Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Lia Thomas (again)

323 replies

Signalbox · 27/01/2022 20:18

Reports that Lia Thomas has been exposing themselves to female team mates and that they have complained and been ignored on multiple occasions...

"While Lia covers herself with a towel sometimes, there’s a decent amount of nudity, the swimmer said. She and others have had a glimpse at her private parts."

"She stated that team members have raised their concern with the coach, trying to get Thomas ousted from the female locker room, but got nowhere."

"Multiple swimmers have raised it, multiple different times,' the UPenn swimmer said. 'But we were basically told that we could not ostracize Lia by not having her in the locker room and that there's nothing we can do about it, that we basically have to roll over and accept it, or we cannot use our own locker room."

"It's really upsetting because Lia doesn't seem to care how it makes anyone else feel,' the swimmer continued. 'The 35 of us are just supposed to accept being uncomfortable in our own space and locker room for, like, the feelings of one."

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10445679/Lia-Thomas-UPenn-teammate-says-trans-swimmer-doesnt-cover-genitals-locker-room.html#comments

OP posts:
Thread gallery
11
RVN123 · 28/01/2022 06:53

But this kind of thing NEVER happens! Aren't we told that again and again?
The question is WHY would this person WANT to do this? To make their fellow team mates uncomfortable? We are told that TW are SO dysphoric about their body and it causes them so much trauma that they will go to extreme lengths to change it. Why would this person be flashing that part of their male anatomy around?
This really is the end game isn't it? Women now have to accept that a penis in a ladies space is no longer a penis if the owner of said penis has a very specific feeling in their head. It physically changes the penis into a female penis.
Are we so far down the gender rabbit hole that this is what it's come to? And yet WE are the ones in the wrong for objecting.
The whole team should refuse to swim with this person. Or if this person wins, there should be no response from the crowd until the second woman finishes the race.

I suspect someone will be along in a minute to argue that the women should "not be looking at Lia's genitals". This was the argument in the thread about the Wi Spa incident, that the child should not have looked at the man with erection in their spa. It was THEIR fault they were offended. And erections happen and are natural.

Utter gaslighting mental fucking bollocks.

Emmelina · 28/01/2022 06:54

It’s strange how most of these men transitioning to women and insisting on sharing intimate space are still attracted to women, isn’t it?

RVN123 · 28/01/2022 06:55

@Emmelina

It’s strange how most of these men transitioning to women and insisting on sharing intimate space are still attracted to women, isn’t it?
Bizarre. Almost as bizarre as why the VAST majority of them keep their lady penises.
Igneococcus · 28/01/2022 06:56

I hate that these girls are being told that they are the ones need to fight this while officials, like Thomas Bach, the IOC president, with their secure pay packets and pensions pots, don't give a fuck.

Whatwouldscullydo · 28/01/2022 07:00

I wish I could say I was surprised but I'm not.

Of course this happened. What did people think would happen.

IvyTwines · 28/01/2022 08:24

@Ionlydomassiveones

Having lived in the US and knowing how conservative, paternal, sport-loving and Christian their society can be, I’m just amazed this is being allowed to happen so openly and flagrantly. Anyone with half a brain can see it for exactly what it is.
What are the demographics of the support for this sort of thing in the USA? Here, it's Ivy League, so I'd guess very white, upper middle/upper class?
MrsWooster · 28/01/2022 08:36

I only came to see if the usual suspects would turn up to defend the penis is the room. Odd that they haven’t.
It’s a shame some altruistic millionaire can’t supply DryRobes to all the female swim team so they can change at home….
I wonder how much titillation validation would be derived from an empty changing room.

MoltenLasagne · 28/01/2022 08:41

Thinking about the scholarships angle, these girls are being forced to put up with this in silence otherwise they lose:

  • their place on their team
  • the sport they've trained for years to do
  • their swimming linked scholarship
  • possibly their financial ability to complete their degree at an Ivy League university

It's the ultimate in emotional and financial coercion.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 28/01/2022 08:49

The sooner people realise that we are all being gaslit by sexual predators the better. I fucking hate the left now. I’m politically homeless.

Quite.

EdithStourton · 28/01/2022 08:50

If I was a parent of one of those young women, I'd be looking for ways to sue the university.

Do we have an address for the swimming team? Could we send supportive postcards or something?

ThatsWhenTheCannibalismStarted · 28/01/2022 08:52

@RVN123 your post chimes woth what I've just seen on another thread. The one about the school trip where the school has put responsibility on parents to agree/object to mixed sex sleeping. There's a poster who's been going on for days about how it should be allowed because the kids are friends and the girls have given permission, the boy in question really feels like a girl and probably isn't sexually attracted to girls anyway so it's NBD to share. The parents saying no are being big meanies. The usual stuff and I'm Shock at how/why anyone would want boys and girls to share*

No understanding of safeguarding. No concern that some of the girls might not be comfortable. No acknowledgment of the levels of sexual abuse and harrassment by males on females. No concern about teen pregnancy. No thought about protecting the boy from accusations. And I'm here hoping my head doesn't explode because it's SO INSANE!

*can't say what i really think for fear of deletion

sashh · 28/01/2022 08:54

@Flickflak

I think they should all boycott the change rooms and just go straight home. Not ideal but duck it. Also they should use plain language. Erection. Lia has erections when being around actual women changing.
The difficulty with this is that most, if not all of the girls on the team have to compete to get a college education.

If they go home they are hit with a huge bill for tuition.

I'd hope that while at college they could change in the rooms, stick a tracksuit on and not go into the changing room. They shouldn't have to and of course it will hurt Lia's feelings.

SleepingDoglets · 28/01/2022 08:56

RVN123

*^Emmelina
It’s strange how most of these men transitioning to women and insisting on sharing intimate space are still attracted to women, isn’t it?^

Bizarre. Almost as bizarre as why the VAST majority of them keep their lady penises.*

Almost as bizarre as the complete lack of posters defending him - where are they? Almost as if men swimming with women and changing with them despite having penises is indefensible.

Needmoresleep · 28/01/2022 08:57

My understanding is that actual sports scholarships at Ivy schools are rare. Ivy League is not a strong sports league, hence the surprise of any ‘woman’ qualifying from there to the National championships. Potential Olympians go to places like Auburn instead. Ivy League schools are incredibly competitive to get into, and unlike, say Oxbridge, they are looking for applicants with breadth: musicians, sportspeople, leaders. Most if not all the team will have used swimming to help gain the place, not to save money. If they qualify for financial support it will be because they gained the place through a combination of academics, sport and strength of application, and then qualified. They will want to stay on the team, partly because they have done years of training to get there and so this is what they do and where their friends are, but also being both athletic and academic enhances a CV.

Why should the rest stop doing what they do because of Lia?

Lia is shining a full beam spotlight on the issue. Ivy League , and the fact they don’t really buy in their sports team via scholarships means that many of the girls will have affluent and articulate parents who can afford lawyers.

Iamnotamermaid · 28/01/2022 09:00

@WhatyoutalkingaboutWillis

Perhaps they should all decamp to the blokes changing rooms knowing that Lia wouldn't/couldn't possibly follow!
That is exactly what they should do

there's nothing we can do about it, that we basically have to roll over and accept it, or we cannot use our own locker room."

So they cannot use their own locker room. Or they could stick on a dry robe and wait outside the changing rooms/lobby etc in protest until Lia has finished changing.

NotBadConsidering · 28/01/2022 09:06

@EeeICouldRipATissue @MargaritaPie @barleybadminton

Any comment on this thread? Anyone? Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?

[expects tumbleweeds]

ScreamingMeMe · 28/01/2022 09:42

@PenguindreamsofDraco

What's it coming to when a shy young lady like Lia can't expose her lady penis whenever she wishes. Those other girls really should just shut up and be kind.
Or just don't look, because it's rude.
Lia Thomas (again)
ScreamingMeMe · 28/01/2022 09:46

[quote NotBadConsidering]**@EeeICouldRipATissue* @MargaritaPie* @barleybadminton

Any comment on this thread? Anyone? Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?

[expects tumbleweeds][/quote]
@blueberrycheezecake ?

Mochudubh · 28/01/2022 10:19

@WhatyoutalkingaboutWillis

Perhaps they should all decamp to the blokes changing rooms knowing that Lia wouldn't/couldn't possibly follow!
I agree.
vivariumvivariumsvivaria · 28/01/2022 10:23

@WhatyoutalkingaboutWillis - the men in the men's changing rooms are the ones who respect women's boundaries. They are the good guys.

I'd take my chances in the men's changing rooms whether it's at a swim meet, M+S, Pure Gym or wherever...

Helleofabore · 28/01/2022 10:46

NotBadConsidering

The crickets are chirping.

VelvetChairGirl · 28/01/2022 10:55

its like the old joke about how many does it take to change a lightbulb, only its how many females does it take for this to be considered unacceptable.

(imho the number is infinity as no one cares unless a male starts complaining)

Mochudubh · 28/01/2022 10:56

[quote NotBadConsidering]**@EeeICouldRipATissue* @MargaritaPie* @barleybadminton

Any comment on this thread? Anyone? Anyone? Bueller? Bueller?

[expects tumbleweeds][/quote]
Yes, you'd think an Eel might have something to say on the issue.

Phobiaphobic · 28/01/2022 10:58

@Flickflak

The sooner people realise that we are all being gaslit by sexual predators the better. I fucking hate the left now. I’m politically homeless.
Join the gang.
VelvetChairGirl · 28/01/2022 11:11

@Flickflak

The sooner people realise that we are all being gaslit by sexual predators the better. I fucking hate the left now. I’m politically homeless.
its america, there is no left there so I dont know what the left have to do with anything when the nearest thing to the left they have is right wing centrists.