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sarah ditum on Posie parker

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narcymum · 23/09/2022 22:33

Just saw a tweet where she calls PP a 'poundshop marine le Pen'
WTF! why are women who are supposedly in this fight together actively trying to sabotage another woman's activism?
Can we not move away from this schoolyard shit?

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antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 10:58

@FOJN That about is a fascist dog whistle.
They learned through the BNP that saying we are racist, we do not want Muslims in this country and we do not want gay and lesbian people to have rights, does them no favours. So they couch their agenda in more neutral-sounding language.

They support free speech because people like Tommy Robinson have been jailed for what they said. Men who had groomed and raped girls could have got away with it because he nearly caused a mistrial. He argues he should have been allowed to say what he wanted and not jailed.

Datun · 27/09/2022 10:59

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 10:55

Nobody has commented on her looks.

Feminists work for all women. But most feminists do not welcome all women and men to their events. Kellie-Jay does. That is the difference. She clearly says any woman and man can attend and all women can speak no matter who they are. It is that we are disagreeing on.

So what? What's it to you? She's not representing you. She's not representing feminists.

I'm not sure why you can't ignore her.

And you may not have done so, but plenty of people have commented on her looks. Particularly her hair.

FOJN · 27/09/2022 11:00

That about is a fascist dog whistle.

😂Thank you, my bingo card is complete.

NecessaryScene · 27/09/2022 11:01

The more you slag her off the more I realize how good and inclusive and effective Posie is.

TBH, the more antelope slags her off, the more she just sounds like Jesus to me, busy spreading the Word, versus all the slagging off coming from the pharisees or whatever, demanding to know why she's associating with sinners.

Long time since bible studies, so I might be a bit wonky.

(Is Jesus still a good guy, or is he deeply problematic now?)

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 27/09/2022 11:01

beastlyslumber · 27/09/2022 10:47

You accused me of "slagging off muslims" and "sharing right wing memes".

You can either retract those accusations and apologise.

Or you can present your evidence.

But this gaslighting is just making you look bad.

I think antelope needs to apologise, if there is an explanation you should give it

But to me it looks like you absolutely said it, MNHQ will delete posts like that they have done it in the past

And less of the 'you just need to handle the space better' bollocks about open air spaces would be handy as well.

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 11:01

I care because I am a feminist. If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

beastlyslumber · 27/09/2022 11:01

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TheClogLady · 27/09/2022 11:02

It makes sense to have women-only feminist events but lots of us are here because we’re worried about children (one of mine has been transed by the school without permission) or because we believe bad ideas are best defeated by freespeech and the TRA movement is all about denial of free speech.

so some events that push back on the TRAs aren’t going to be purely feminist events and men (especially dads) have lots of reason to care and to attend.

Posie let’s anyone attend but only women speak, which is more material centring if women than say, WPUK, who let anyone (with a ticket) attend, and give transitioned males speaker spots.

NecessaryScene · 27/09/2022 11:02

If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

Then why the endless attempts to associate those views with fascists???

Why do you keep promoting the fascists?

Datun · 27/09/2022 11:03

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 11:01

I care because I am a feminist. If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

Lol. The only person linking gender critical views with fascism is you.

reesewithoutaspoon · 27/09/2022 11:04

2 men who KJK doesn't know turn up and despite having a virtually unknown presence on the internet, someone from the TRA side manages to find the video they live streamed on their website and shouts for all the world to see that here's actual proof KJK has alt-right connections just like we said.
Obviously, TRA's regularly seek out fascist propaganda so this is wholly believable.

TheClogLady · 27/09/2022 11:06

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 11:01

I care because I am a feminist. If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

Posie says she isn’t a feminist and doesn’t run feminist events.

Why do you keep pulling her back towards you (by expecting her to behave to feminist standards) if you don’t want to be associated with her?

Why don’t you just say ‘Posie is Posie, she’s not a feminist, there is just some overlap in aims when it comes to women only spaces, services and language’ and stop obsessing over what she does and who she does (or doesn’t) know?

Datun · 27/09/2022 11:06

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 11:01

I care because I am a feminist. If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

You're going have to try harder than this. You have spent the whole thread trying to force a relationship between people who don't even look very fascist, and Posie.

And then try to complain about it!

🤣

beastlyslumber · 27/09/2022 11:08

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 27/09/2022 11:01

I think antelope needs to apologise, if there is an explanation you should give it

But to me it looks like you absolutely said it, MNHQ will delete posts like that they have done it in the past

And less of the 'you just need to handle the space better' bollocks about open air spaces would be handy as well.

Thank you Rufus. I agree there needs to be an apology. I haven't reported the comments because I want people to be able to see for themselves the tactics that Antelope is using here. In case anyone was still thinking Antelope is arguing in good faith.

AlienatedChildGrown · 27/09/2022 11:09

the reality is a small group of feminists carries out the actual work

Oh dear God

Here. Have this. I promise we won’t forget and those with podcasts or who produce TV & Radio should pay you all squillions to appear and tell people the real facts of who they should be thanking in a the post war winning analysis part.

sarah ditum on Posie parker
TheClogLady · 27/09/2022 11:09

Force teaming women’s rights campaigners and (supposed) fascists and then claiming you are doing it because you DON’T want feminism associated with fascism is a very muddled strategy, I concur.

Hepwo · 27/09/2022 11:10

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 11:01

I care because I am a feminist. If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

I believe fascists already know you can't change sex.

Datun · 27/09/2022 11:11

TheClogLady · 27/09/2022 11:09

Force teaming women’s rights campaigners and (supposed) fascists and then claiming you are doing it because you DON’T want feminism associated with fascism is a very muddled strategy, I concur.

IKR!!

i've heard of people setting others up to fail, but setting yourself up to fail probably isn't going to have a chapter in the big book of successful strategy.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 27/09/2022 11:13

FOJN · 27/09/2022 10:55

Apologies for the wall of text but these are the issues which concern Hearts of Oak, I've C+P'd from their own website. There is plenty I disagree with but I think the paragraph on free speech is important, particularly the final two sentences. I'm not seeing anything about violent suppression of dissent. Are they fascist light? Could anyone who thinks they are full blown fascists please highlight the parts which evidence this?

Free Speech
Freedom to think and speak
Free speech is the bedrock of a free society with open and free debate being one of the big drivers of innovation and justice. Lockdown brought an unprecedented onslaught on our abilities to speak freely on issues which the establishment has decreed as off limits. Limiting the discussion of contentious issues is leading to more division in society not less. A future without civilised debate will only take us towards darker times and threatens our ability to think freely for ourselves and to understand and tolerate our differences. We must welcome back healthy debate.

National Identity and Patriotism
The UK has a quiet, private patriotism that is not flamboyant . We also have a proud history and pageantry that is not only enjoyed as a nation but is a magnet for tourism. This is encapsulated in the Commonwealth of Nations and must be protected through strong borders. The identity and culture that makes us British is now under attack. The BLM movement call those who defeated Facist Germany racist, our media delight in denigrating our historical achievements and our education system seems determined to ensure that our children have no knowledge of what makes Britain Great. Our citizens need to regain a sense of pride and camaraderie. Through harmony and cooperation our nation can be a beacon of hope, democracy and freedom to the World.

Lost Liberties of Lockdown
A New Tyranny
Our freedoms now lie in tatters because of a virus that supposedly threatened us all. Going to shops, having a drink, visiting elderly relatives, attending church and going on holiday were all banned. Even Christmas gatherings were made illegal. And the ability to speak out has been curtailed with government and big tech silencing any dissenting voices. Government overreach and censorship of opinions must end now or society simply becomes a mouthpiece for the state.

Grooming Gangs
Awareness and justice
These Muslim/Pakistani rape gangs have operated with impunity for four decades in 40 towns across the UK. Politicians have claimed that up to 1 million girls have been affected by this evil yet there is silence from these communities. No one in authority is ever held accountable for ignoring these crimes and it continues to this day. We have no had over 400 men charged yet the sentences given are most lenient. Its time to end this jihad and protect our girls.

Stop sexualizing kids
Safety not fear
Institutions no longer question what is best for a child. Instead we see an increasing desire to use them for social sexual experiments. The rise of the militant LGBT lobby which now seeks to sexualise children for its own ideological goals is a perverse failure of the state to protect our children and to put their best interests at heart. The scale of the grooming gang scandal is another example of the protection of children being jettisoned by local authorities and police because of a fear of being called racist. It’s time to stop stealing children’s innocence and childhood.

Islam
Freedom from biased protection
In Islam all rights and freedoms are subject to Islamic law. In Islam there is no freedom to choose or change your religious belief. Apostates face punishment and ostracism. Women have few rights and freedoms Since 9/11 the term Islamic extremism or Islamism is used to separate violence from peace. Islamic texts offer no such distinction but show how the removal of opposition and the spread of Islam was through war. Islam must reject violence and offer women full rights and protection and allow robust criticism and debate.

I have such mixed feelings. Take their attitude to Islam for example.

On the one hand I could probably agree with most of what they say. And not only that but as someone on the economic left I want issues like this discussed because I fear we will never have a decent left wing government if mainstream left wing parties bury their heads in the sand and refuse to address legitimate concerns, because ignoring issues leads a proportion of the working classes to seek (and give power to) right wing alternatives.

I want to hear from people raising these concerns because if they are not raised and addressed by labour then they will be raised and addressed by the tories and actual fascists and the outcome will be less appealing to left wing progressives than if they;d tried to address concerns.

But on the other hand, I know full well people who bang on about patriotism and islam tend to be dangerous extremists who should be dealt with by a combination of ignoring them and quiet targetted sabotage where possible.

The absolute worst of all worlds is pretending that they are pure evil with no valid concerns and making yourself look like a typical ivory tower left winger who has no concept of how to address the concerns of ordinary people, then amplifying their voices by banging on about them in a room where people don;t know who they are and don;t care.

Hepwo · 27/09/2022 11:15

reesewithoutaspoon · 27/09/2022 11:04

2 men who KJK doesn't know turn up and despite having a virtually unknown presence on the internet, someone from the TRA side manages to find the video they live streamed on their website and shouts for all the world to see that here's actual proof KJK has alt-right connections just like we said.
Obviously, TRA's regularly seek out fascist propaganda so this is wholly believable.

It's actually one of the Brighton feminists broadcasting this. The one behind the nasty blog page.

She's been shouting racist and demanding denunciation for weeks now.

reesewithoutaspoon · 27/09/2022 11:17

I stand corrected. Just someone who dislikes KJK and has a personal beef then. Doing the work for tra's though so maybe I wasn't wrong first time.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 27/09/2022 11:19

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 11:01

I care because I am a feminist. If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

Are you seriously suggesting that the GC critical message is being held back by Posie, and many more people would be GC by now if only Purity Spiral Feminists were campaigning?

It is possible that PSF-style campainging is best if you are campaigning solely in the Brighton lesbian scene (to use an obvious example) but if you want you message to reach the whole country you have to speak to the whole country.

RufusthefIoraImissingreindeer · 27/09/2022 11:21

beastlyslumber · 27/09/2022 11:08

Thank you Rufus. I agree there needs to be an apology. I haven't reported the comments because I want people to be able to see for themselves the tactics that Antelope is using here. In case anyone was still thinking Antelope is arguing in good faith.

I haven't reported because I know the vast majority of posters on FWR don't like it

But it's a really shitty thing to do to someone...if there is a reasonable explanation that's a different matter

Although I've no idea what a reasonable explanation would be !

FOJN · 27/09/2022 11:22

I have such mixed feelings. Take their attitude to Islam for example.

I agree and could go through paragraph by paragraph highlighting the things I disagree with. I think some of the wording is unecessarily provocative, describing the actions of grooming gangs as jihad for example but I cannot see what makes them fascist. Of course you could end up with fascism if their ideas were taken to extremes but I think it's a mistake and inaccurate to call them fascists.

AlisonDonut · 27/09/2022 11:23

antelopevalley · 27/09/2022 11:01

I care because I am a feminist. If gender critical views end up having some association with fascists that makes campaigning work harder for all feminists.

You seem to be a 'feminist' that thinks that women who are right wing do not deserve a voice, and that their children are to be thrown under a bus?

Is that what you are saying?

Can I just ask, do you think all public spaces should be policed and those thinking bad thoughts need to be kicked out.

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