aaaand I'm cleared to post.
hello fellow outcasts and kind hosts.
I'm using a combo of the name I used to use on the BBC boards (it is protective in times of trouble) and the name I used on the other place.
I'll go on posting there in places where people haven't been part of the great pile-on, partly out of friendship and partly out of bloody mindedness. I'm glad there are going to be some of the nice men here, but gosh isn't it good to be in a place where the built-in problems of being female don't have to be explained every single time.
I used to feel I wasn't really entitled to come onto MN because I am not a parent, but hope for tolerance.