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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"I don't give a shit about the scientific explanations. If they identify as a women, they get to compete in sports"

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EdgeOfACoin · 29/05/2023 07:17

Emma Vigeland, presenter on The Majority Report, a "progressive" internet talk radio programme and podcast, has made it crystal clear that gender identity trumps fairness when it comes to sport.

Unfortunately I'm not tech savvy enough to clip the relevant section from the show directly, but plenty of other have, including Triggernometry presenter Konstantin Kisin, who Tweeted about it. You can see the video on his Twitter page:

https://twitter.com/KonstantinKisin/status/1662390264005120001?t=3-gYh1LvSAt93Fh1N68boA&s=19

Emma has not backed down from her comments and has since mocked "terfs" for being "triggered" by her, declaring that "gender affirming care" for minors would solve all of the problems anyway:

https://twitter.com/EmmaVigeland/status/1662491715352010752

Emma has unequivocally declared that she is right on this issue.

Fascinating to see any pretence that the subject is "complicated" has gone - no, if a person with a penis wants to compete in women's sports, then that takes priority over everything else, including fairness.

As a side note, she used to be a presenter on The Young Turks and made a (very) half-hearted attempt to defend her former colleague Ana Kasparian last month after Ana lost patience with being referred to as a "birthing person". (Interestingly, Ana hasn't retreated from her own comments either.)

https://twitter.com/KonstantinKisin/status/1662390264005120001?s=19&t=3-gYh1LvSAt93Fh1N68boA

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RayonSunrise · 30/05/2023 07:21

The crocodile tears about transwomen being "excluded from sport" when they are always welcome to join the correct sex category continues to annoy me. We are talking about a small group of males who have self-identified as women, and self-excluded from men's categories, and are now so entitled they are demanding females smooth their way and make sacrifices to help them realise ALL their fantasies.

No thank you.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 30/05/2023 07:25

PorcelinaV · 29/05/2023 21:34

Just noticed this article:

https://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/columnist/nancy-armour/2023/05/28/espn-sam-ponder-calls-bigotry-fairness-in-tweets-about-trans-women-sports/70262521007/

Don’t be fooled by the people who screech about "fairness" to cloak their bigotry toward transgender girls and women, the transgender girls and women who have the audacity to want to play sports, in particular.

This is, and always was, about hate, fear and ignorance....

What a stupid comment. They can play sports, in the correct category for them, their biological sex. It's not bigotry to protect women's sports.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 30/05/2023 08:08

Well, women like Emma believe they have something in common with males with a femme gender identity.

I would love for them to tell me what they imagine it is, but somehow, despite being so sure about it, they never can.

literalviolence · 30/05/2023 08:32

PermanentTemporary · 29/05/2023 18:30

But if gender really is irrelevant then I think that's important to grapple with.

I do think that organisers should be able to have Hurricane rides (or whatever) that are female only - and should be able to hold and advertise those rides without being attacked or cancelled. But yes, having something called Breeze rides that is for any person with a female body or a femme gender who doesn't feel confident in a main-club ride - I genuinely think we should be able to see that without starting to talk about dark motivations of the riders. I think this requires change from GC people too.

For many women, what you suggest is just mixed sex though. Can you not see that's a problem? Even if the males involved are TW who are not getting off on it. Makes no difference to me whether its my husband or a non agp TW. Both male. Why bother with a female and femme gender category when only a few people will feel its anything other than fully mixed?

literalviolence · 30/05/2023 08:35

PermanentTemporary · 29/05/2023 12:41

Well there are still protests about TW joining Breeze rides, which are explicitly about promoting inclusion of women in cycling clubs and aren't in themselves competitive. I think that's probably a mistake. As a GC person I need to be mindful of how to move forward, and some of that is going to be about identifying where something is about gender and people being oppressed because of their gender, and where things are about sex. If Breeze rides are promoted as a trans inclusive measure for everyone who is shut out of sport by alpha male culture, id be up for that. I personally find diluting the category of woman very difficult to accept but I can see that I might have to.

So many people don't have a gender identity. Are you happy to exclude them? Because that's where the real exclusion lies. Everyone has a sex. Only some have a gender identity. I won't qualify in any category if you segregated by gender. Thanks for that.

MargotBamborough · 30/05/2023 09:43

PermanentTemporary · 30/05/2023 06:56

Well, women like Emma believe they have something in common with males with a femme gender identity. They want to share social solidarity and enjoy a hobby together in a supportive structured environment. It seems to me perfectly reasonable that a sport should organise a ride branding that includes both, if it has no connection to competition. Hence Breeze.

Though obviously as a GC woman I'd prefer the description to be accurate. 'Women*' maybe.

They're perfectly welcome to have a shared identity with trans women if they want to.

They should get their heads together, work out what the fuck it is they are all identifying with, and come up with a word for that.

The word "woman" is taken.

nilsmousehammer · 30/05/2023 09:51

literalviolence · 30/05/2023 08:35

So many people don't have a gender identity. Are you happy to exclude them? Because that's where the real exclusion lies. Everyone has a sex. Only some have a gender identity. I won't qualify in any category if you segregated by gender. Thanks for that.

Very well explained, Literal

As soon as you make the category of 'female only' into something else, you exclude females.

And lets be honest, the sole reason you are doing it is to give men more freedom of self expression, choice and happiness.

So you are excluding women from anything, to make men as a sex class happier by providing them with the full choice of everything.

How is this not male supremacism? How is this not pandering to men at the expense of women because you see the sadness of men as a much more serious thing than the actual loss of equality and access for women?

And this is incidentally, sex based and binary thinking which makes a complete nonsense out of continuing to pretend this is because of any belief those men have changed from the male sex. It's purely because men want it and are laying on the guilt and coercion to try and make women enable them.

Add additional categories. Have a ball, add as many as are wanted and needed, I'll hold your coat. But men being sad that women have some things that men cannot own and control is something that those men are just going to have to get over. It's plain bad behaviour and it's not acceptable.

And again: you'd think someone who identified as a woman would actually care about women.

littleburn · 30/05/2023 10:24

She's American I think? Males competing in women's sport is so obviously unequal and unfair, but over there admitting that puts you on the right-wing-evangelical-Trump-supporting side of the culture wars. So 'progressive' women will throw women under the bus rather than concede that, despite all evidence, water is indeed wet.

This is what it comes down to over there if you're not a Republican and why the Democrats desperately need to get real on this issue and move away from the narrative that's trans rights is the new civil rights issue.

BezMills · 30/05/2023 10:48

I guess it's a bit like that over here too? I've seen friends of mine make the arguments about the recent Scottish Parliament debates about Self-ID to the effect 'if you are on the side of the tories you need to give your head a wobble'.
They were also very put out by Kate Forbes being in the running (too socially conservative) and thinking of going to the Scottish Greens(!) if she won.
To be fair there's not been too many remarks on thosee topics since the Mr Bryson court case.

nilsmousehammer · 30/05/2023 10:53

Worth linking too to well known dysfunctional thinking patterns. The whole 'something is either all good, or all bad, and if they do one disliked thing then the whole person and everything they've ever done or will do is bad' is a typical one in someone with difficulties. It is worrying how much this political movement has attempted to normalise and push the thinking patterns tending to be symptomatic of someone who is not very well. And so often centres those with these kind of difficulties at the front of the movement.

flyingbuttress43 · 30/05/2023 11:19

Emma - hallo world - meet Violet Elizabeth Bott.

Seriously, there is no room for compromise on this. It's like you can't be a little bit pregnant. Either you are, or you're not. It really isn't complex. TRAs and their supporters are trying to make it complex because they know that, for the majority of people, it is simple and everything else is a word salad by TRAs attempting to prove the impossible.

MargotBamborough · 30/05/2023 11:34

BezMills · 30/05/2023 10:48

I guess it's a bit like that over here too? I've seen friends of mine make the arguments about the recent Scottish Parliament debates about Self-ID to the effect 'if you are on the side of the tories you need to give your head a wobble'.
They were also very put out by Kate Forbes being in the running (too socially conservative) and thinking of going to the Scottish Greens(!) if she won.
To be fair there's not been too many remarks on thosee topics since the Mr Bryson court case.

Well that's just a classic case of playing the ball, not the man, isn't it?

I judge people based on what they say and do, not what label they use about themselves.

I'd have replied saying, "If you're on the side of the people who think women can have penises, you need to give your head a wobble."

MargotBamborough · 30/05/2023 11:39

littleburn · 30/05/2023 10:24

She's American I think? Males competing in women's sport is so obviously unequal and unfair, but over there admitting that puts you on the right-wing-evangelical-Trump-supporting side of the culture wars. So 'progressive' women will throw women under the bus rather than concede that, despite all evidence, water is indeed wet.

This is what it comes down to over there if you're not a Republican and why the Democrats desperately need to get real on this issue and move away from the narrative that's trans rights is the new civil rights issue.

The thing I find so enraging is when they say we are on the same side as the people who want to take away women's right to have an abortion.

Firstly, we are not in America and no one in the UK is seriously trying to take away women's right to have an abortion. There is no mainstream political movement trying to do that here which must be opposed at all costs.

Secondly, the fact that the political right in America has been so successful in trying to take away women's right to have an abortion, and the fact that the political left in America doesn't believe female people need a word for themselves or should be allowed to define themselves in a way that some men are unhappy with ARE NOT UNCONNECTED.

Feminism is failing in America precisely because American "feminists" are more concerned with gender theory than they are with the real lives of real women.

georgarina · 30/05/2023 12:31

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 29/05/2023 08:52

I think the operative words in that clip are
‘I don’t give a shit’

that woman doesn’t care about sport and is incapable of empathy for women who do

The thing is, this woman is actually a male sports commentator. She is very much involved in sports. Just feels that it's acceptable to exclude women from them, apparently.

georgarina · 30/05/2023 12:32

^same with Megan Rapinoe, who responded to the trans sports debate with 'Sports aren't the most important thing in life.' I guess, meaning that women should be ok with losing out, then.

littleburn · 30/05/2023 12:40

BezMills · 30/05/2023 10:48

I guess it's a bit like that over here too? I've seen friends of mine make the arguments about the recent Scottish Parliament debates about Self-ID to the effect 'if you are on the side of the tories you need to give your head a wobble'.
They were also very put out by Kate Forbes being in the running (too socially conservative) and thinking of going to the Scottish Greens(!) if she won.
To be fair there's not been too many remarks on thosee topics since the Mr Bryson court case.

I agree. I was just thinking that in the U.K. we do at least have some political figures on the left (such as Rosie Duffield and Joanna Cherry) who have consistently and publicly opposed this ideology. Albeit they suffer terribly for it. Plus Labour seem to be signalling a possible shift away from the TWAW group think ...

As far as I'm aware, this just isn't the case in the States, so even as the evidence mounts against trans ideology, it's harder for progressives to make that ideological u-turn on the issue and so they end up doubling down. Not that I'm making excuses for this idiot, but I can see how it happens.

MargotBamborough · 30/05/2023 12:44

georgarina · 30/05/2023 12:32

^same with Megan Rapinoe, who responded to the trans sports debate with 'Sports aren't the most important thing in life.' I guess, meaning that women should be ok with losing out, then.

If sports aren't the most important thing in life then surely trans women can stay out of them, or compete in the correct sex category.

MargotBamborough · 30/05/2023 12:44

littleburn · 30/05/2023 12:40

I agree. I was just thinking that in the U.K. we do at least have some political figures on the left (such as Rosie Duffield and Joanna Cherry) who have consistently and publicly opposed this ideology. Albeit they suffer terribly for it. Plus Labour seem to be signalling a possible shift away from the TWAW group think ...

As far as I'm aware, this just isn't the case in the States, so even as the evidence mounts against trans ideology, it's harder for progressives to make that ideological u-turn on the issue and so they end up doubling down. Not that I'm making excuses for this idiot, but I can see how it happens.

I'm very dubious about these mutterings from Labour. Nothing short of an unequivocal "we got it wrong" and "we will not introduce self ID" is going to cut it for me.

Saschka · 30/05/2023 12:55

PermanentTemporary · 29/05/2023 10:44

The male person who competed in the Cambridge University reserve rowing crew in 2015 apparently now identifies as nonbinary. It was painful for me to read about them because i was in that squad years ago at the very borderline - one male body would have excluded me, which would have meant a very different life path.

Emma's statement doesn't mention what she thinks should happen for those identifying as nonbinary. I wonder if on reflection she would say that having an open category would be positive for everyone - whatever she thinks about the female category. In which case there is at least a small area of common ground here to build on.

Non-binary people should all compete in the female category, regardless of natal sex, or they might not win. Duh!

Emma may not care about sports, but competing athletes assuredly do, and mostly want to win.

littleburn · 30/05/2023 13:00

@MargotBamborough I'm highly cynical about it too! I guess what I'm saying is at a very broad level - and in comparison with the States - there is at least some public airing of a diverse range of views and opinions on this issue on the Left in the U.K. (Not for a minute minimising the cost to individuals who don't tow the TWAW line though). Whereas in the States that space doesn't even exist to begin with - there's no middle way between the extremes. So progressives will minimise, deflect and ultimately throw women under the bus rather than question TWAW.

MargotBamborough · 30/05/2023 13:05

littleburn · 30/05/2023 13:00

@MargotBamborough I'm highly cynical about it too! I guess what I'm saying is at a very broad level - and in comparison with the States - there is at least some public airing of a diverse range of views and opinions on this issue on the Left in the U.K. (Not for a minute minimising the cost to individuals who don't tow the TWAW line though). Whereas in the States that space doesn't even exist to begin with - there's no middle way between the extremes. So progressives will minimise, deflect and ultimately throw women under the bus rather than question TWAW.

Ah, well compared to the US, sure. But there's still a long way to row back from this insanity.

Can we start by not referring to these people as progressives, when they are anything but?

WarriorN · 30/05/2023 13:48

Sorry haven't read full thread, but just saw trans woman Katy Went being very rational about women's only sports, having U turned (and open about saying so) as well as slamming Bridges' drama about British cycling's policy on times radio.

WarriorN · 30/05/2023 13:50

We should be able to discuss this without the hyperbole and drama

WarriorN · 30/05/2023 13:58

It's when you consider sport that the issues with the whole idea around non binary are revealed.

Some think it's the more reasonable version of trans. I think it's a wolf in sheep's clothing.

Non binary women compete in the women's teams.

Non binary men all shuffle over to the women's teams too.

It's just as harmful a category as transwoman and transman in terms of health, well being, fairness and safety for females.