"I'm a woman who isn't hysterical about silly nonsense. I've not been negatively impacted by trans women in any way shape or form. Your mindless bigotry is annoying and tedious."
Oh do give yourself a certificate and badge. There's probably even some sexist shop that actually has awards for non hysterical women.
Are the women who have lost out on their place in a race, competition, or in the podium hysterical?
Are the women in prisons who can't sleep at night as a convicted sex offenders lies a few metres away staring at them? The women who no longer go to classes or exercise when they used to enjoy it, because they are trying to avoid any opportunities that may give that sex offender to approach and pester them?
Are the girls (some only 16) who were forced to accept "Annie" watch them rotate slowly in paper pants and nothing else for their spray tan hysterical when they felt uncomfortable? And now on learning he was rapist awaiting trail, hysterical?
Are the parents of the child victims of Katie Dolatowski hysterical? The dad of the 10yr old who was assaulted and stripped in a women's toilets before he realised his daughter was in grave danger and stepped in? Is he hysterical or is it just women who aren't allowed to raise concerns?
I am a woman. I am not hysterical. But I am angry, and scared.
I might have a gynae cancer. I have spent a lot of time in hospital and a lot of time having intrusive, invasive and embarrassing tests. My main gynaecologist is male. He's clearly a very knowledgeable, experienced man. He's kind and respectful. But every single time he exams me, sticks all sorts of instruments into my vagina and uterus, and has me raised in a chair with my legs spread and genitalia exposed, there is a biological woman or 2 present to support me. To chaperone him and protect him from unfounded allegation, and to support me. I feel better because they are there. When they tell me what the pain or sensations may be like it rings true and I feel supported. When he tells me what the pain is like I mentally roll my eyes because he cannot know. It makes a difference. It matters to me. If those people were men who felt like women, I would feel alone, unsupported, possibly degraded and humiliated by the extreme exposure in front of males. Acknowledging and expressing that doesn't make me transphobic. I'm not hysterical.
@ElonsMusky who THE HELL are you to tell me that?
And do you know what? If you want and are comfortable with men saying they're women, entering your single sex spaces, performing your smear, your mammogram, you pelvic floor urodynamics, being in the bed next to you as you bleed vaginally and have to be helped change your pad or even have clots removed from your vagina with speculum and forceps with only a curtain between you (and no guarantee they won't be able to see and hear things as you talk about your pregnancy and sexual history), being in the shared changing rooms as you try bras on, being in the toilets as you help your tween daughter cope with her first period, degrade your age/sex grading at parkrun, be your women's officer at work or in a union, take your place on the "women in management" course at work, be there with their male socialisation and entitlement on the "women's bike maintenance" course you go on etc etc, then great for you. You go right ahead and never ask for anything single sex.
But you're still not right to take the option for single sex provision from me, my daughters and other women who want that.