Go to any college or Uni campus in 2023 and you will find the students are overwhelmingly in support of gay and trans rights, and any "TERFs" are in the minority. Look at the protests against Stock TERF teacher for example.
The ones who disagree are too scared to speak out. TRAs leverage make privilege to issue violent threats and intimidation. And there are many more young people who just find it all excruciatingly fun-sapping and dull and just keep away.
This is all enabled by people with considerable power and influence, most of whom would be deemed irrelevantly old to someone as ageist as you.
Do you never stop and wonder why trans rights ideology is accepted so uncritically by the Police, the criminal justice system, financial institutions, big businesses, media, civil service, government and academia? I mean, it's incredible isn't it?!
Look around at our world. Are we suddenly living in utopia?
Or, is trans rights ideology a men's rights movement in disguise, which offers absolutely no threat to the patriarchal status quo, allowing the powerful to appear conscientious with no skin off their noses?