I am not scared of trans women using the toilets etc it doesn’t need to clash at all,
I wouldn’t let boys use girls toilets but trans girls yes not just run of the mill boys at all
What is a 'trans woman', or 'trans girl' to you? When you say you aren't bothered about them being in women's spaces, which group of people are you talking about?
Someone with strong dysphoria? Someone 'born in the wrong body'? Post surgery? Hormones/blockers but no surgery? Cross dressers with no interest in any medical intervention? Males that are sexually aroused by being dressed in lingerie and dresses (and openly state that is the case)? Perhaps a male with no outward change in appearance at all? Makes that like 'girly things' like pink and make up and dolls? Males who 'identify as women' (if so, please for the love of god, tell us what that actually means on practice, without a circular definition, and put us out of our misery). All of the above?
At what point does someone stop being a 'run of the mill' boy or man and become trans, to you?