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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Carly-May Kavanagh

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NitroNine · 23/09/2022 00:46

There are rumours circulating on Twitter that Carly-May Kavanagh (the one who screams at babies: Daily Mail) has, despite her “apology” been suspended from the Labour Party. Presumably such a suspension would have an impact on her job as Lloyd Russell-Moyle‘s head of policy?

Apparently if she is suspended it [probably] won’t be made public. Given the reason for her [potential] suspension; if Labour actually do take action, you’d think they’d want to reassure people that they expect their members to uphold certain standards. I mean, “not screaming abuse at infants” is less upholding a standard than it is failing to trip over pebbles of basic decency…

Clearly one cannot put too much weight into Random Person Says Unevidenced Thing. However, it would be a foolish rumour to start without cause, so I thought it was worth starting a thread here to see if there are developments to follow.

Should Kavanagh face consequences for her behaviour it will be a watershed moment: Labour acknowledging women have rights all their own, including the rights to assemble & to speak on issues of concern to them, such as their need for single sex provisions.

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SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 15:46

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 15:32

ImNotGreta

Actually, I support Sapphos right to criticise anyone. But I also support my own right to ask questions of anyone criticising someone and to analyse their criticism. I don’t think Sappho is a TRA extremist but you are right that some tactics are being used by feminists at the moment that are the same tactics. Of course they are. Extreme TRAs didn’t invent them. They are not that clever.

Of course, thats what's so great about this forum. If we're not allowed to question one another we all may as well pack up and go home. Or log off and go out.

Sophoclesthefox · 24/09/2022 15:50

I really don’t think that any of this hooha is in danger of creating any more extreme right wingers than there already were.

either people were already subscribed to a right wing nationalist channel run by a couple of total arseholes, and saw the footage there, or they aren’t, and have got caught up in a purity spiral about how dreadful it would be if other people were infected by contact fascism (they themselves being of course magically immune to such things).

it’s a nice easy high horse to climb up on and ride like the clappers.

But why are we bothering?

I don’t really need to “draw the line” between my views and a person like Sargon of Akkad, because if the gulf between them isn’t blindingly flaming obvious, then I’m not explaining myself nearly as well as I want to. I don’t need to go to every fight I’m invited to, and nor does KJK.

TheClogLady · 24/09/2022 15:52

I’m genuinely surprised that so many incredibly clever, highly educated women are seemingly unaware of how their own behaviour is a replication of of the TRA behaviour they claim to abhor.

Is this just a natural manifestation of being in agreement with the majority of TRAs on every other issue (the identikit left?) and this reflexively reaching for the same playbook?

I had hoped we were better than that and we had truly learned something from the discombobulating experience of being silenced via ‘the wrong side of history’ ruse…

We can’t ever hope to adequately safeguard kids if we can be cowed into submission with a bit of public shaming based on tired old claptrap like guilt by association.

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 15:53

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 15:32

ImNotGreta

Actually, I support Sapphos right to criticise anyone. But I also support my own right to ask questions of anyone criticising someone and to analyse their criticism. I don’t think Sappho is a TRA extremist but you are right that some tactics are being used by feminists at the moment that are the same tactics. Of course they are. Extreme TRAs didn’t invent them. They are not that clever.

I support that right too, but am calling out what I see as disingenuity in her arguments.

Despite the protestations she seems to be pretty much singing from the TRA playbook, and has done the normal TRA thing of diverting a thread about a woman being attacked by TRAs to one where people now feel the need to defend the victim.

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 15:54

TheClogLady · 24/09/2022 15:52

I’m genuinely surprised that so many incredibly clever, highly educated women are seemingly unaware of how their own behaviour is a replication of of the TRA behaviour they claim to abhor.

Is this just a natural manifestation of being in agreement with the majority of TRAs on every other issue (the identikit left?) and this reflexively reaching for the same playbook?

I had hoped we were better than that and we had truly learned something from the discombobulating experience of being silenced via ‘the wrong side of history’ ruse…

We can’t ever hope to adequately safeguard kids if we can be cowed into submission with a bit of public shaming based on tired old claptrap like guilt by association.

From my personal perspective it’s a feature of quite a lot of “the left”, this whole purity spiral, condemning others for “sharing a platform with” someone guilty of wrongthink, and so on.

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 15:57

ImNotGreta or I could just be a female resident of Brighton who would like to see the toxic divisions healed and have respectful dialogue but I know that's much less exciting.

TheClogLady · 24/09/2022 16:01

I agree, NotGreta

I suppose I had just hoped that anyone who had themselves been bruised by brush with the purity spiral phenomenon would have been, I don’t know.. sort of inoculated(?) against the compulsion to inflict it on others?

Sad to discover that it obviously isn’t the case!

GrumpyMenopausalWombWielder · 24/09/2022 16:07

TheClogLady · 24/09/2022 15:52

I’m genuinely surprised that so many incredibly clever, highly educated women are seemingly unaware of how their own behaviour is a replication of of the TRA behaviour they claim to abhor.

Is this just a natural manifestation of being in agreement with the majority of TRAs on every other issue (the identikit left?) and this reflexively reaching for the same playbook?

I had hoped we were better than that and we had truly learned something from the discombobulating experience of being silenced via ‘the wrong side of history’ ruse…

We can’t ever hope to adequately safeguard kids if we can be cowed into submission with a bit of public shaming based on tired old claptrap like guilt by association.

This reminds me of something Bev Harris said when being cross examined. The 'anti-trans' accusations thrown out against her/everyone who knows sex is real/immutable/important in policy & law isn't about persuasion or reasoned discussion with a genuine concern about the person accused.

Link to tweet

" KH: I just said ppl like us and JK Rowling and 1000s of ppl have been called anti trans for simple reason they say biology is real, 2 sexes, anti trans is lazy shorthand method of not engaging."

Demanding women 'say the words' to be anointed clean or unclean isn't about any active deeds that tackle the issue at hand. It's about the left wing playbook that shuts down discussion - as said already, the TRA didn't invent these tactics. They're not that clever. Using these tactics on women via guilt by wafer thin guilt by association smears has zero to do with genuinely seeking discussion to resolve a pressing issue. It's about controlling the narrative, shutting down 'wrong think' (even if there's been a bad faith take on what's been said), and cowing others into silence when someone is made an example of.

It's exhausting watching all of this. I can't fathom how anyone copes with more than 5 minutes being in any room for political reasons when the demands start flowing before any dialogue starts.

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 16:10

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 15:57

ImNotGreta or I could just be a female resident of Brighton who would like to see the toxic divisions healed and have respectful dialogue but I know that's much less exciting.

You want to see toxic divisions healed but link to a page ripping into the woman that your old mates attacked?

No.

Helleofabore · 24/09/2022 16:24

You want to see toxic divisions healed but link to a page ripping into the woman that your old mates attacked?

Yes.. the issues brought up on that web page and just the action of listing of sins there seem to be ignored. I find the act of ignoring it while declaring others are extreme in their defence when it is merely women saying ‘fuck off and stop censuring us’ to be rather hypocritical.

But I guess we move on.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 16:33

I know debates and threads evolves but sometimes in the middle of a long thread it can be quite a surprise when you look back at what the original title was

TheClogLady · 24/09/2022 16:46

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 16:33

I know debates and threads evolves but sometimes in the middle of a long thread it can be quite a surprise when you look back at what the original title was

Carly May Kavanagh really has benefitted from this massive detour!

but babies still aren’t actually fascist, Carly and anyone who says they are probably shouldn’t have a job in politics.

I feel like we need a flip chart of giant photographs and a pointing stick:

👶🍼 = not fascist

Hitler = fascist

👶🍼 = not fascist

Mussolini = fascist

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:05

👶🍼 = not fascist

Hearts of Oak = fascist

Posie Parker = not fascist

Posie Parker inviting Hearts of Oak to live stream her event = ?

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 17:06

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:05

👶🍼 = not fascist

Hearts of Oak = fascist

Posie Parker = not fascist

Posie Parker inviting Hearts of Oak to live stream her event = ?

Why have you, again, slid from implying that she probably knew who they were to stating that she invited them?

You do understand, don’t you, that everyone else can see what you are doing with this?

GrumpyMenopausalWombWielder · 24/09/2022 17:07

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:05

👶🍼 = not fascist

Hearts of Oak = fascist

Posie Parker = not fascist

Posie Parker inviting Hearts of Oak to live stream her event = ?

Sapphos, please explain why you are posting a clear lie in this, and again, presenting the lie as though it's based in fact?

When answering, please provide proof that Posie invited HoO.

After implying Tommy Robinson himself attended this meeting, I really do think you need to reacquaint yourself with facts, evidence & the link between the 2 before posting.

Thanks 🙏

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 17:08

Posie Parker inviting Hearts of Oak to live stream her event

she might have invited them

she might have been approached by them and said ok

she might not have done either

one assumes you have evidence

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 17:10

Its quite a fun game I suppose

ill have a go

tommy robinson = facist

sapphos=not facist

sapphos inviting tommy round for tea and cake = ?

sapphos in

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 17:12

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 17:08

Posie Parker inviting Hearts of Oak to live stream her event

she might have invited them

she might have been approached by them and said ok

she might not have done either

one assumes you have evidence

Stand by for silence or being told to do your own research. It’s all so tediously predictable, divert the thread, lie, attack the victim, then refuse to back up the claims.

Then pretend not to be a TRA.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 17:12

Fascist
😩😀😀😀😀😀😀

bloody spelling

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:12

I couldn't get close enough to see for myself, certainly not into the inner circle where Hearts of Oak were doing the live stream set up next to the SFW camera.

Pretty condemning evidence.

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 17:13

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:12

I couldn't get close enough to see for myself, certainly not into the inner circle where Hearts of Oak were doing the live stream set up next to the SFW camera.

Pretty condemning evidence.

Bollocks

RufustheFloralmissingreindeer · 24/09/2022 17:13

Thats not how evidence works….at all

ImNotGreta · 24/09/2022 17:14

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:12

I couldn't get close enough to see for myself, certainly not into the inner circle where Hearts of Oak were doing the live stream set up next to the SFW camera.

Pretty condemning evidence.

But the fat TRA baby shouter made it right in to the centre, which you know, so you know that what you posted is not true.

Are you really unable to back up any of your points honestly, or is this how you think grown-ups discuss things?

GrumpyMenopausalWombWielder · 24/09/2022 17:17

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:12

I couldn't get close enough to see for myself, certainly not into the inner circle where Hearts of Oak were doing the live stream set up next to the SFW camera.

Pretty condemning evidence.

Having no evidence whatsoever is "Pretty condemning evidence."?

'Knell. Are you for real?

SapphosRock · 24/09/2022 17:18

I think the baby shouter video would be a lot more powerful and CMK a lot more unreasonable if the event has not been attended by fascists and live streamed by fascists.

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