*Do you know any transmen in real life?
Loads of us have female kids who identify as transmen. They aren’t scary.*
I know 3.
I know how the conversation would go with at least 1.
"Excuse me are you meant to be here?"
"Yes, fuck off."
It just really amazes me how apparently women who would call the police/get super uncomfortable/shout at a transwoman (or indeed natal man) in the bathroom, would suddnely become #bekind and polite if they were to see a trans man using the correctly sexed bathroom.