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Rishi Sunak - "a man is a man, a woman is a woman"

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Ellos · 04/10/2023 21:44

..and how we shouldn't be bullied into believing somebody can be any sex that they want.

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZGJcxUehh/

AIBU to want to give him a round of applause?

I know, it's convenient timing and obviously a strategy move but how good is it to hear that straight from the horses mouth when the country has spent the past god knows how long bowing down to the loud and often disturbed minority.

I still can't stand the Tories and won't be voting for them but cheers for acknowledging the insanity, Rishi.

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EasternStandard · 05/10/2023 07:00

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 05/10/2023 01:16

Biology is transphobic
Reality is transphobic
Mother nature is transphobic
Truth is transphobic
Data is transphobic

Because I believe transwomen are male im transphobic, at least I'm in good company

That is the continuing problem for men

Women don’t need to be quiet about it

Nanaof1 · 05/10/2023 07:12

Thementalloadisreal · 04/10/2023 22:57

Because cis men never rape women in hospital?

Becoming trans is not necessary. Men go where they please and do as they want. Transitioning and becoming one of the most discriminated people in our society is just not a necessary step.

How many? How many men have raped women in hospital? How many men have impregnated women in prison? How many men have taken away women's sports for their own use and taken away their awards and scholarships? How many men have followed women into the bathroom and raped, gaped or filmed them?

I will take the stats for the last year.

Then you can explain to me how it's right for a man, who was convicted of rape, assault, even murder can "decide" he is a woman and get put into a women's prison. Then you can tell me the stats of how many of those men turn back into men like poof as soon as they are out of prison.

Now, you can explain how a man can "decide" he is a woman and take no hormones, have no surgery and at times play in the men's category, then when it's convenient for him, go and play in women's sports. How a man, who has a bigger heart, longer muscle fiber, bigger muscle mass, bigger lungs and every other male advantage, has a right to go into women's sports. Men who are almost always failures in their sport in the men's category.

If trans people want rights, let them get their own prisons, their own sports, their own gym lockers, their own hospital ward, shelters, rape crisis centers, "Lesbian nights" (leave female lesbians alone), spas and waxing salons. They may not "feel" like men (or women), but they are not the opposite sex either and sex based rights of women need to be protected. They are sex-based rights, not gender-based rights.

Abergale · 05/10/2023 07:27

Ellos · 04/10/2023 21:56

Prison sentences I think.

Ooooh. Of course haha.

SunL1ghter · 05/10/2023 07:28

“How many men have followed women into the bathroom and raped, gaped or filmed them? “

Er loads of men without dresses do that to men and women in public toilets. And re hospital

https://www.reading.ac.uk/news/2023/Research-News/6500-hospital-sexual-assaults-in-four-years-according-to-new-report

In the last month alone a woman doctor highlighted what she and others go through, a fully suited and booted male doctor was found to have assaulted patients for years….

Trans does not equal abuser. Can we have some figures from you please.

6500 hospital sexual assaults in four years according to new report - University of Reading

https://www.reading.ac.uk/news/2023/Research-News/6500-hospital-sexual-assaults-in-four-years-according-to-new-report

BlurredEdges · 05/10/2023 08:04

SunL1ghter · 05/10/2023 07:28

“How many men have followed women into the bathroom and raped, gaped or filmed them? “

Er loads of men without dresses do that to men and women in public toilets. And re hospital

https://www.reading.ac.uk/news/2023/Research-News/6500-hospital-sexual-assaults-in-four-years-according-to-new-report

In the last month alone a woman doctor highlighted what she and others go through, a fully suited and booted male doctor was found to have assaulted patients for years….

Trans does not equal abuser. Can we have some figures from you please.

Comparisons of official MOJ statistics from March / April 2019 (most recent official count of transgender prisoners):

76 sex offenders out of 129 transwomen = 58.9%

125 sex offenders out of 3812 women in prison = 3.3%

13234 sex offenders out of 78781 men in prison = 16.8%

Offender Management Statistics quarterly: April to June 2019

This publication provides key statistics relating to offenders who are in prison or under National Probation Service and community rehabilitation companies’ supervision in England and Wales.

https://eur03.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.gov.uk%2Fgovernment%2Fstatistics%2Foffender-management-statistics-quarterly-april-to-june-2019&data=04%7C01%7Cr.a.freedman%40reading.ac.uk%7Cc74ac687812343fd5c9608d89d148e6c%7C4ffa3bc4ecfc48c09080f5e43ff90e5f%7C0%7C0%7C637432060643328245%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C1000&sdata=bFdBLhzGy1wBhhUoeMjrA5a3i5bCqCEyNeUoEIMCR48%3D&reserved=0

Nanaof1 · 05/10/2023 08:08

Thementalloadisreal · 04/10/2023 23:10

So trans women are at risk of male violence and women are at risk of male violence but you think the solution is to exclude trans women from the places they could be safe from the male violence that we all face.

Give your head a wobble

Because then the males are in the women's spaces, unfettered with easy access. As long as the "whatever you say you are, you are", is the mantra of the TQ+ group, women will need to protect themselves from the imposters, of which there are many. Just need to look at the hospital rape, the prisons, the dressing rooms to see that. Since we cannot tell the imposters from the real, we need to exclude all since we have zero back-up for our concerns. The extreme trans community cares not how many females are raped, assaulted or murdered as long as their "feelings" come first.

BlurredEdges · 05/10/2023 08:10

Half of all transgender (trans identifying male) prisoners are sex offenders or dangerous category A inmates.

As opposed to 3 percent of female prisoners.

Regardless of some imaginary, convenient woo about them not being "truly trans" (even if this meant anything, how could you tell?), there is no justification whatsoever for placing dangerous male sex offenders with vulnerable women.

Unless you don't give a flying fuck about what happens to those women. Oh.

KevinTurveyIsMissed · 05/10/2023 08:10

Thementalloadisreal · 04/10/2023 23:12

This entire thread is transphobic.
The PM is drumming up transphobia as a tactic and it’s fucking disgusting.

Yes, people will claim now that it’s transphobic to state the fact that transwomen are male, despite nearly no-one claiming otherwise until only a couple of years ago.

It’s not an effective way to try to get what you want any more.

EasternStandard · 05/10/2023 08:11

KevinTurveyIsMissed · 05/10/2023 08:10

Yes, people will claim now that it’s transphobic to state the fact that transwomen are male, despite nearly no-one claiming otherwise until only a couple of years ago.

It’s not an effective way to try to get what you want any more.

Well said

Dayhee · 05/10/2023 08:13

YANBU

next stop - asylum seekers out of hotels please.

KevinTurveyIsMissed · 05/10/2023 08:17

Sladurche · 05/10/2023 00:52

Most of the public wanted section 28 even when it was repealed. Ad populum is the logical fallacy that says that if most people agree with it, then it must be true.
Sunak and the rest of the nasty party are dog-whistling for their lives. Appealling to the same populist racism (Braverman) that got Brexit voted for and the populist transphobia they think might win them an election.

If Sunak really wants to jump on the populist GC bandwagon (and I'd love to see him tie himself in knots trying) he should not use vague soundbites like "a man is a man and a woman is a woman" - go on, Rishi, be brave enough to define what the government officially deem "man" and "woman", publicly declare that there are only two genders and tie these two terms explicitly to physiology; explaining in detail what exact biological attributes legally define sex/gender. Don't be shy. Then go and tie that definition to legal rights.

Do you have to have all five sex characteristics to be legally deemed a woman?
If not, what is the threshold/minimum amount that get you the right to be a man or woman and the correct rights, freedoms and legal status?
Is it, as Germaine Greer insists, that "women" are defined by their ability to have periods, and bear children? But that would exclude those people born XX who cannot bear children. So maybe it should be based on Chromasomes?
But since some people with XY Chromasomes are born with female physiology, and some people with XX have male physiology, is it genitals that define you?
I'd really love them to try and legislate for that. I'd also love them to say how the police and judiciary will apply those laws in practice. Will the police have the right to inspect genitals?

Sex in isogamous species refers to gamete support. Males develop towards support for small gametes, females towards support for large.

Transwomen are males.

KevinTurveyIsMissed · 05/10/2023 08:19

PatchouliOilandRoses · 05/10/2023 06:26

This!
It's shocking that an intact male in a dress can follow my 13 year old daughter into the toilet unchallenged.

If a man followed me into the women’s toilets I think (if he were with me) that I’d ask my husband to deal with it. He’s as aware of the difference between men and women as I am, and as unhappy at men invading female single-sex spaces.

Arthurnewyorkcity · 05/10/2023 08:25

I agree op. Also not a tory.
It's madness now. I have a good transwoman friend. I can't begin the imagine the torment of being born in the wrong gender. She lives her authentic self as she should. I don't care if someone identifies as a man, woman, neither, both or the kitchen sink. It's up to them. Live your life and be happy for others.
I do mind when those born with biological differences (as sympathetic as I am) choose to prioritise themselves whilst ignoring rest of society. My transwoman friend doesn't use the women toilets. She hasn't transitioned (currently raising funds to try go private) and transwomen don't walk round with signs saying they have. It makes the rest of those non trans women feel uncomfortable and fearful. Why can't there be basic respect for that? Surely it works both ways. Why can't a disabled toilet be used if they feel uncomfortable going in the wrong toilets?
Caitlyn jenner (previously bruce jenner) famously said those born in male gender shouldn't be able to compete in female sports and rightly so. Some of the transcommunity attacked this. They're born with a biological advantage whether they like that fact or not.
Transpeople can have rights protected whilst respecting others rights too. I just can't imagine the bravery of someone saying I was born in the wrong gender then kicking off being asked to use the those toilets as it makes the majority of biological women feel safer. Transpeople surely know very well what feeling unsafe is like. I wonder do they also feel unsafe in men's or is it just about stomping their feet and this is my gender? Thankfully many transpeople aren't like this and those who want to live their life in peace are usually the ones not making this their hill to die on.
I think the transcommuinty are doing a disservice to themselves as the average joe will not get behind their movements like this.

cheezncrackers · 05/10/2023 08:26

I'm glad he said it because it throws down the gauntlet to to Labour and the Lib Dems to defend their (indefensible) position that there is no such thing as a woman, and the word 'woman' cannot and should not be defined because it's 'transphobic' to do so. Fuck that shit! I'm so tired of hearing politicians on the left squirm and refuse the answer the question 'What is a woman?'. They all know damn well what a woman is. Half of them are women and most of the other half are in relationships with women. But none of them have a spine in their bodies and are prepared to say 'A woman is an adult human female'.

Arthurnewyorkcity · 05/10/2023 08:29

Got gender and sex mixed up in my previous post. Apologies

Bananasandcorn · 05/10/2023 08:30

lifeturnsonadime · 04/10/2023 23:39

I know that was in response to trans rights activists, it's not particularly making a political point.

Though please tell me what Starmer is going to do to stop this? I'm all ears.

No, you are not all ears, it wouldn't matter what i said or what Starmer/Labour said either.
I'm also not a TRA, if thats what you meant.

Properly funded and managed public services are the best way to protect female rights and spaces, all the laws etc cannot do a thing unless enforced and facilities made available but after 13 years the Tories have shown they cannot (or dont want to) give us strong public services.

I don't know if Labour will do better over time, staffing and building new Hospitals for example is a huge undertaking but at least they want to.

Bananasandcorn · 05/10/2023 08:35

cheezncrackers · 05/10/2023 08:26

I'm glad he said it because it throws down the gauntlet to to Labour and the Lib Dems to defend their (indefensible) position that there is no such thing as a woman, and the word 'woman' cannot and should not be defined because it's 'transphobic' to do so. Fuck that shit! I'm so tired of hearing politicians on the left squirm and refuse the answer the question 'What is a woman?'. They all know damn well what a woman is. Half of them are women and most of the other half are in relationships with women. But none of them have a spine in their bodies and are prepared to say 'A woman is an adult human female'.

Starmer did, months ago.

“A woman is an adult female, so let’s clear that one up,” Starmer stated resolutely, in a marked change to his previous statements on the topic

But as i said earlier, it wont change anyone's mind, he isn't allowed to have a new position.

cheezncrackers · 05/10/2023 08:40

Yes, I know Keir Starmer has adjusted his position after Labour focus groups realised in a panic that forcing their leader to say in an interview that 'some women have a penis' was a massive own goal and a huge turn-off for women voters @Bananasandcorn, but there are many others in the Labour party who haven't shifted position. Remember David Lammy with his 'women are dinosaurs hoarding rights' comment? Or Lisa Nandy and Rebecca Long-Bailey signing a 'pledge card' on trans rights before the leadership contest? Just last week the Lib Dem membership magazine had an article from a TRA denouncing GC views and calling them wrong-headed and transphobic.

AdamRyan · 05/10/2023 08:41

Creepygardengnome · 05/10/2023 00:44

This whole thing about "female-only spaces"... I'm sorry, but if a man is so f'd up that he decides to sexually assault a woman in a public toilet, he will just ignore the sign on the door and do it anyway. It's very easy to slip into a toilet when no-one's watching (there is no proper continuous surveillance in the majority of public places, even if there is CCTV) and wait for a potential victim to come in. This unfortunately happened to a friend of mine in a female toilet – no-one had noticed the (male-presenting) man come in and he hid in a cubicle. Someone who is sick enough to commit rape will be unlikely to think 'Oooh this space is female only. Oh well, better not enter then.'

Likewise, who's to say that, even if a space were truly "(biological) female only" it would be safe? Yes, there is a chance you would be sexually assaulted by an opportunist man pretending to be trans...

(which by the way I think we need to acknowledge is fundamentally different to a true trans woman – I imagine that the majority of "trans" sexual offenders don't actually privately identify as trans and that, statistically, the proportion of true trans women who are also sexual offenders is astronomically low, just because neither group makes up a particularly large proportion of the population and a small percentage multiplied by a small percentage makes an even smaller percentage)

... but you could just as well get sexually assaulted by a biological woman in that "safe space"? There are far more stories out there of female sex offenders than there are of "trans" ones.

Sorry for the bleak post, which now that I've read it back essentially outlines we're doomed regardless!

Generally I hate the Conservatives and won't vote for them for stating the obvious.

However this is just bollocks.

Here is an example of a person using trans laws to film women in a changing room

https://www.google.com/amp/s/time.com/4406869/transgender-woman-voyeurism-target/%3famp=true

Then if we believe "trans women are women" this person would be sent to a women's prison.

That is outrageous and unfair on women. We are already raped and sexually abused enough, without making it easier for predatory men.

Transgender Woman Charged With Voyeurism in Target Dressing Room

The suspect told police she made other videos in the past

https://www.google.com/amp/s/time.com/4406869/transgender-woman-voyeurism-target/%3famp=true

DrBlackbird · 05/10/2023 08:41

calling trans women men who are pretending to be women is 100% erasing trans experience. If you don’t understand this it’s because you have never taken the time to listen to or understand a trans person’s lived experience. This is the very definition of trans erasure.

Feelings are very powerful. I am interested in hearing what led you to believe you feel you are a woman and not a man. That is, why do you not feel male despite being born male and instead feel you’re a (trans) woman?

Flickersy · 05/10/2023 08:42

cheezncrackers · 05/10/2023 08:26

I'm glad he said it because it throws down the gauntlet to to Labour and the Lib Dems to defend their (indefensible) position that there is no such thing as a woman, and the word 'woman' cannot and should not be defined because it's 'transphobic' to do so. Fuck that shit! I'm so tired of hearing politicians on the left squirm and refuse the answer the question 'What is a woman?'. They all know damn well what a woman is. Half of them are women and most of the other half are in relationships with women. But none of them have a spine in their bodies and are prepared to say 'A woman is an adult human female'.

Clearly you've never heard of Rosie Duffield.

People keep coming out with this guff like Rishi Sunak is the only person ever to say it.

He's not.

mumda · 05/10/2023 08:42

Expect civil service disquiet on this.

EasternStandard · 05/10/2023 08:43

Flickersy · 05/10/2023 08:42

Clearly you've never heard of Rosie Duffield.

People keep coming out with this guff like Rishi Sunak is the only person ever to say it.

He's not.

And look how RD was treated by Labour

Not good for them

Flickersy · 05/10/2023 08:44

EasternStandard · 05/10/2023 08:43

And look how RD was treated by Labour

Not good for them

Yes, but the point I was responding to was that no-one on the left is prepared to say it, which is demonstrably untrue.

cheezncrackers · 05/10/2023 08:44

I have heard of Rosie Duffield @Flickersy and I think she's great, but she's one politician in the Labour party in a sea of 'transwomen are women' colleagues. Politicians on the left who are openly GC (Joanna Cherry of the SNP is another) are rare.

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