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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Transmaxxing

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pattihews · 07/01/2023 15:48

Article in Unherd by Mary Harrington about 'transmaxxing', a phenomenon in which young men transition because they can, not because they have dysphoria but in some vague hope of having sex with sympathetic women.

It's reminded me of Ollie London, who assumed that just because you can do something (in his case have surgery to make him look Korean) it's okay. No ideological awareness, no ethics, just a why not? kind of attitude.

unherd.com/thepost/why-are-incels-turning-themselves-into-girls/

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EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 16:51

Wellies54 · 10/01/2023 16:39

I love all the comments above! So clear and to the point. No comment yet from ELO. Do you think 'the youth of today' have the impression that in our teens we all sat around in frilly knee length socks, doing embroidery and waiting for a husband? They really have no idea how ridiculously regressive they are in their obsession with gender stereotypes.

What is it you want a comment on?

HootyMcboob76 · 10/01/2023 17:07

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 16:51

What is it you want a comment on?

How about reading the thread?

nauticant · 10/01/2023 17:14

What is it you want a comment on?

Under what circumstances do you think it is permissible to say "I reject your asserted trans identity as simply being made-up?"

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 17:43

I think the suggestion is that women are not capable of discerning which males are 'joking' and which are in earnest about 'being a woman'. So we should wait for a male to judge and instruct us accordingly, yes?

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 17:44
  1. Men are whatever men say they are and women are whatever men say they are.

4w.pub/the-rules-of-misogyny/

Wellies54 · 10/01/2023 17:56

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 16:51

What is it you want a comment on?

How about, are Dylan Mulvaney, Canadian fake boob teacher and Karen White all equally authentic transwomen - do you believe they all have some kind of 'female brain ' in their masculine bodies? Do you think a man who has surgery, takes hormones and spends years perfecting make up, womanly mannerisms and feminine clothing because they experience severe body dysmorphia is equally a transwoman as Alex Drummond who ( rather patronizingly) thinks he's 'broadening the bandwidth of what it means to be a woman' by wearing a skirt, having a beard and knowing a bit about car mechanics? Should all or any of these people be considered women, no different to the sort who were born with wombs and ovaries?

Wellies54 · 10/01/2023 17:58

@EastLondonObserver Obviously asking for your opinion, to understand the perspective of someone who has a very different view. I have my own opinion on this!

Helleofabore · 10/01/2023 18:04

"Alex Drummond who ( rather patronizingly) thinks he's 'broadening the bandwidth of what it means to be a woman' by wearing a skirt, having a beard and knowing a bit about car mechanics"

Yeah. I always have laughed at that.

At 15/16 I was pulling my car apart with the help of a DIY manual and cleaning the spark plugs with my dad's farm tools. I used to put on some unisex trousers and brogues and a t-shirt and head to the nightclub with my mates (yes... underage but music good and no money for alcohol so was fine). Still a female!

Alex Drummond has no fucking idea what being a 'woman' means. Alex is one walking stereotype of a male who thinks they act like a woman without understanding they are just a fucking stereotype of a male's perception of what 'broadening the definition of woman' is. I think Alex needs to meet more interesting females outside the bubble they live in personally.

Helleofabore · 10/01/2023 18:06

I used to put on some unisex trousers and brogues and a t-shirt and head to the nightclub with my mates (yes... underage but music good and no money for alcohol so was fine).

Which was a play on AD's, put on a dress etc. But it was true.

(And yes, I was unlicensed. I didn't say I drove myself into town! I am not that irresponsible!)

Wellies54 · 10/01/2023 18:41

Helleofabore · 10/01/2023 18:04

"Alex Drummond who ( rather patronizingly) thinks he's 'broadening the bandwidth of what it means to be a woman' by wearing a skirt, having a beard and knowing a bit about car mechanics"

Yeah. I always have laughed at that.

At 15/16 I was pulling my car apart with the help of a DIY manual and cleaning the spark plugs with my dad's farm tools. I used to put on some unisex trousers and brogues and a t-shirt and head to the nightclub with my mates (yes... underage but music good and no money for alcohol so was fine). Still a female!

Alex Drummond has no fucking idea what being a 'woman' means. Alex is one walking stereotype of a male who thinks they act like a woman without understanding they are just a fucking stereotype of a male's perception of what 'broadening the definition of woman' is. I think Alex needs to meet more interesting females outside the bubble they live in personally.

Exactly! And I bet you didn't make a video to inform other women they could be so revolutionary too!

The thing with this transmaxxer idea is, once you allow one man to say he's actually a woman, it becomes discrimination against other men to say they can't say they're a woman too so there really is no cut off point from sensible to utterly ridiculous or plain old dangerous, from full time to part time to just trying it out for the day. ( And we can't have discrimination now, can we?)

I really am interested to find out whether those who are defending the idea of gender ideology ever reach a point where they say it's gone too far or whether they are SO determined to never be called 'transphobic' that they will literally accept any nonsense to the point that they would be fine with a guy in fetish gear teaching a reception class because it's an expression of his true self.

HootyMcboob76 · 10/01/2023 19:38

"accept any nonsense to the point that they would be fine with a guy in fetish gear teaching a reception class because it's an expression of his true self."

We're not that far away.

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EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 19:41

nauticant · 10/01/2023 17:14

What is it you want a comment on?

Under what circumstances do you think it is permissible to say "I reject your asserted trans identity as simply being made-up?"

When it’s obviously being asserted as a joke/satire.

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 19:44

Is the Canadian teacher, pictured above, satire?

Helleofabore · 10/01/2023 19:50

Why do you believe it is satire?

There is a manifesto from a Scottish group on what constitutes transphobia that looked like satire but was absolutely serious?

And wasn’t there that micro-aggression in the toilet discussion that looked like satire that was also serious. The one that said any female who left the toilet after seeing a male in their single sex toilet was transphobic.

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 19:50

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 19:44

Is the Canadian teacher, pictured above, satire?

got a link?

HootyMcboob76 · 10/01/2023 19:52

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 19:44

Is the Canadian teacher, pictured above, satire?

Not as far as I have read. Pupils claim to have been threatened with expulsion or suspension if they speak out about this (transphobic dont'cha' know).

Even if it is a hoax to prove some kind of point, it still exposes the ridiculous ideology in all it's glory.

HootyMcboob76 · 10/01/2023 19:56

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 19:50

got a link?

ELO you can easily google any number of links about this person. The Canadian School Board has defended their right to show up to school to teach children dressed like this.

"In an initial statement, defending the teacher, the school said: "As a school within the Halton District School Board (HDSB), Oakville Trafalgar High School recognises the rights of students, staff, parents/guardians and community members to equitable treatment without discrimination based upon gender identity and gender expression.
"We strive to promote a positive learning environment in schools consistent with the values of the HDSB and to ensure a safe and inclusive environment for all students, staff and the community, regardless of race, age, ability, sex, gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, ethnicity, religion, cultural observance, socioeconomic circumstances or body type/size."

Just from a random page.

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 19:56

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 19:50

got a link?

Can you not tell by looking at the photos? What is it you require to make an assessment?

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 19:59

Looks like an anti-woke absurdist protest to me, so yes, satirical.

not against any law in Canada though, as I understand it.

NecessaryScene · 10/01/2023 20:00

Can you not tell by looking at the photos? What is it you require to make an assessment?

I think this is the game where every link you offer will be right-wing or not credible, etc, and can hence will be dismissed.

If a thing isn't reported in the BBC or Guardian, does it actually happen? Deep philosophical question. Is this discussion actually happening?

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 20:00

So a male can wear fetishised breasts to teach children and it's totally fine?

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 20:00

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 19:56

Can you not tell by looking at the photos? What is it you require to make an assessment?

Well, for starters, it is a bit of photoshop/deep fake.

I see the angle your going for, but it’s not relevant in this case.

HootyMcboob76 · 10/01/2023 20:00

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 19:59

Looks like an anti-woke absurdist protest to me, so yes, satirical.

not against any law in Canada though, as I understand it.

Ah you made a judgement that THIS particular person isn't trans.
Your trans radar must be brilliant.

How, pray tell, are women supposed to use this radar in public when such a person walks into their private protected spaces, without being accused of transphobia, IF EVERYONE WHO SAYS THEY ARE TRANS ARE TRANS?

You JUST don't get it do you?

ArabellaScott · 10/01/2023 20:01

EastLondonObserver · 10/01/2023 20:00

Well, for starters, it is a bit of photoshop/deep fake.

I see the angle your going for, but it’s not relevant in this case.

I can assure you it's not fake. Nor photoshopped.