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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

JK Rowling hits out at first feminist Sturgeon

171 replies

JanieAllen · 11/11/2022 09:37

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/jk-rowling-hits-out-at-first-feminist-sturgeon-over-trans-laws-2tz8mj386

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Jaffacakeorisitabiscuit · 11/11/2022 12:39

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:37

I wouldn’t let boys use girls toilets but trans girls yes not just run of the mill boys at all and surely teachers know if there are any trans kids at school or not

What's the difference between a trans girl and a boy?

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:40

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Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:41

Jaffacakeorisitabiscuit · 11/11/2022 12:39

What's the difference between a trans girl and a boy?

Big differences and if you can’t tell that then either you are transphobic or don’t have a clue about this issue. Maybe you should watch Georgia stone documentary on Netflix. Maybe listen to parents of trans kids .

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/11/2022 12:41

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:38

Omg you guys are grammar Nazis that’s all you guys do pick on folks like me in this group. People can read my posts very well thanks,

<tentatively raises hand>

they really can’t you know

punctuation and paragraphs, that’s the stuff ✅

ICouldHaveCheckedFirst · 11/11/2022 12:41

@Freespirit42 - two people have asked the same question. Can you answer it please?

Jaffacakeorisitabiscuit · 11/11/2022 12:42

Freespirit42 if there are many decent arguments do you have an answer for the seemingly unanswerable question of what living as a woman entails?

lifeturnsonadime · 11/11/2022 12:42

cult like yours

nearly spat my tea out.

PicturesOfDogs · 11/11/2022 12:42

People have been suggesting third spaces for a long time, so it’s not about safety.
Transformers just want the validation and ‘transphoria’ of being in womens spaces.

ICouldHaveCheckedFirst · 11/11/2022 12:42

Apologies, @Freespirit42 , you have replied. But could you provide more detail please, as I still don't understand how you can tell by looking at them.

Jaffacakeorisitabiscuit · 11/11/2022 12:43

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:41

Big differences and if you can’t tell that then either you are transphobic or don’t have a clue about this issue. Maybe you should watch Georgia stone documentary on Netflix. Maybe listen to parents of trans kids .

Or you could just tell me.

VinoDino · 11/11/2022 12:44

@Freespirit42 oh I've listened. You've not attempted to address any of my points put to you. Your argument is basically all women have to accept all males who identify as women are harmless and have to be accepted by women. End of. I've had better arguments and reasoning from my kettle.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/11/2022 12:44

I’m going to stop being a smart arse now because I genuinely want to hear @Freespirit42 ’s list of differences between boys and trans girls

Apollo442 · 11/11/2022 12:47

@FreeSpirit42 Yes I'd like to know the difference between a run of the mill boy and a transgirl. Why do you claim it is transphobic for asking? Unless you have no coherent answer.. .

BreastedBoobilyToTheStairs · 11/11/2022 12:47

I am not scared of trans women using the toilets etc it doesn’t need to clash at all,

I wouldn’t let boys use girls toilets but trans girls yes not just run of the mill boys at all

What is a 'trans woman', or 'trans girl' to you? When you say you aren't bothered about them being in women's spaces, which group of people are you talking about?

Someone with strong dysphoria? Someone 'born in the wrong body'? Post surgery? Hormones/blockers but no surgery? Cross dressers with no interest in any medical intervention? Males that are sexually aroused by being dressed in lingerie and dresses (and openly state that is the case)? Perhaps a male with no outward change in appearance at all? Makes that like 'girly things' like pink and make up and dolls? Males who 'identify as women' (if so, please for the love of god, tell us what that actually means on practice, without a circular definition, and put us out of our misery). All of the above?

At what point does someone stop being a 'run of the mill' boy or man and become trans, to you?

BreastedBoobilyToTheStairs · 11/11/2022 12:48

(I see I'm late to the party...apols for repeating the question!)

Brokendaughter · 11/11/2022 12:49

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 11:11

To those that think jk rowling is god she’s not her opinion won’t matter at all as the majority of MSPs voted for this by a sizeable amount first round. Therefore yes maybe a couple or so we’re against it it’s still going to go ahead because maybe she feels this is the right thing to do I know shock horror. As Sturgeon says how dare jk rowling accuse her of not being a feminist when you see what sturgeon has done in the past www.dailyrecord.co.uk/news/politics/snp-msps-rebel-scottish-government-28344566

If all the rapists in the country vote to make rape no longer a crime, it doesn't stop it being a terrible thing that a decent society does call a crime.

Just because the level of corruption within Scotland is going to be one for the history books, doesn't mean it's not corruption.

Idi Amin, aka the Butcher of Uganda, didn't commit every atrocity attributed to him personally, it was a group effort.
Other people joined in & committed those atrocities too.

Just because more than one person is prepared to do something terrible, doesn't make it something that is right.

How dare Sturgeon so brutally hand away womens rights when they are the only reason she was able to be in her position?
It's not that long ago, you couldn't even be a woman & a politician.

IneedanewTV · 11/11/2022 12:49

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:37

I wouldn’t let boys use girls toilets but trans girls yes not just run of the mill boys at all and surely teachers know if there are any trans kids at school or not

Explain how do I know what a run of the mill boy is as opposed to a trans girl? It’s certainly not what they wear obviously. So how do we stop those nasty run of the mill boys using the girls toilets? Do we have security? Pleased tell me - do they just say they are a trans girl?

Apollo442 · 11/11/2022 12:50

We won't get an answer. Just accusations of bigotry, hatred, right wing etc and then stomp off. Because nothing they can stand any scrutiny they have to behave like that

MajorieEks · 11/11/2022 12:51

I thought it was a medical condition (gender dysphoria) that separated boys from boys who identified as girls but it seems it not a requirement any more so I’m not sure what the difference is

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/11/2022 12:51

I live in hope though

I genuinely don’t understand how a person can be almost incoherent with rage defending an idea they can’t even describe

I actually find it rather sad

RoyalCorgi · 11/11/2022 12:52

Let's keep it simple. Humans cannot change sex. Men cannot become women.

So if we allow trans women into women's spaces, that means women giving up a right - the right to single-sex spaces. Women themselves lose something important, but gain nothing at all, except for the self-satisfied minority who derive a sense of virtuous pride in welcoming in men.

But these women don't have the right to give other women's rights away. For very many of us the right to a single-sex space is vital. It's particularly true for vulnerable women - those in prison, for example, or those in domestic violence refuges, or those from religious minorities. They all have good reason for not wanting men in their spaces.

I dare say that freespirit and others of her/his ilk don't care about those women. But I do - and so do lots of others. And we will keep fighting for those women regardless of the abuse we receive or the attempts to shut us up. We will not give up - and that is why we will win.

littlbrowndog · 11/11/2022 12:54

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:16

Then one thing that stands out for me is she made period products free for women in schools etc. she did that first .

She didn’t. It was a labour MSP Monica Lennon

Apollo442 · 11/11/2022 12:56

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 11/11/2022 12:51

I live in hope though

I genuinely don’t understand how a person can be almost incoherent with rage defending an idea they can’t even describe

I actually find it rather sad

I know. And although they can't define anything they are absolutely certain of their moral rectitude. If they engaged their brains the cognitive dissonance would make their heads explode.

littlbrowndog · 11/11/2022 12:57

Run of the mill boys 🤣🤣🤣🤣

BreatheAndFocus · 11/11/2022 12:57

Freespirit42 · 11/11/2022 12:27

Because it’s not a woman’s right issue at all as there are women like me that don’t see trans people affecting my rights at all. I am not scared of trans women using the toilets etc it doesn’t need to clash at all, what many of you don’t realise is there are many women on my side to that don’t see it affecting us at all.

Yes, there are women like you who don’t mind sharing, but there are also many women that do Probably a lot more than you realise because lots of women just keep quiet about it. Other women’s rights to single sex spaces aren’t yours to give away.

It’s f* all to do with fear of TW and everything to do with privacy, dignity and a sensible wariness of male people however they identify.