issue has come up and I've mentioned that I'm a TERF, a lot of men have disengaged from me. I once went on three dates with a man, we got on great, and then when I mentioned my views on gender ideology, he ghosted me after!

Do you mention your stance up front or do you wait? I don't want to date anyone who thinks humans can change sex, is it worth stating this on my profile?

Any help/ advice/ insights appreciated.

It’s bigotry to want women’s sport kept for women.

It’s bigotry to want single sex services.

ok. Maybe a feminist forum isn’t the place for you.

'repulsive' 'disgusting' 'awful' 'bigotry'.

How is coming on here and flinging insults at everyone the naice approach?

Oh yes us bigots wanting female rape survivors to have women only support groups

I mean honestly is that really the best you’ve got?? @Ronathediva13

Yes please explain why that is so terrible.

Excellent. Another mindless follower of indoctrinated thinking.

Readers, you are getting so many examples in this thread. So many posters just turning up and declaring everyone is haters, bigoted and gosh, disgusting ! All without engaging with what is bigoted and disgusting about what has been posted. Because shaming women is still as acceptable today as it was decades ago. This is what ‘progress’ looks like to some people.

Progress. Wonderful isn’t it?

Who said they hated anyone? What repulsive views? Come on, at least TRY and make it make sense.

Please stay and explain your position, eh?

Rona's position is they hates us and we all smell, I believe.

I’m so glad the TRAs are reading this thread. It might be the start of them peaking. I must say I thought the same as them until I realised the ramifications for women’s rights and safeguarding

They always mention minority groups but couldn't give a shit about the women from minority groups that will be excluded from their own single sex spaces once males are in them.

Do massive MN bigots like massive MN salads?

I’d say they often like word salads, eresh.

We don't hate trans people, we just recognise the importance and existence of other groups too. Other humans, who are not trans, and also have rights.

That's what trans activists appear to be objecting to.

I’m currently doing weights at the gym 3 mornings a week to build muscle mass. And now I find out I can become more massive just from this thread.

Not those minority groups.

It's not fashionable to care about them.

This is a piss take, right?

So it seems Margot.

No virtue in it.

Thank you so much! I was going nuts trying to find it.

It must be exhausting trying to convince women to buy into what is, essentially, unhinged nonsense.

… and always failing 😂

Privileged white males aren't a minority group, thanks for dropping in though.

The ones who think they are entitled to be in women's spaces are a minority, thankfully, but not an oppressed one.

Proud to be a terf.

Definition of hatred: “extreme dislike or disgust; ill will or resentment… prejudice.”

PP: “Repulsive.” “Awful.” “Bigotry.” “Disgusting.”

The only post I remember reading that shows the strength of unreasoned dislike that constitutes “hatred” is here.

It isn't the group love, it's the behaviour.

The fuckwitteryphobia and rejection of male supremacism is entirely equal opportunity and applied to all males regardless of sex, gender, race, ability, creed or anything else you care to name.

Put simply, it's entitled men (and dick panderers) trying to make others chant their religious dogma.