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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

gender woo and voting

323 replies

dropthevipers · 08/07/2022 23:13

Is party stance on gender woo a deal breaker for you? I am/have been a center left type my whole life, would never previously have even considered voting tory-but I cannot vote for parties that spout manifest bollocks. How about you? Or you friends?

OP posts:
Pluvia · 12/07/2022 11:02

ScrollingLeaves · 11/07/2022 23:57

There are currently loads of schemes available for those on a low income or benefits to have their old boilers replaced with a heat pump for free. Tell everyone you know who might benefit. Google locally (I'm in Wales, the rules may be different here) or look in your local press.

Thank you for the advice. Aren’t heat pumps very expensive to run? What if you live in an older house, as I heard they are not very effective unless the house is clad (?) and air tight.

Low-temperature heat pumps are very efficient to run as long as they're not trying to heat a sieve. You've got to insulate and take draught-proofing measures and have double glazing and do all the basic, sensible things that we should all have been sorting out over the last 10 years. When you've done that the costs of heating your home from any heat source go down. But this is another derail. Sorry, OP.

Pluvia · 12/07/2022 11:10

antifascist · 12/07/2022 09:49

Excellent piece on the weaponising of trans rights in the Tory Leadership campaign

www.opendemocracy.net/en/5050/conservative-party-leadership-rishi-sunak-penny-mordaunt-trans-rights/

Do none of you have any shame seeing how your hobbyhorse- which impacts a very few people is being weaponised by the Conservative party and their docile press to allow a very right wing leader to make millions of girls and women poorer.

You do realise that the more you go on like this, Anti, the easier you make it for me to vote Conservative? The more you patronise and fulminate, the more I think 'Fuck it, I'm going to leave the Labour Party to people like Anti and I'm just going to vote for the Tories and not feel bad about it.' Because at least I know what I'm likely to get from the Tories.

So thank you, Anti. I was sitting on the fence and feeling bad and now I feel freed of all guilt on the matter.

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 12/07/2022 11:19

It is sometimes presented as a 'single issue' but is actually part of almost everything else we vote about.

I am now considering voting Tory because safety for women - rights for women- must be protected. This is the base for everything else.

I'm finding that difficult - I need to change my own identity from red to blue!.

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2022 11:20

Because at least I know what I'm likely to get from the Tories.

Penny Mordaunt
Jamie Wallis
Crispin Blunt
Self ID.
Fucked.

MarshaBradyo · 12/07/2022 11:35

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2022 11:20

Because at least I know what I'm likely to get from the Tories.

Penny Mordaunt
Jamie Wallis
Crispin Blunt
Self ID.
Fucked.

Will you vote Labour do you think?

who is better wrt keeping self ID off the table?

ThinkingaboutLangClegosaurus · 12/07/2022 11:44

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Same here.

ScrollingLeaves · 12/07/2022 11:46

Pluvia · Today 11:02
Thank you. Yes, apologies OP.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/07/2022 11:48

Só here is pippa Henry. Labour says with a completely straight face that pippa is not only a woman but has always been a woman - see if you can spot pippa in the team

i wouldn’t trust people who talk such unmitigated nonsense to sit the rightness on a toilet!

Meet pippa

gender woo and voting
Theeyeballsinthesky · 12/07/2022 11:48

The right way

antifascist · 12/07/2022 12:04

achillestoes · 12/07/2022 10:50

@antifascist

If a man walks into a changing room and there’s a young ‘transman’ in there getting changed, or he is already in there and one walks in after him.

I don’t think everyone shares the same toilet obsession as the group on here does.

achillestoes · 12/07/2022 12:11

@antifascist

Still true though.

achillestoes · 12/07/2022 12:13

Anyway, I don’t care that much about toilets (I’d use the men’s under certain circumstances myself). We still need the basic social convention of single sex bathrooms. The important things for me, though, are around prisons, refuges, intimate care, sports, changing spaces, hospitals etc.

babyjellyfish · 12/07/2022 12:18

antifascist · 12/07/2022 12:04

I don’t think everyone shares the same toilet obsession as the group on here does.

It doesn't matter if not everyone cares.

As long as some people care then nobody has the right to consent on their behalf.

LiesDoNotBecomeUs · 12/07/2022 12:19

Don't reduce the 'just one issue' even further and suggest it is just a toilet obsession.

Neither would be enough to mobilise the gender-critical army that is already on here and is beginning to appear live too.

antifascist · 12/07/2022 12:26

But those who are using their obsession with trans people to make all kinds of spaces more dangerous for women.

Sacking guards on trains for instance

pucelleauxblanchesmains · 12/07/2022 12:30

I'm not going to tell women who they should vote for. Personally I am disabled, have seen the impact of austerity on disabled friends and family, and am worried about the cost of living so I wouldn't vote Tory pretty much ever. I'm also not convinced that the Tories are any less into identity politics than Labour when it gets down to actual governance (see Andrew Bowie MP claiming he was proud to be a Conservative because, among other things, they had the first trans MP!)

babyjellyfish · 12/07/2022 12:31

antifascist · 12/07/2022 12:26

But those who are using their obsession with trans people to make all kinds of spaces more dangerous for women.

Sacking guards on trains for instance

Eh?

Datun · 12/07/2022 12:32

antifascist · 12/07/2022 12:04

I don’t think everyone shares the same toilet obsession as the group on here does.

Are there actual 'goal post moving' courses that TRAs go on? Because in a sea of ineffective argument, it has to be the worst one, yet you do it so often.

Can't you asked to be transferred to a different course?

babyjellyfish · 12/07/2022 12:37

Datun · 12/07/2022 12:32

Are there actual 'goal post moving' courses that TRAs go on? Because in a sea of ineffective argument, it has to be the worst one, yet you do it so often.

Can't you asked to be transferred to a different course?

I don't think it quite tops "this will result in forced genital inspections in all single sex spaces".

Datun · 12/07/2022 12:40

babyjellyfish · 12/07/2022 12:37

I don't think it quite tops "this will result in forced genital inspections in all single sex spaces".

I don't know if it was this poster, or not, they seem pretty similar, but we did have a poster on here claiming GC views would 'decimate' the tourist industry.

😁

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2022 12:44

Is it only Labour who think Pippa is a woman? What does Rosie Duffield think? What does Penny Mordaunt think?

TooBigForMyBoots · 12/07/2022 12:49

MarshaBradyo · 12/07/2022 11:35

Will you vote Labour do you think?

who is better wrt keeping self ID off the table?

I will not vote Labour as I have said many times. I have never voted Labour. I probably will never vote Labour.

Who put Self ID on the table? The Tories. Whose what did this trans shitshow happen on? The Tories. How many male bodied folk were in women's single sex spaces before the Tories took power? How many of them are there now?

If you do what you've always done, you'll just get more of the same.🤷‍♀️

antifascist · 12/07/2022 12:50

babyjellyfish · 12/07/2022 12:37

I don't think it quite tops "this will result in forced genital inspections in all single sex spaces".

how else are you going to decide whether someone is cis or trans?

ScrollingLeaves · 12/07/2022 12:51

TooBigForMyBoots · Today 12:44
Is it only Labour who think Pippa is a woman? What does Rosie Duffield think? What does Penny Mordaunt think?

Who is Pippa. please?

MarshaBradyo · 12/07/2022 12:52

TooBig who do you vote for?

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