I've said it before, the government needs to come up with some kind of PSHE syllabus, that is rolled out to every school in the country, adjusted for age.
Included in that should be the way that children, and parents, are groomed. What boundary pushing looks like. An example of a mental checklist with things like 'might this be inappropriate'.
Not everyone understands safeguarding. Hell, I learnt tons of it from Lang Cleg on this very board.
The woman on that programme seemed to think that if no one was actually taking her child, then there was no harm done. It's the very definition of boundary pushing.
People seem reluctant to be critical, or judgemental, or say the word paedophile. We seem to have already been groomed not to speculate, just in case we are wrong.
Whereas safeguarding, as I understand it, assumes everyone is wrong, and it's not personal, you just have to all go through the same assessment.
being suspicious needs to become more acceptable.