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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Women’s Equality Party votes for Self-ID

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AnonGCMum · 26/11/2022 20:37

I gather from reading Twitter that the WEP has today voted to support self ID. I’ve looked, but I can’t find the text of the motion that was voted for. Has anyone seen it? I’ve seen Sophie Walker’s open letter asking members to vote against mobile.twitter.com/SophieRunning/status/1596036529209724929

More generally, is the WEP worth getting involved with? I like the idea of a feminist party but if they’re going down the self-ID/TWAW route then it’s not for me.

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SerotinaPickeler · 29/11/2022 05:21

Cracking post Red Toothbrush and cracking thread posters! Loving the energy.

Kucinghitam · 29/11/2022 05:57

@RedToothBrush an absolutely cracking post!

Birdsweepsin · 29/11/2022 07:18

@RedToothBrush thank you for articulating the problem so well. That needs to be shouted from the rooftops

Helleofabore · 29/11/2022 07:22

RedToothBrush · 29/11/2022 00:15

Let me talk to you about this:

There is a phenomen in politics where issues that should be dealt with by mainstream politicians are neglected, leaving a vacuum in accountability.

That then tends to get filled with opportunistic extremists who take advantage of the fact that an issue is connecting with voter concerns - because there is a problem and then they manage to get airtime and space because of the failure of accountability of the main parties.

The best known example in recent years, has been the child abuse scandals in Rotherham and elsewhere.

It was noted that:
The failure to address the abuse was attributed to a combination of factors revolving around race, class, religion and gender—contemptuous and sexist attitudes toward the mostly working-class victims; lack of a child-centred focus; a desire to protect the town's reputation; and lack of training and resources.

What is notable about the concern about Self ID is the group of women, who come - often from a working class background or are non-white - who have been very firmly on the left in their politics their entire life. They've campaigned vigoursly for years about inequality and injustice on numerous subjects.

The issue here is NOT that they have aligned with the far right. The issue is that the mainstream political parties have neglected the subject and ignored public concerns in pursuit of their own agenda which is detatched from grass roots and accountability. It is NOT the women's groups who have changed their position and moved politically in anyway. It is the mainstream political parties that have decided that public concerns are not worth listening to and this created a political vacuum into which nefarious others have stepped knowing this will gain them support from disaffected voters. This goes much broader and deeper than purely about trans/women issues. Its about a breakdown in trust in the politicial classes on a number of issues and in the face of growing economic hardship.

Most of these women aren't actually interested in these charlatans coming in - they can see it for exactly what it is. A few will be attracted to it yes, but for the most part these women tend to stay in their own grouping and persue their own agenda.

The narrative on this needs to be firmly reframed into what it is: a dereliction of duty by those in power which has lead to a political vacuum which is being exploited by the far right. Women who were affected by this issue have remained constant and consistent in their views and have not changed their position. They've stood still politically whilst the political classes abandoned them.

The women who continue to fight for what they always have, have not become far right wing nuts. If you actually listen to the way they speak, and what they say - they use data analysis, they go out of their way to provide detailed information and provide evidence where they can to demonstrate the problem.

This is NOT how the far right operate. They appeal solely to emotion and use rhetoric. The difference is quited marked. Women have to PROVE something where as the far right use propaganda techniques repeatedly to appeal to the disgruntled.

I could invoke Godwin here to use another example. But I won't. Suffice to say its a repeating pattern, thats well known and being blamed on women, by the leftist political classes in an attempt to discredit them. The fact its coming particularly from the left, isn't a coincidence. Its coming from the left because its the left wing women trying to hold their own to account, and this shows up the inadequency of policy and this dereliction of duty that no one wants to take responsibility for.

Women are left with no option but to push on to expose the dereliction of duty, and that continues to empower the far right - not the other way around.

There is a very easy way for the left to deal with the far right here. It is for them to acknowledge the problem, to take control of the situation and to join calls for a massive inquiry into how we got into this fucking mess and are allowing the removal of safeguarding protocols which are putting women and girls - particularly lesbians and other minorities into a position which is endangering them and removing their ability to engage with society in a way which they had fought hard to gain in the first place.

We are in danger of reinstating the 'urinary leash' and forgetting the evidence that we have from other parts of the world where women don't have free and easy access to single sex toilets in the name of 'equality' and this faux argument about wanting to ban trans people from society. We KNOW that women are ALREADY self excluding as a result of this neglect of public interest and the imposition of hierachical dictate from above.

But obviously the trope about women aligning with the far right is much easier to swallow for the hard of thinking and deniers of accountability. Its simplistic tripe that fits easier in a thought terminating tweet.

Meanwhile, people (often women) who have historical knowledge and good understanding of data basis in science are uniting to document all this and will take every last fucker to court to demonstrate how they've dropped the bollock on this one. And they'll ultimately eventually win, because they are smart and funny and determined and about as far removed from the far fucking right as you'll ever likely to meet and because when reality makes contact with self ID you are going to get almightly scandals arise that will be impossible to ignore and trying to discredit them with this bollocks 'guilt by association' just won't wash anymore.

The political elite of the left are enabling the far right through their dereliction of duty. They abandoned the working class women. They abandoned the vulnerable and abused women. They abandoned minority women. They abandoned children. They abandoned women's sport. All because they signed up to the nonsense that a man dressed as a woman is ALWAYS below them in a victim hierachary of oppression, when the reality is very very different. And it will come back to haunt them.

I'm sorry, but anyone who comes up with this trope, is an ignorant wally who knows very little about very much at all.

yes red!

Helleofabore · 29/11/2022 08:10

MinistryofCheer · 28/11/2022 23:31

There are many posts on the threads I linked to (and on several others on this section of Mumsnet) who advocating links with the extreme right,

You know that.

I know that.

You prefer to deny it.

I'm not entirely surprised.

And readers, this is an example of a poster who cannot provide the evidence they are attempting to assure you is there.

Could this be another example of the the JK Rowling essay paradox? The one that was considered transphobic but not one person can come up with any credible answer to what was transphobic about it?

Do go and read through those links up thread. The ones that ministry seems very determined for you to read because they seem to have linked them more than once as such zealous ‘gotchas’.

What I believe you will see is adults having conversations about balanced discussions. Where adults expect there to be speakers from different viewpoints at seminars, on panels, committees and at conferences.

And that that in no way means left leaning people become far right by association.

The push to label it as ‘working with the far right’ is driven by fear of ‘impurity’.

It has gone so far that someone who holds a view that a group consider to be worthy of denigration, should be declared a hater and should never be heard.

This is a forum board on a site called ‘mumsnet’. We recognize childish behaviour when we see it.

This last doubling down by ministry is an appeal to authority that they know they don’t have.

Any poster who has the evidence they claim they have at their fingertips in such abundance could so easily copy and paste the posts with the time stamp so we could go and check the integrity of post and the full context and either agree or disagree with them. FFS it is a thread on this very board apparently, riddled with far right subversion !

Should be easy, right?

Yeah? Nah. It is easy to see the claims lack credibility. It was pretty much a given when the claims of victimhood arrived.

In this new world, words have been stripped of meaning.

‘Working with’ means having a selfie taken with some stranger.

‘personally invited’ means accepting an open public invitation.

‘unsafe’ is being within 500 m of an opinion your ‘group’ hasn’t pre-checked and approved of. Or expressing a thought of your own that has not been regurgitated from an approved thought leader.

‘fascist’ and ‘far right’ seems to be anyone who a person doesn’t agree with.

’transphobic’ has been written in what can only be labelled extreme (by any person with critical thinking ability) manifestos to be pretty much anything that disrupts some trans people getting their own way.

‘evidence’ then also becomes an amorphous blob of mist created by group think but lacking any substance at all.

And it started with:

‘Woman’ being anyone who calls themself a woman.

Thanks ministry. Your post from last night was a great display of desperate fumbling for authority.

But we can only amplify your initial request ministry, yes please readers go and read the links and see if you can find the evidence that ministry told us was there, or maybe was told was there, but failed to produce to convince anyone.

And thank you. For you did bring ‘cheer’ to the thread. We got a ripping song (thanks B!), a great post by Red, and what you may not know, posts from new readers!!!

Great job in cheering us up. Thanks ministry.

RedToothBrush · 29/11/2022 08:29

Women are being asked to explain their alignment with the far right. To prove they are not.

How about this. The politics of these women has never changed. We should be asking for a demonstration of how their politics have changed.

The far right has long put down women but suddenly has an epiphany and decides that women's sex based rights is for them. To try and gain ground and take it from the left which normally sits on this ground.

But they could only go squatting in this place because the left moved on from it. There was no space for them there before. The left say they are 'progressive' now and that your big clue. They say by their own free admission they have progressed from sex based rights to gender based rights.

So can someone explain to me in what way the women defending sex based rights have actually changed their politics? Can they demonstrate they have moved substantially on from sex based rights to ermmm... those other kind of sex based rights.

The argument of alignment with the far right falls down at this point. The shift happened around women not the other way around.

Its not so much a flat earth argument. More a 'everything revolves around the earth not the sun' argument... Whilst in reality the earth is still round and still orbits the sun.

lifeturnsonadime · 29/11/2022 10:02

@RedToothBrush

That post was just fantastic.

Helleofabore · 29/11/2022 15:48

MinistryofCheer · 27/11/2022 18:42

i read a lot of empty and angry fulmination on your links- rather like on here

is that the house style?

The fact remains that you are in a considerable minority.

Thanks goodness.

thats why there are so many pleas to pal up with the extreme right.

Some of you will stop at nothing,.

Here is another study:

www.moreincommon.org.uk/our-work/research/britons-and-gender-identity/

www.moreincommon.org.uk/media/p5uln04a/britons-and-gender-identity-data-tables.pdf

Quick conclusions:

only 19% think TW should be able to participate in women’s sport
Only 24% think male bodied TW should be able to use women’s changing rooms
only 29% think male bodied TW should be able to use women’s toilets

Happy to discuss any of these studies posted in depth.

However, I notice that you ministry presented not one shred of evidence to support that superficial statistic you posted (and yes, we did notice you stripped away all the rest of the data set for that superficial statistic and posted simply that one table....) or did you really think people don't understand data and what conclusions can be drawn from it?

nilsmousehammer · 29/11/2022 16:02

RedToothBrush that post needs to go onto 'break it down for me' and into newspaper articles as the 'pronouns are rohypnol' post did. That's better journalism than most broadsheets manage.

I agree with Hellebore . Please do everyone go and read the threads flagged. Read them thoroughly and carefully. And see for yourself the stark bollock naked emperor hiding behind the curtain. Women are not the ones afraid of evidence.

MrsJamin · 29/11/2022 20:38

So Sandi Toksvig pleads on twitter for financial support but turns replies off entirely... twitter.com/sanditoksvig/status/1597587282848272386
RIP WEP

Happylittlechicken · 29/11/2022 20:41

But surely all the transwomen will be giving huge donations? Or is this a case of ooops we picked the wrong horse? I’ve seen how generous women can be for crowdfunders when needed, wonder if transwomen will do the same for the TWEP.

ArabellaScott · 29/11/2022 20:51

MrsJamin · 29/11/2022 20:38

So Sandi Toksvig pleads on twitter for financial support but turns replies off entirely... twitter.com/sanditoksvig/status/1597587282848272386
RIP WEP

'It’s time for some radical honesty.'

I don't think you really mean that, Sandi.

nilsmousehammer · 29/11/2022 20:52

I agree Chicken

Special male people can fund this. It's busy serving them, and their interests. Nowt to do with me.

ArabellaScott · 29/11/2022 20:54

'Costs are rising, and as the crisis hits women’s income we are seeing a direct impact on donations and memberships.'

Radical honesty: that's not the reason you're losing members.

Happylittlechicken · 29/11/2022 20:56

The crisis is affecting womens income. It’s a good job they have all the males they’ve pandered to who will definitely give huge donations. Just think, maybe, just maybe if they’d have prioritised women, JKR might have helped them out….

MinistryofCheer · 30/11/2022 00:01

Another "not far right" thread

lots of people just wanting to discuss far right talking points without heaven forbid being racist themselves

MinistryofCheer · 30/11/2022 00:04

"I'm not racist.....

"The Albanian influx we are currently seeing in the U.K. will be much much worse for women and girls than Rotherham etc was. The combination of gang culture and absolute disdain for women fuelled by a vague adherence to Islam is utterly toxic."

MinistryofCheer · 30/11/2022 00:07

More not far right posters

"the issue being discussed is how groups of young men from, e.g. Pakistan or Albania, are presenting a specific threat to women in the UK. So, the grooming gangs would be a very good example. Or we could talk about forced marriage or FGM."

MinistryofCheer · 30/11/2022 00:17

Three cheers for @shasha21

not afr4aid to call out the many far right adjacent posters on here
"shasha21 · Yesterday 08:52

"Im sorry but this is just really disgusting. The most creepy, inappropriate men with 0 respect for women that I have ever met have been white British men. My husband and his circle of friends and family are from an Asian country that you’d probably look at and judge and assume they’re sexist. They’re actually all extremely respectful around women, far more so than any British men I know. if anything, their culture means that they’re pretty protective of women and very aware of not crossing any boundaries by accident or causing any offence. I’m sorry but this IS racist and extremely ignorant and I’m horrified that MN are allowing racial hatred to be incited in this manner."

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Helleofabore · 30/11/2022 02:55

No ministry.

Don’t attempt a weak swivel.

You claimed evidence was to be found specifically in two threads you have posted.

And then were unable to produce posts from those.

Go back and find posts to fit your far right examples in those.

I mean feel free to pull in posts from this other thread if you wish, but do it properly please. Username and date and time and the full text of the post so we can trace the post and the context.

So far,

"The Albanian influx we are currently seeing in the U.K. will be much much worse for women and girls than Rotherham etc was. The combination of gang culture and absolute disdain for women fuelled by a vague adherence to Islam is utterly toxic.”

and

"the issue being discussed is how groups of young men from, e.g. Pakistan or Albania, are presenting a specific threat to women in the UK. So, the grooming gangs would be a very good example. Or we could talk about forced marriage or FGM."

refers to the number of trafficked women from Albania that was being reported recently. Did you miss that being reported in the media?

You do understand that there is an issue with women being trafficked to the UK for sex work, don’t you?

And rather than ‘far right’ that these post are referring to that trafficking issue and making reference to how the grooming gangs operated and were allowed to escape detection. In fact, Julie Bindel wrote extensively on how the fear of racism allowed a group of males to establish and continue these gangs. She is credited with forcing the issue into the open.

Do you understand the concept of not allowing any group to be treated as untouchable for the safety of girls and women?

That means holding all men, regardless of religion or culture, to the same high standards of safeguarding? You understand that, don’t you?

Is Julie Bindel ‘far right’? Please explain why?

At this point, you either seem to not understand feminism and feminist discussion very well OR you don’t seem to understand what far right politics is about and are just grasping at what you feel outraged by or have been told is ‘far right’.

Helleofabore · 30/11/2022 03:07

MinistryofCheer · 30/11/2022 00:17

Three cheers for @shasha21

not afr4aid to call out the many far right adjacent posters on here
"shasha21 · Yesterday 08:52

"Im sorry but this is just really disgusting. The most creepy, inappropriate men with 0 respect for women that I have ever met have been white British men. My husband and his circle of friends and family are from an Asian country that you’d probably look at and judge and assume they’re sexist. They’re actually all extremely respectful around women, far more so than any British men I know. if anything, their culture means that they’re pretty protective of women and very aware of not crossing any boundaries by accident or causing any offence. I’m sorry but this IS racist and extremely ignorant and I’m horrified that MN are allowing racial hatred to be incited in this manner."

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Again, do you understand feminist discourse which looks at the collective experience of female people and evaluates it regarding safeguarding those women and girls?

It is done ‘collectively’ and not just at the individual level.

No group should be held as exempt from safeguarding. No group should be treated any differently when protecting children and women.

If you find any post racist, report it and if MNHQ believe that it is racist too, it will be deleted.

So far though, you have attempted to portray feminist discussion about a reported current abhorrent issue, trafficked women, and the known issues surrounding grooming gangs that allowed girls and women to be raped as ‘far right’.

In fact, you have just actively demonstrated what Julie Bindel was describing as the reason why those grooming gangs who raped girls and women were allowed to establish and continue their activity.

By labeling discussion about fears of it happening again as ‘racist’ and ‘far right’ when it is a discussion about never allowing safeguarding lapses to happen again because people make those accusations.

Well done.

Happylittlechicken · 30/11/2022 06:30

They forgot to turn comments off on their FB page… oopsie 😂😂😂not getting quite the response they hoped for. Their only defender seems to be a woman hating bloke. Go figure 😂

PronounssheRa · 30/11/2022 07:08

nilsmousehammer · 29/11/2022 20:52

I agree Chicken

Special male people can fund this. It's busy serving them, and their interests. Nowt to do with me.

They were bankrolled to the tune of £100,000 by a man whose child transitioned.

I wonder if those donations have stopped now they have voted in favour of self ID.

MinistryofCheer · 30/11/2022 09:01

Why aren't powerful middle-aged whit paedophiles called "grooming gangs"?

I think we know the answer.

Hepwo · 30/11/2022 09:11

Some interesting reading from a survivor. You can of course accuse her of prejudice if that is what gives you "cheer".

Experts say that grooming gangs are not the same as paedophile rings. It’s something that central Government really needs to understand in order to prevent more grooming gang crime in the future.

In November 2017, the Swedish government held a meeting where they stated that: “Sexual violence is being used as a tactic of terrorism”, and as such, it was recognised as a threat to Sweden’s national security.

The link between terrorism and rape undertaken by Islamist gangs was not being ignored. They called for counter-extremism education. This sounds like a balanced and intelligent governmental response to me.

www.independent.co.uk/voices/rotherham-grooming-gang-sexual-abuse-muslim-islamist-racism-white-girls-religious-extremism-terrorism-a8261831.html

www.channel4.com/news/factcheck/what-do-we-know-about-the-ethnicity-of-sexual-abuse-gangs

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