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Emotionalsupportviper · 05/07/2023 21:51

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 20:02

Please stop spreading miss-information. Children are not and should not be given anything other than puberty blockers until they are 18. Anyone giving surgeries to Trans children or other HRT products are doing so illegally. Puberty blockers are reversible so the only issue is the delay caused by puberty blockers which isn't insignificant but is no where near as bad as it's made out to be.

Puberty blockers are reversible

No they aren't. NHS has revised their guidelines on this. At best the effects are unknown, at worst they are dangerous. Animal trials have shown blockage in brain development which is irreversible.

Many stages in body and brain development have to occur within a "window" of developmental opportunity, and if this is missed the developments don't occur. It isn't known what happens if an individual doesn't get the pubertal surge of appropriate sex hormones.

Almost all children on blockers progress to cross-sex hormones. Nothing is known about the long-term effects on the body - not least because most patients haven't been properly followed up, but those that have been suggest that effects on the body are not good.

Ourladycheesusedatum · 05/07/2023 21:51

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 21:46

Again

THEY ARE MEN IT IS NOT WOMEN'S PROBLEM TO SORT

Ooh we needs a like button, just for the bigly words.

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 21:52

Sorry they just slipped out!

Froodwithatowel · 05/07/2023 21:52

Oh for goodness sake.

No, I do not want to share a space where I am undressed with any male. How that male identifies is irrelevant, I may sympathise with gender needs but I do not hold a belief that a male changes sex or is ever anything other than a male.

Many women (biological women) can only access single sex spaces. If a male walks in, they have to walk out. Male people do not matter more than female ones. If you see male needs as trumping female ones, well if male supremacism is your thing then you do you, but I'm not supporting it or participating in it.

You have your gender neutral spaces and enjoy them, leave women who need single sex spaces in peace, we're all fine.

Unless the issue is that you wish to provide male people with validation and you're ok with collateral damage of women in the process because only women.

Btw if you identify as cis then you do you, your choice, your identity, but please don't forcibly label other women, they have identities and beliefs too.

RavingStone · 05/07/2023 21:53

Yes 90% of "males" as you call Trans Women still have a penis because the NHS doesn't care to fund GRS properly

Er I think some of that 90% are rather keen on keeping their penises. Source: far too many social media posts of bulges & boners in clothing not designed to cope.

Now I've completed my bingo card I can save my dabber for my eyes next time I see one of the above on twitter.

Boomboom22 · 05/07/2023 21:53

I don't believe they believe what they are saying. How can anyone? They are just trying to be contrary and upset women they think are like their mum or reacher.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 21:55

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 21:35

Yes 90% of "males" as you call Trans Women still have a penis because the NHS doesn't care to fund GRS properly. In what universe can a cis man instantly tell if a passing trans woman has a penis or not and in what world will a cis man treat a trans woman always with the same dignity and respect. Trans Women also experience misogyny whether you believe that or not. Understand that most men also don't consider passing trans women as MEN, such a shock I know.
Now finally consider that Trans Women aren't going to use the urninal in favour of a stall because to be quite frank it would be humiliating. So every single part of what you just explained breaks down instantly when u actually think about it

Fuck. Do you ever read your posts back and think… nah.. this doesn’t make sense.

So, how does a male (please stop using ‘cis’) know if another male has a penis in a toilet? Ummm…. The use of a urinal? And they do use them because some of them are up front about using them.

Either way, it doesn’t matter whether they use the urinal or not.

you missed the part that was ‘only males would enter so all male people would know that was a gender non-conforming male. Did you just skip that part?

And you don’t believe that ‘males’ can be educated to treat other males better? why do you believe that those males who are ‘rejected’ would treat any female better than all those males who couldn’t be trained to respect all human beings? Did a ‘male’ switch get turned off that makes transitioned males better behaved?

Understand that most men also don't consider passing trans women as MEN, such a shock I know.

Who the fuck convinced you of that? How many heterosexual males will fuck a transitioned male?

Ourladycheesusedatum · 05/07/2023 21:55

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 21:48

Yes because the UK have made it incredibly hard to obtain any form of Gender Affirming care despite the amount of Transgender and non-binary people coming out increasing rapidly to a breaking point.

This doesn't matter because I still don't want to share spaces with them. And there we have it, the real reason you don't want to make any meaningful change.

If nothing will prevent a tw entering a single sex female space, what's to stop men?
You just made the point that there are vanishingly few Trans Women who pass even though you wouldn't know which Trans Women pass because well they pass. So stop them from entering these spaces and watch as passing Trans Men enter these spaces instead because it's required by law. That definitely wont complicate things and make us Cisgender Women feel incredibly unsafe.

What about prison? When women are getting pregnant in prison, something has gone terribly wrong. The laws around prisons changed in 2019 and as long as self ID isn't introduced this will continue to not be an issue.

God are you trying to shame women into letting men in single sex spaces?
Hows that working out so far?

Give us some photos and videos of tw you think pass. And tm for that matter.

And no more cis, I'm not a sub section of woman.

RavingStone · 05/07/2023 21:55

As an aside, I think there ought to be a charity for women who identify as cis. It strikes me that they're probably extremely vulnerable.

Froodwithatowel · 05/07/2023 21:56

Its reminding me somewhat of those threads that go "my MiL has burned down the house, eaten the children and tied me naked to the chimney, AIBU to tell her to leave?" and someone will say reproachfully, "it's obvious you don't like her".

And you're left thinking..... wtf?

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 21:57

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:44

Yes 90% of "males" as you call Trans Women still have a penis because the NHS doesn't care to fund GRS properly

The NHS can barely manage to fund cancer care properly, which is a rather more pressing concern than having an elective procudure to remove a healthly, functioning body part.

It's not an issue of funding it's an issue of gatekeeping and the astronomical amount of time spent processing Transgender and non-binary people.

It's the same with asylum claims into the UK. The government does not have enough trained specialists to process claims but surprisingly enough diagnosing someone for Gender Dysphoria is incredibly probing and most Transgender People lie anyway after waiting for 4-5 years because why would you tell the truth after waiting so long. It's pointless.

Living as your desired gender for 2 years is a much better measurement and gives a better assumption of if a person is happy living as they are.

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:58

I personally don't think that removing healthly body parts is something that should be done using public funds at all.

Froodwithatowel · 05/07/2023 21:59

It's wonderful if they're happy.

They still can't deprive women of equality of access and needed single sex spaces.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:01

JudgeAnderson · 05/07/2023 21:58

I personally don't think that removing healthly body parts is something that should be done using public funds at all.

Well you're not a Trans Man so that makes sense. It's like trying to describe depression to someone who has never had it. It's impossible

DialSquare · 05/07/2023 22:03

Is anyone else getting deja vu?

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 22:04

Boiledbeetle · 05/07/2023 21:46

Again

THEY ARE MEN IT IS NOT WOMEN'S PROBLEM TO SORT

oohh! Nice biglys!

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:05

Ourladycheesusedatum · 05/07/2023 21:55

God are you trying to shame women into letting men in single sex spaces?
Hows that working out so far?

Give us some photos and videos of tw you think pass. And tm for that matter.

And no more cis, I'm not a sub section of woman.

I'm not trying to shame women. I'm happy using GN spaces. I feel safer in them when they are done right. When done wrong they can be terrifying. Trying to probe someone by there sex characteristics is impossible at the moment so trying to do so is essentially pointless.

Emotionalsupportviper · 05/07/2023 22:06

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 20:21

Honestly just look up the type of offenders who commit these crimes. Really look, not just skim, look at this evidence and decide for yourself because i've spent time looking myself today and nearly all offenders committed a sexual offence as a man and later transitioned in prison or after being released. Look at the freedom of information request Kathleen Scott uses and see that all of the statistics she used are on "Transgender PEOPLE", not Trans Women, people. Then consider that these "people" haven't even had enough time get to get a gender change marker to change genders and some may never do that anyway. It is male predators.

It is male predators.

TW are male - and if any male can declare himself a woman at any time, who is to say which are "genuine" TW and which aren't?

I can't remember the exact statistics, but a much higher proportion of TiM in prisons are sex offenders than in the general, non-trans-identifying male prison population (about 3 times as many IIRC, but I am happy to be corrected),

Forwarder · 05/07/2023 22:07

It's quite flattering that an American Men's Rights activist feels the need to spend HOURS spouting gibberish on mumsnet.

Well done the gallant ladies who have fielded theys nonsense comments.

Those of us who are lucky enough to live on Terf Island know that the NHS dispenses care on the basis of need, not to make a profit. Tavistock was an aberration but that got shut down.

The genderborg is a great advert for NOT having an insurance based medical system.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:08

DialSquare · 05/07/2023 22:03

Is anyone else getting deja vu?

I'm going in circles here. It's like talking to a brick wall. I think everything that can be said about the original article has been said so this is just the thread continuing on forever.

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 22:09

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:05

I'm not trying to shame women. I'm happy using GN spaces. I feel safer in them when they are done right. When done wrong they can be terrifying. Trying to probe someone by there sex characteristics is impossible at the moment so trying to do so is essentially pointless.

Great. Go use them and we can use our single sex ones and that is great. All males who don’t wish to use the male toilet can join you and stay out of female toilets.

As I said before, you obviously have never needed a toilet for anything but urinating and defecating before. Because gender neutral toilets simply don’t work for other situations. Good for you not needing those single sex toilets! Lucky you!

PurpleBugz · 05/07/2023 22:10

RavingStone · 05/07/2023 21:55

As an aside, I think there ought to be a charity for women who identify as cis. It strikes me that they're probably extremely vulnerable.

You might be onto something brilliant with that. My only problem is 'identify as cis' when I reject the whole concept of being a sub category of women. Cis is a slur.

But a charity for cis women would be for women only at least. Would not help lesbians tho

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:10

Forwarder · 05/07/2023 22:07

It's quite flattering that an American Men's Rights activist feels the need to spend HOURS spouting gibberish on mumsnet.

Well done the gallant ladies who have fielded theys nonsense comments.

Those of us who are lucky enough to live on Terf Island know that the NHS dispenses care on the basis of need, not to make a profit. Tavistock was an aberration but that got shut down.

The genderborg is a great advert for NOT having an insurance based medical system.

If you're talking about me for the last time I am a Woman. I was born in the UK, in Hinckley if you really want to be nosey. I went to Hinckley Academy which now exists as Hinckley School. I no longer live there and i'm worried I will Dox myself so please stop

Helleofabore · 05/07/2023 22:11

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:08

I'm going in circles here. It's like talking to a brick wall. I think everything that can be said about the original article has been said so this is just the thread continuing on forever.

No, you are talking to people who have seen every single thing you have posted and we have already discussed it.

You really do seem to have thought you brought something new and original. But you really did not.

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:11

evieowlette · 05/07/2023 22:10

If you're talking about me for the last time I am a Woman. I was born in the UK, in Hinckley if you really want to be nosey. I went to Hinckley Academy which now exists as Hinckley School. I no longer live there and i'm worried I will Dox myself so please stop

If you want the name of every teacher at that school from 6 years ago and my individual opinion of each of them go ahead. If you want me to describe the female toilets and locker rooms there in vidid detail go ahead but don't call me a Man please.

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