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Rishi Sunak - "a man is a man, a woman is a woman"

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Ellos · 04/10/2023 21:44

..and how we shouldn't be bullied into believing somebody can be any sex that they want.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJcxUehh/

AIBU to want to give him a round of applause?

I know, it's convenient timing and obviously a strategy move but how good is it to hear that straight from the horses mouth when the country has spent the past god knows how long bowing down to the loud and often disturbed minority.

I still can't stand the Tories and won't be voting for them but cheers for acknowledging the insanity, Rishi.

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Helleofabore · 05/10/2023 21:51

Tandora · 05/10/2023 21:43

It’s not just Fausto sterling who argues this. The fact is that prevalence stats are disputed, highly dependent on definitions (obviously) and what we can observe with current medical technologies. Either way it doesn’t really matter,

What is important is that not one person on earth except I believe a case of mosaicism, has deviated from having either a body formed around the production of large gametes whether that production happens or not, or small gametes.

Not one person has a body where both can be produced.

Tandora · 05/10/2023 21:52

Helleofabore · 05/10/2023 21:46

From the article I posted.

Here we can see that the large majority (88 percent) of Fausto-Sterling’s 1.7 percent figure is taken up by one condition: late-onset adrenal hyperplasia (LOCAH). These individuals have completely normal male or female genitalia at birth that align with their sex chromosomes. The sex of these individuals is not ambiguous, so to label LOCAH as an intersex condition is a far cry from what most people and clinicians conceptually envision the term to capture.

The next most prevalent DSD on Fausto-Sterling’s list include any chromosomal deviations from classical XX and XY (e.g. Klinefelter syndrome, Turner syndrome, etc.). However, these conditions do not result in ambiguous genitalia and therefore cannot be considered intersex in any clinically relevant sense. (see my previous post about why sex chromosome variants are not their own unique sexes.)
Lastly, vaginal agenesis, the next most common DSD on the list, is not generally considered an intersex condition, as girls with this condition are genotypically XX, possess perfectly normal ovaries, and can become pregnant and birth their own children following vaginoplasty. They are unambiguously female.

When these common DSDs are removed, and intersex conditions are more precisely defined as “conditions in which chromosomal sex is inconsistent with phenotypic sex, or in which the phenotype is not classifiable as either male or female,”Fausto-Sterling’s 1.7 percent figure drops dramatically. According to Sax, “Applying this more precise definition, the true prevalence of intersex is seen to be about 0.018%, almost 100 times lower than Fausto-Sterling's estimate of 1.7%.”

The article* *was written by an evolutionary biologist.

Do you know any one with LOCAH or Klinefelter’s ? I do and neither individuals consider their bodies to fit binary sex classifications. Both have experienced intense bullying, othering, victimisation throughout their lives because of their visible gender/ sex ambiguity and both self define as both non binary and intersex.

As I said these things are contested, and ambiguous. But what we can all agree on is the fact that millions of people with sex variations exist across the world and continue to be born everyday.

OvaHere · 05/10/2023 21:52

Tandora · 05/10/2023 21:44

Ok good, glad we agree on the first point 👍🏻

We agreed many pages ago when first discussing DSDs. I've not claimed anywhere on this thread that such disorders don't exist. I disagree with you using them to bolster identity arguments.

Tandora · 05/10/2023 21:53

OvaHere · 05/10/2023 21:48

this so manipulative. The targeting, othering, rudeness and name calling has been almost entirely in one direction and it hasn’t come from me.

Oh please. You're only here because you want us all to shut up and kneel at the alter of men's feelings.

As for manipulative perhaps you should refer back to your own post upthread professing to be weeping because women keep stating they have boundaries around men in their spaces.

All of your posts directed at me have been incoherent and none have had any basis in reality.

Rightsraptor · 05/10/2023 21:54

@Tandora, 'disorders of sexual development' has no judgemental overtones to anyone in the medical world, though I can see it might to people who demand that everyone tippy toe around them on eggshells, lest they get upset.

It means a disorder on a cellular level. It should in no way be taken as judgemental or stigmatising about an affected individual.

lifeturnsonadime · 05/10/2023 21:54

Tandora I'll ask again (for what now feels like the umpteenth time but I can't be bothered to go back to check).

Why don't women's (adult human female) boundaries matter to you?

Why won't you address the fact that women have been harmed by trans women in what should be single sex spaces?

Why do you think that in the light of the fact that :

a) women have boundaries; and
b) women have been harmed by the erosion of those boundaries, that

the feelings of trans women (males) on this issue are more significant and should override the feelings of women (females)?

In other words and more simply put why do males matter more?

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:54

Are you really actually saying I want to throw all the protection for women and girls?!. Are you for real? My entire career has been about protecting women and girls, so that’s just horseshit.
I have just stated that the question of whether or not sex is indeed binary is still wide open.

ArabellaScott · 05/10/2023 21:55
  • 'How do you tell which people are lying?

This is the key question.

How do we tell which are the safe males and which are the risk?

Transwomen say they don't want to share spaces with males. Neither do we.

So how come they get their wish but we don't?

BlurredEdges · 05/10/2023 21:56

Tandora · 05/10/2023 21:41

There have been many, many statistics, case histories, and first-hand experiences posted on this thread that show very clearly that it is something to be worried about

there have been statistics that have been misleadingly and manipulatively used to promote transphobia. I have engaged with this.
I can’t say much about “case studies” and “personal histories”. I have acknowledged that there are inevitably some trans people who are abusers, predators, criminals, bad people, just like there are of all types and groups of people. I wholeheartedly reject the idea that trans women as a group pose a threat to women and girls, this is pure transphobia.

You seem to revel in the fact that women and girls are placed at risk by the exercise of power by men. Why?

um no.

You seem to find rape, sexual assault, and invasion of privacy a joke. Why?

Not sure how many times you want to accuse me of this and I can refute it 🤷🏼‍♀️. The thread is there for all to read.

You seem to treat women who object to all of these as enemies, targets, and jokes. Why?

this so manipulative. The targeting, othering, rudeness and name calling has been almost entirely in one direction and it hasn’t come from me.

Your 'engagement' with statistics was to try to say (for some inexplicable reason) that statistics which show the percentage of each of the following populations - men, women, men who identify as women - that are currently incarcerated as sex offenders are 'misleading'. They are figures from the Ministry of Justice. They are up to date, and accurate.

They demonstrate that men who identify as women are not only hundreds of times more likely than women to be convicted and jailed for sex offences, but also significantly more likely to be convicted and jailed for sex offences than men who do not identify as women.

There is ample evidence, both statistical and anecdotal, that men claiming to be women pose a threat to women and girls. There is even more evidence that men, regardless of their gender identity, pose a threat to women and girls. There is no benefit or value whatsoever for women and girls in allowing males into female spaces. There can only be harm.

I wholeheartedly reject the idea that trans women as a group pose a threat to women and girls, this is pure transphobia.

You can 'wholeheartedly reject' whatever you want. Perhaps I 'wholeheartedly reject' the idea that the Earth is (approximately) a sphere. Perhaps I 'wholeheartedly reject' the idea that today is 5th October, 2023. Perhaps I wholeheartedly reject that I am 42 years old. It doesn't make any difference to reality though, does it?

FYI, throwing around the word 'transphobia' in an attempt to shut down women's voices doesn't work anymore.

OvaHere · 05/10/2023 21:57

Tandora · 05/10/2023 21:53

All of your posts directed at me have been incoherent and none have had any basis in reality.

Lol. I think we both know that just isn't true and frankly a bit rich coming from someone won't accept that men are not women no matter what words they use or how many women they berate.

BlurredEdges · 05/10/2023 21:58

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:54

Are you really actually saying I want to throw all the protection for women and girls?!. Are you for real? My entire career has been about protecting women and girls, so that’s just horseshit.
I have just stated that the question of whether or not sex is indeed binary is still wide open.

It's not though. Soz.

Helleofabore · 05/10/2023 21:58

Tandora · 05/10/2023 21:52

Do you know any one with LOCAH or Klinefelter’s ? I do and neither individuals consider their bodies to fit binary sex classifications. Both have experienced intense bullying, othering, victimisation throughout their lives because of their visible gender/ sex ambiguity and both self define as both non binary and intersex.

As I said these things are contested, and ambiguous. But what we can all agree on is the fact that millions of people with sex variations exist across the world and continue to be born everyday.

That they have been bullied and victimised is not acceptable. They can identify how they wish, however scientifically they are the sex their condition relates to. Their wishes do not change material reality.

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:58

ArabellaScott · 05/10/2023 21:55

  • 'How do you tell which people are lying?

This is the key question.

How do we tell which are the safe males and which are the risk?

Transwomen say they don't want to share spaces with males. Neither do we.

So how come they get their wish but we don't?

This is how the culture war stays ablaze. Nobody has an answer or enough evidence to give an answer or win an argument . And people shout even louder when there’s no evidence. Religion is an example of this…

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:59

BlurredEdges · 05/10/2023 21:58

It's not though. Soz.

And I’m perfectly happy and ready to accept your opinion.

Tandora · 05/10/2023 22:01

ArabellaScott · 05/10/2023 21:51

You literally said my experience of sexual assault was a 'sick fantasy'.

Perhaps that's not 'rude', strictly speaking. I'm not quite sure what I'd call it.

Omg I did not!!! This will be the last time I’m responding to you , as your accusations are becoming increasingly insane.

what I said was a “sick fantasy” were your bizarre accusations that I was laughing at infertile women and victims of rape. , and that I was “weeping for sad males”

i have made no comment about your personal experience of sexual assault, I know absolutely nothing about it. You said you brought it up earlier in the thread, as I already mentioned I did not see that post. I have no commented on it once.

As mentioned I shall not be responding to you further.

ArabellaScott · 05/10/2023 22:01

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:58

This is how the culture war stays ablaze. Nobody has an answer or enough evidence to give an answer or win an argument . And people shout even louder when there’s no evidence. Religion is an example of this…

there is ample evidence to show that males, as a class, present a risk to women.

Logically, it makes sense to exclude males from women's spaces.

BlessedKali · 05/10/2023 22:01

Tandora · 05/10/2023 20:06

Are people with disabilities saying their disability means humans as a species are not bipedal

what does that mean to say “humans as a species are bipedal”? Why is it so important to you to state this?
The vast majority of humans have two legs. Some people don’t. Both types of people are just as valid. That’s all there is to it.

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If a baby is born with something other than two legs, that baby would be tested to see what has gone wrong in it's development. If you meet someone on the street who is missing a leg, you know that they have had an accident or have a health problem. You know this because we know that humans are meant to have two legs. These people are aided, because human beings are designed to move on two legs, we are bipedal. This is a biological fact.

Another biological fact is that we are a sexually dimporphic species - one category produces sperm, one category gestates and gives birth.

If a woman of child-bearing age cannot fall pregnant, she can go to her doctor and ask them to run tests to find out what is wrong. Why? becuase we know that under normal circumstances a woman should be able to get pregnant, and if she cannot then there is a problem. She could then hopefully be treated.

If a man had a problem producing sperm, he could go to his doctor and ask for tests and treatment. Why? because it is a fact that men should be able to produce sperm. If he cannot, there is something wrong.

If a woman goes to the doctors and asks them to test her to see why she is not producing sperm, will the doctor do it? No. Why? Because women cannot produce sperm. There is absolutely nothing wrong with her.

If I went to the doctors and asked them to investigate why I only have two legs, would they run tests? NO, because we are bipedal.

These biological facts are very relevant, yet they don't determine someone's value or 'validity'. Facts and values are different.

OvaHere · 05/10/2023 22:02

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:58

This is how the culture war stays ablaze. Nobody has an answer or enough evidence to give an answer or win an argument . And people shout even louder when there’s no evidence. Religion is an example of this…

There's plenty of evidence that women are female and zero evidence that men are female.

You're right about gender beliefs being like a religion though. Perhaps it's a process akin to transubstantiation that turns men into women.

ArabellaScott · 05/10/2023 22:02

Tandora · 05/10/2023 22:01

Omg I did not!!! This will be the last time I’m responding to you , as your accusations are becoming increasingly insane.

what I said was a “sick fantasy” were your bizarre accusations that I was laughing at infertile women and victims of rape. , and that I was “weeping for sad males”

i have made no comment about your personal experience of sexual assault, I know absolutely nothing about it. You said you brought it up earlier in the thread, as I already mentioned I did not see that post. I have no commented on it once.

As mentioned I shall not be responding to you further.

Noted. All of it. And another 'insane'. Cheers.

Tandora · 05/10/2023 22:03

Rightsraptor · 05/10/2023 21:54

@Tandora, 'disorders of sexual development' has no judgemental overtones to anyone in the medical world, though I can see it might to people who demand that everyone tippy toe around them on eggshells, lest they get upset.

It means a disorder on a cellular level. It should in no way be taken as judgemental or stigmatising about an affected individual.

I couldn’t disagree more: language is important : there is a reason why autism spectrum disorder has been renamed autism spectrum condition; and rightly so, many clinicians also support/ endorse this change. this is just one example.

lifeturnsonadime · 05/10/2023 22:03

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:58

This is how the culture war stays ablaze. Nobody has an answer or enough evidence to give an answer or win an argument . And people shout even louder when there’s no evidence. Religion is an example of this…

A trans woman (male) raped a woman in a single SEX ward of an NHS hospital.

A trans woman (male) sexually assaulted women in a women's prison.

Those things are horrific, no?

I'm interested in the light of the above how there is no evidence that allowing trans women in single sex spaces harms women, when patently it does?

Helleofabore · 05/10/2023 22:04

”I have just stated that the question of whether or not sex is indeed binary is still wide open.

No. it really isn’t. There are two sex categories based around the formation of producing one or the other gamete. It doesn’t matter to the sex categorisation whatever the body produces that gamete. No body produces both or is formed successfully around producing both. There is no sex continuum or spectrum.

Within each sex there are many different variations. But they are within each sex as categorised by considering which gamete the body was formed around to produce.

BlurredEdges · 05/10/2023 22:04

Billi80 · 05/10/2023 21:58

This is how the culture war stays ablaze. Nobody has an answer or enough evidence to give an answer or win an argument . And people shout even louder when there’s no evidence. Religion is an example of this…

There is no shortage of evidence that humans are a sexually dimorphic species, and that you can't change sex. It's not a religious belief. It's fact.

BlessedKali · 05/10/2023 22:05

Tandora · 05/10/2023 22:03

I couldn’t disagree more: language is important : there is a reason why autism spectrum disorder has been renamed autism spectrum condition; and rightly so, many clinicians also support/ endorse this change. this is just one example.

Yes, language is important. It needs to describe the truth.

BlurredEdges · 05/10/2023 22:06

ArabellaScott · 05/10/2023 22:02

Noted. All of it. And another 'insane'. Cheers.

It's funny how @Tandora, despite devoting so many hours to this thread, managed to miss both your and my accounts of our first-hand experience with sexually threatening men, innit.

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