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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The amount of women condoning prostitution

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Thatgirl1981 · 12/07/2023 19:52

Well I seen it all now when your told
well maybe they enjoyed seeking explicit pictures on line

and all the young people do it

someone is on drugs is selling pictures of themselves to fund that habit parents are in disparate because consent is given then morals be dammed

I often wonder if you consent to be murdered people who just say well they consented 🤷🏿‍♂️

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Thatgirl1981 · 16/07/2023 10:36

AdamRyan · 16/07/2023 10:17

And society moving to this position: a matter of quietly condoning one's own dirtiness while fuming at the dirtiness of others, it's time to step back and engage in more reasoning, less emotion. and labelling people who do question other peoples sexual behaviours as "prudes" or "kink shaming" is why men get away with rape even when they've left physical damage. Or even murder. "She likes it rough, m'lud".

Amen we have gotten here because we have been able to state that not all relationships are equal
and that this anything gose do as you feel literally has consequences

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Thatgirl1981 · 16/07/2023 10:39

It can be preferable to discuss these issues in general terms, especially when the details of the behaviour are very unclear and had only been "reported" by a notorious scandal rag.

they are not unclear the picture of him with his penis out is all over the internet so what you mean to say is you haven’t seen the pictures I have and they are grim and if some guy was sending my son pictures like that he would lucky if all my husband did was lodge a complaint with the sun

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TommyNever · 16/07/2023 10:44

AdamRyan · 16/07/2023 10:17

And society moving to this position: a matter of quietly condoning one's own dirtiness while fuming at the dirtiness of others, it's time to step back and engage in more reasoning, less emotion. and labelling people who do question other peoples sexual behaviours as "prudes" or "kink shaming" is why men get away with rape even when they've left physical damage. Or even murder. "She likes it rough, m'lud".

I'm not labelling anyone as "prudes" and in the HE case, I don't think women were involved. In fact I don't know what was involved except a middle-aged man apparently paying for porn involving a younger man, a fairly commonplace example of sexual behaviour that doesn't seem to warrant the accusations of being exceptionally "disgusting".

As to how this affected his marital relationship, again, I know nothing about it. There are many different attitudes to extra-marital sex, viewing of porn etc amongst married couples.

But you seem to agree that human sexuality is burdened with many highly problematic behaviours, particularly by men. This is why I sympathise with the view that working towards a future free of sexuality (or at least male sexuality) is a worthy ideal.

AdamRyan · 16/07/2023 11:47

TommyNever · 16/07/2023 10:44

I'm not labelling anyone as "prudes" and in the HE case, I don't think women were involved. In fact I don't know what was involved except a middle-aged man apparently paying for porn involving a younger man, a fairly commonplace example of sexual behaviour that doesn't seem to warrant the accusations of being exceptionally "disgusting".

As to how this affected his marital relationship, again, I know nothing about it. There are many different attitudes to extra-marital sex, viewing of porn etc amongst married couples.

But you seem to agree that human sexuality is burdened with many highly problematic behaviours, particularly by men. This is why I sympathise with the view that working towards a future free of sexuality (or at least male sexuality) is a worthy ideal.

I agree many men exhibit problematic sexual behaviours. Women tend not to, to the same extent. Many men seem to be exploitative of those with less power and happy to get an orgasm from someone who is being harmed emotionally or physically in the process. It doesn't actually matter the gender of the other person, what matters is the man's attitude.

It's pretty telling that you see mens "problematic behaviours" as an immutable part of male sexuality and therefore the answer is a future free of sexuality(!). I think there are plenty of men out there that don't have these problematic behaviours and so the answer is for us not to tolerate it.

I guess if I think about your position that it is immutable, maybe the answer is to try to breed the tendency out. A bit like aggression in dogs. We could just vasectomise all the men who so these things so they don't pass on the immutable "problematic behaviour" genes to their male offspring.

CurlewKate · 16/07/2023 15:11

I am quite happy to condemn, either collectively or individually, anyone who pays for consent. Or who thinks paying for consent is OK.

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