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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Experiences of a Trans Person

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invalide · 27/02/2023 16:11

I think it might be healthy to document here the experiences of someone from the other side, and for you to pay it some mind.

I'm an early-twenties STEM student working in renewable energies, and outside of my course I'm a photographer and musician. I've travelled a fair amount and adore my home country of Scotland. Living in Glasgow, I have found a queer community of beautiful people who create a joy to everyday life I treasure.

At the beginning of this month there was a 'Let Women Speak' rally held here that some of you here attended; I have seldom felt more unwelcome and stripped of dignity than while in your crowd, carrying out my photojournalistic duties (images 1&2). While capturing Kellie-Jay Keen pathologising my friends as subhuman perverts and members of the crowd flaunting their homophobia and their use of dogwhistles (subliminal far-right messaging) I was being brazenly looked up and down, receiving steely gazes and pursed lips and hushed whispers behind my back. While photographing the first speaker after Keen, who began her piece portraying autistic people as children devoid of agency, I was approached by one of you who made it clear I looked too queer for their liking and was squaring up for assault. I made my way out at this point (captured at 8:42 here and 9:09 here).
The atmosphere your movement brought to George Square was one I've only before experienced while documenting far-right rallies in Eastern Europe, where I have been hounded through the streets and beaten up for the same reason. I assure you, your ideology would feel very much at home there.

At the other side of the square things couldn't have been more different, you were bathed in colour and music and hugs and laughter, the place is full of friends dancing and dressed resplendent in whatever camp pretty things they felt like (images 2&3).

Ours was a crowd of locals; I strained to hear a Glasgow accent in yours.

Ours is a city that at short notice manages to fill the top of Buchanan Street (image 5) in solidarity with the queer community - the last time I saw it like this was during COP26. It's one that fills George Square in a candlelit vigil for Brianna Ghey.

Your movement has meant I'm called a pervert and a groomer while going about my average daily life. Our morally vacuous, increasingly fascist political class (thinking also of Magnus Hirschfeld and of Martin Niemöller's famous poem) is picking up what you've started and they're running with it. You may not call yourself a homophobe, a white nationalist or an antisemite, but you're sitting awfully comfortably considering that those that do find your movement incredibly attractive.

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Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2023 10:29

This is the point at which Empress usually tells us that ducks have cork screw penises.

And drakes are rapey bastards. I was actually looking for that thread to post Grin

BoreOfWhabylon · 01/03/2023 10:43

Helleofabore · 01/03/2023 09:09

Just to clarify, this entitled male poster yesterday re-enacted their deliberate incursion into a women’s area to show women that they, the poster, could do so and women are powerless.

In Glasgow, this poster likely wandered across from the protest group and women picked that up and reacted the only way they could to having a camera in their faces recording them. They gave this male a ‘steely and brazen’ gaze and whispered.

On MN, this poster delighted in telling women they had accessed a space where women were scared and intimidated and deliberately walked through as a protestor. This poster then told women they should expect and accept violence because they, as women, said no.

And posted links with hidden URL which some posters found had trackers on.

It is very clear what the intention of this OP was.

This is was the continuation of the deliberate and direct intimidation they started in Glasgow.

Don't forget also screenshotting and posting on his Twitter. Probably in an attempt to boost his pathetic number of followers and promote his 'journalist' ambitions. That would be the Ben Hunte school of journalism, of course.

gamerchick · 01/03/2023 11:08

It's pretty obvious it was posted for screen shots. Any deletions can be again seen as 'proof' of whatever they're complaining about atm.

SqueakyDinosaur · 01/03/2023 11:09

I am always reminded of the great line in The Pursuit of Love:

"Ducks can only copulate", said Linda, "in running water. Good luck to them."

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:19

TheBiologyStupid · 01/03/2023 10:28

Fun fact: mallard drakes grow a new penis each mating season.
www.popsci.com/duck-penis-social-pressure/

Their sexual behaviour isn't very pleasant (a 2003 Ig Nobel Award went to a paper documenting a case of "homosexual necrophilia"...)

I wouldn't "sex a duck" if I were you, Boiled!

I'm not going anywhere near a duck I promise!

I have decided tho go with duck gender. I'm undecided on my duck pronouns however. Do I use the English version or the French?

Duck/Duck/Quack

Or

Canard/Canard/Charlatan

Such hard decisions.

SinnerBoy · 01/03/2023 11:22

Oh, very good, Boiled!

Mallard drakes have grey and dark plumage, with a bright green head and yellow bill, wheres the ducks have dowdy, tawny and dark plumage.

TheBiologyStupid · 01/03/2023 11:25

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:19

I'm not going anywhere near a duck I promise!

I have decided tho go with duck gender. I'm undecided on my duck pronouns however. Do I use the English version or the French?

Duck/Duck/Quack

Or

Canard/Canard/Charlatan

Such hard decisions.

So now it's LGBTQUACK+? I'm struggling to keep up (not for the first time).

SinnerBoy · 01/03/2023 11:26

SqueakyDinosaur · Today 10:03

WHY would you turn up in a group and at an event that you know is very much opposed to one part of how you view the world, and expect to be welcomed?

It's a bit like Wee Timmy Robertson turning up at an Eid dinner, with a camera and "wondering" why everyone was looking and someone asking him to leave.

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:26

SinnerBoy · 01/03/2023 11:22

Oh, very good, Boiled!

Mallard drakes have grey and dark plumage, with a bright green head and yellow bill, wheres the ducks have dowdy, tawny and dark plumage.

Why thank you for the very informative post. The only birds i tend to see these days are dead half eaten and either dumped on my sleeping form or left right by my slippers leaving me to do Victor Meldrew impersonations when I get up for an early morning pee!

SinnerBoy · 01/03/2023 11:27

Are you some sort of Night Walker?

lifeturnsonadime · 01/03/2023 11:27

TheBiologyStupid · 01/03/2023 11:25

So now it's LGBTQUACK+? I'm struggling to keep up (not for the first time).

Very good!

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:29

SinnerBoy · 01/03/2023 11:27

Are you some sort of Night Walker?

Yes!
😴😬

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:30

TheBiologyStupid · 01/03/2023 11:25

So now it's LGBTQUACK+? I'm struggling to keep up (not for the first time).

👏👏👏

IcakethereforeIam · 01/03/2023 11:35

You can tell male domestic ducks (of the entirely white variety) because they have curly tail feathersSmile

Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2023 11:37

Where else do you learn so many interesting facts?

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:39

I'm just suspicious...why do so many know so much about how to sex a duck and their corkscrew mating habits.

You lot are seriously sick puppies!

MrsJamin · 01/03/2023 11:40

This was a quacking thread alright 🦆

IcakethereforeIam · 01/03/2023 11:40

See

Experiences of a Trans Person
Ereshkigalangcleg · 01/03/2023 11:41

Oh yes, so he does.

TheBiologyStupid · 01/03/2023 11:43

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:39

I'm just suspicious...why do so many know so much about how to sex a duck and their corkscrew mating habits.

You lot are seriously sick puppies!

At least next time that you go for a picnic and forget to bring something to open the wine with and then you spot a drake.... Now that's something Bear Grylls (sp?) doesn't teach you!

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:45

MrsJamin · 01/03/2023 11:40

This was a quacking thread alright 🦆

😁(wonders why don't I have a duck emoji?)

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:46

IcakethereforeIam · 01/03/2023 11:40

See

Well I never! So it does. So cute! Nice duck pic!

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:48

But these are much much cuter!

Experiences of a Trans Person
IcakethereforeIam · 01/03/2023 11:49

😍

Boiledbeetle · 01/03/2023 11:49

Its been a blast

Time for lunch.

I'm having duck pate on toast

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