@Teenagehorrorbag
I understand that you have been unexposed to the real motivations of these males. There will be some males who suffer from gender disphoria. However, even amongst those are males who respect female people and will use toilets that are not female single sex toilets.
Some Others insist because it
validates them. I can post numerous threads on this board where males have posted stating they fully understand women and girls are distressed, but they will never stop using female single sex spaces.
Some males use the female single sex spaces because it heightens their arousal for whatever sexual fetish they might have. It could be envisioning themselves as a woman or it could be another sexual need they have.
Some males have such a significant hatred of women saying no, this is all the motivation they need. There are plenty of males filming themselves in female single sex spaces making threats, carrying weapons, or showing their penises as some kind power move over women. Twitter has plenty, we cannot post them here.
Once you realise the various motivations, it really sinks in that you cannot tell what the motivation is for that male to be there. They don’t were signs at all. So the only thing left is a full exclusion, knowing that not all are like that, but plenty are so this is the safest and fairest option - full exclusion.
Please look up WiSpa, this thread pulled together a great deal of information as it came to light. Including two previous incidents involving children. All with semi arousals. The male individual in the June 21 incident was finally captured and was a known sex offender. It was further clouded by police reports of a ‘woman’, that they were looking for. Was it the same male all three times? I have never found that out.
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/womens_rights/4281706-pushback-at-wi-spa-in-los-angeles
And here is a more recent one in Canada
https://reduxx.info/exclusive-trans-woman-confronted-by-mother-in-swimming-pool-locker-room-is-a-convicted-pedophile/
Once you start to see them, there are many reports out there.
There was a person who also started to collect the growing number of male individuals who filmed themselves masturbating, complete with their estrogen or cosmetically enhanced breasts, in female toilets. Their penises were fully functional. In some you could hear mothers toileting their children in the background. Twitter banned that person and the links disappeared.
Then you have the women’s reports about Lia Thomas’ reaction in the changing rooms. Google will bring up many articles and videos. In amongst it was at least one woman stating that Thomas was fully intact and semi aroused. Now I believe that Thomas is currently in a male homosexual relationship (they both call themselves lesbians) so, this has some likelihood of being a male aroused by being believed to be female.
This male below was not allowed in the shared showers or toilets. However, witnessed the young women in various states of undress and those women have commented on this male individual’s state of arousal. This male was allowed in the women’s single sex space and used it for sexual gratification.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12087465/amp/University-Wyoming-sorority-sisters-say-feel-vulnerable-trans-woman-peeps-them.html