And when did I say that trans people should not have a peaceful existence? This is the problem with you lot, you come here pretending you want a debate but you just spout the same bullshit rhetoric.
Disagreeing with someone does not mean they cease to exist. Disagreeing with someone does not mean they deserve ill will. It's either willfully misrepresenting the argument or just plain childish.
I do not believe trans women are women because I view them as gender non-conforming biological males. I do not believe they have anything in common with women. The basis of women's oppression globally is because we are born with female bodies. Trans women do not have that experience. You cannot change sex. You can change some secondary characteristics and 'perform' a gender but I find a lot of that to be regressive sexist stereotypes. I do not think that clothing and behaviour make someone a man or a woman, and to believe so implies that women globally are asking for our oppression or even identifying into it. That is offensive.
All of that means that there are certain areas and services for which I define women as adult biological females and so I would want single-sex services. This is in line with my personal beliefs, my cultural background, and my experiences as a sexual assault survivor. We are all the sum of our experiences. I respect the lived experiences of transwomen but they must also respect the lived experience of women who say that our experiences are important.
Simple. Mind is part of the body. That's why mindfulness and exercise benefit mental health. It's all connected. Mind is the pilot of your meat suit.