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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

You’ve got to hand it to Gen Z!!

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MadamAndTheAnts · 10/02/2023 14:30

I know the whole transgender thing causes a lot of debate on Mumsnet. I’m not looking to stir that up here. But, regardless of where you stand, I think we all have to hand it to Gen Z for managing to freak out older generations so effectively.

Boomers spooked the Silent Generation with their love of rock n roll and the counterculture of the 60s.

Gen X framed the Boomers with acid house and rave.

Millennials were kinda lame as ‘hipster’ was little more than irony and beards.

Millennials and Gex thought they’d seen it all and were cool and tolerant.

But then came Gen Z who decided to disrupt the traditional thinking around gender. And all hell has broken loose. Gen X who thought of themselves as seriously tolerant have been massively freaked out!!!!

You have to hand it to Gen Z!!!

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/02/2023 15:49

Because that’s all those other generations did .. especially the ‘boomers’. …

They were instrumental in second-wave feminism, the sexual revolution, the counter-culture and a whole range of other anti-establishment ideas and movements.

It makes no sense to compare musical styles from other so-called generations with z’s genderism. I’m not even sure that all the movers and shakers are Z. I think many are quite a bit older.

NicolaSturgeonsSOGIbottom · 10/02/2023 15:53

OP seems rather behind the zeitgeist…

You’ve got to hand it to Gen Z!!
NicolaSturgeonsSOGIbottom · 10/02/2023 15:57

😂

Those goddamn 21 year olds, refusing to like what they are told to like!

You’ve got to hand it to Gen Z!!
KatMcBundleFace · 10/02/2023 16:00

I know my youth of drinking, shagging and bands is so old fashioned. Thank god its been replaced by being miserable in your bedroom in your mums house and cancelling video games.

Whoooo, progress.

Baaaaaa · 10/02/2023 16:09

Gen z are just the victims of a batshit fringe ideology created by boomers in a university petri dish, fermented by geX and taken mainstream and applied by millenials. The healthy gen z and gen alpha are starting to rebel against it.

Ponderingwindow · 10/02/2023 16:13

We were very explicit with our Gen Z child that there was no such thing as girl clothes or boy toys. We made sure to model an egalitarian relationship at home and spoke out about gender stereotypes when we saw them in action. We taught our daughter that women faced discrimination in the workplace because of biology and the realities of pregnancy and childrearing.

we Were legitimately shocked to learn those lessons had been rejected.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2023 16:19

OP seems rather behind the zeitgeist...

How glorious. "Radfem Baby TE*F Twitter" FTW.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2023 16:21

I don't agree that Gen Z are the biggest TRAs. It's young millennials.

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 10/02/2023 16:27

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2023 16:21

I don't agree that Gen Z are the biggest TRAs. It's young millennials.

I rather suspect OP is an older Millennial (probably round about 40 and desperately trying to feel ‘with it’).

Jeffrey Marsh type, y’know?

mollycoddle77 · 10/02/2023 16:38

Baaaaaa · 10/02/2023 16:09

Gen z are just the victims of a batshit fringe ideology created by boomers in a university petri dish, fermented by geX and taken mainstream and applied by millenials. The healthy gen z and gen alpha are starting to rebel against it.

Yes this. You are right, the boomers wrote the theory, gen X ran with it, and millennials implemented it into our societal and political structures. We can't blame one generation, this has been cooking for a long time.

FOJN · 10/02/2023 16:53

Thank god my adolescent rebellion wasn't driven and funded by billionaire white men, it looks really miserable.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 10/02/2023 17:00

My gen z’s know you can’t change sex and that some things should be segregated by sex in the interests of fairness and safety for women

thank fuck

so i agree with others on here, people of all different ages are intent on pushing this stuff through

DemiColon · 10/02/2023 17:36

nauticant · 10/02/2023 14:43

How creative of Gen Z to have come up with this themselves. Except that much of it came from some seriously dodgy people who've been pushing this stuff from the shadows for decades.

How glorious for Gen Z to have turned laws upside down. Except it was done at the behest of Dentons, is the largest multinational law firm in the world.

It's very typical. I'm reminded of Greta T and her environmental campaign, which seemed largely to be a way for older and more powerful people to manipulate politics and the press.

They are a very naive bunch of kids.

ShireWifeofNigelFarage · 10/02/2023 17:43

DemiColon · 10/02/2023 17:36

It's very typical. I'm reminded of Greta T and her environmental campaign, which seemed largely to be a way for older and more powerful people to manipulate politics and the press.

They are a very naive bunch of kids.

Totally.

Politicians can’t have a robust debate with a minor as an opponent.

Vintagevixen · 10/02/2023 17:46

Yep my Gen Z DD too knows that sex is immutable and gender woo is nonsense. As do my gen Z nieces.

I'm gen X and believe we were much less gender conforming - no punk, massive eyelashes, pumped up lips for us. We were all in dungarees and short hair/DM's

Vintagevixen · 10/02/2023 17:47

*pink

Signalbox · 10/02/2023 18:05

Has any other youth culture ever been so pandered to and medicalised and written into law. That isn’t Gen Z’s fault it’s Gen X who for some unfathomable reason lost the ability to say “no”.

Ofcourseshecan · 10/02/2023 18:29

I know. Decades of progress dumped in the bin, for what?

And I mourn for all those bright and daring teens who have jumped in at the deep end, blitzing their bodies with hormones and surgery. Cheered on by ‘friends’ who melt away when the kids realise they need help ….

All the reckless things we did at that crazy age, most of us survived without lasting damage. No chance of that for this drugged, tricked and damaged generation.

OvaHere · 10/02/2023 18:33

This is not an organic youth movement. Gen Z have had this done to them.

Toseland · 10/02/2023 18:38

Gen Z who decided to disrupt the traditional thinking around gender What!? LOL! More like GenZ has been conned into going back to 1910s genders at the behest of big pharmaceutical companies. I really wish GenZ would think for themselves and create something new, not follow this shite. This gender stuff is fake - we wouldn't be seen dead following big corporations!

RoseslnTheHospital · 10/02/2023 18:41

Ah, I was wondering if the OP was going to respond to the points made, but unsurprised to find they haven't.

I concur with the responses pointing out the idiocy in suggesting that the current youth generation have challenged the ideas around gender. As many have already have said, they are entrenching "gender" not challenging anything about gender stereotypes and gender norms.

RoaringtoLangClegintheDark · 10/02/2023 18:52

Gen Z - the first generation to have their “youth rebellion” curated for them by middle aged white male billionaires with a regressive-masquerading-as-progressive agenda that has resulted in even deeper sex inequality and more entrenched misogyny and homophobia than before, and a slew of mutilated young people.

Their “youth rebellion” directed and funded by said middle aged white males, the result of insane amounts of propaganda and top down lobbying by rich, influential people of those in positions of power and authority.

And Gen Z are the poor saps who think this is coming from them, and it’s authentic and radical and revolutionary, blissfully unaware that they’re just pawns in the game of let’s make sure wealthy middle aged white men find a way to conserve and even extend their privilege in this so-called progressive, post equality movements era.

Yay.

I think it’s heartbreaking they’ve been so misused myself, their youthful fervour, passion and idealism so corrupted and turned into a force to make the world a less safe, more hostile place for those who are truly vulnerable, all while they genuinely believe (some of them, at least) they’re doing the opposite.

The young women and girls, in particular, mobilised to fight against their own interests and enforce patriarchal authority - much like the women of Saudi and Iran who police other women’s clothing and behaviour. (Although at least those women don’t delude themselves there’s anything remotely feminist about what they’re doing.)

Heartbreaking they’ve been sold this lemon, and the extent of those who have collaborated with selling it to them: their teachers, their unis, (some of) their “liberal” parents, the NHS, the police, the unions, the CJS, the media, Hollywood, the BBC, popular culture in general - all indoctrinating them with the tenets of this neo-authoritarian quasi-religion and telling them this is the only way for modern, forward thinking young people to frame their view of the world in general and “gender” in particular.

I mean, all youth movements had some backing from the Establishment in terms of record labels, concert venues, film studios, media etc, but I don’t recall another “youth movement” that was actually promoted and enforced by the Establishment.

Weird.

RoaringtoLangClegintheDark · 10/02/2023 18:54

Ereshkigalangcleg · 10/02/2023 15:02

I know the whole transgender thing causes a lot of debate on Mumsnet. I’m not looking to stir that up here.

Interesting that you came to the "sex and gender discussions" part of Mumsnet to do so, really then.

It is, isn’t it.

Almost like the OP wasn’t posting in good faith! Shocker.

MrsTerryPratchett · 10/02/2023 19:54

Gen Z - the first generation to have their “youth rebellion” curated for them by middle aged white male billionaires with a regressive-masquerading-as-progressive agenda that has resulted in even deeper sex inequality and more entrenched misogyny and homophobia than before, and a slew of mutilated young people.

If you ignore the white and billionaire part, they aren't. The cultural revolution in China was sold as a youth movement to destroy the four 'olds': The Four Olds were: Old Ideas, Old Culture, Old Customs, and Old Habits. There are huge similarities. The way people are pilloried and shamed, threatened with violence and sacked. It's all frighteningly reminiscent.

Read your history, children.

blubberyboo · 10/02/2023 20:22

@MadamAndTheAnts

But then came Gen Z who decided to disrupt the traditional thinking around gender. And all hell has broken loose. Gen X who thought of themselves as seriously tolerant have been massively freaked out

Disrupted the traditional thinking around gender?

My TikTok is full of men dressed as a caricature of what they think a woman is: with plastered on makeup, outfits that are too young for their age and never anything a woman would wear to the office, deep voices disguised as a high pitched squeak in a poor imitation of a woman and enticing big fake smiles and nodding heads with emphasised expressions to draw in an audience

I have never met a woman like this in real life and I’m 43.

But we DID watch Lily Savage do this in the 80s …So what traditional thinking are they disrupting?

or are they just men trying to push into a woman’s world and making a complete mockery of it?

maybe they are failing to disrupt anybody’s thinking and really just copying a drag Queen from 40 years ago? Hardly new age radical really