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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

World menopause day for 50% of people

203 replies

OhDear2200 · 18/10/2021 18:07

This has pissed me right off

www.acas.org.uk/menopause-at-work

Interestingly under the law bit gender reassignment is before sex. Angry

OP posts:
Sickoffamilydrama · 18/10/2021 19:52

I've actually just pointed out that for people with learning difficulties it's discriminatory not saying the word women means that someone doesn't know it's about them. My autistic daughter (who also has "mild" learning difficulties) certainly wouldn't be able to tell.

It always pisses me off that so much effort is being made for a small less than 1% minority but SEN diagnoses are about 1 in 10 and it's basically ignored 🙄

Version4needsabitofwork · 18/10/2021 19:52

I'm perimenopausal and I'm having a bad day. I gave them both barrels.

Thanks for posting OP, I found it quite cathartic.

mutantninja · 18/10/2021 19:55

@OhDear2200

Oooo didn’t see the comment bit.

It’s the total lack of the word woman and yet the use of trans woman that boils my piss.

It's so insane. Delete women but let's not forget about the men who would like to be recognised as women.
Lolapusht · 18/10/2021 20:13

@Version4needsabitofwork

I'm perimenopausal and I'm having a bad day. I gave them both barrels.

Thanks for posting OP, I found it quite cathartic.

Gotta love the PeriRage!!

Hope your day got better GinCake.

sharksarecool · 18/10/2021 20:15

@Piapiano

There's a bit at the bottom of the website which says something like "did you find the information you were looking for?". In clicked no, said that I didn't understand it and why have they erased the word "women". It's anonymous.
I have also filled this in with the following comment: "I'm a 47 year old male. Should I expect to go through the menopause? Your website does not make this clear"
HPFA · 18/10/2021 20:22

@Piapiano

There's a bit at the bottom of the website which says something like "did you find the information you were looking for?". In clicked no, said that I didn't understand it and why have they erased the word "women". It's anonymous.
Did the same.
viques · 18/10/2021 20:25

Have just discovered that if you click on the ACAS link provided by @OhDear2200 you can make another comment, and another , and another ............

I may be clicking for some time this evening,

TreXX · 18/10/2021 20:26

Ok, that's done me in for the day.

Got as far as "around 50% of people" and just couldn't cope with more.

Goodnight internet

ImSoMagical · 18/10/2021 20:27

@Piapiano thanks for that info, I've also replied no!

KittenKong · 18/10/2021 20:46

I was happy to see that today Timpsons (the shoe repair shop people) announced m that they would financially help out their staff with HRT prescriptions.

Awwww that’s nice I thought (Timpsons seem like a good lot) - but what was the Huff Posts take on this? ... HRT prescribed for women and trans women. They just had to get that in there didn’t they? Angry

Piapiano · 18/10/2021 20:51

I've just read Acas's accessibility statement on their website. Ironically it says:

"We've also made the website text as simple as possible to understand."

I think I might need to make another complaint...

oldwomanwhoruns · 18/10/2021 20:52

I posted this on the other current menopause thread, but worth repeating -
Stonewall have gone one better and also believe that there is an 'Andropause'

Workplace Equality Index 2021, page 4
1.8 Has the organisation reviewed other policies to ensure they are LGBT inclusive?
Guidance:
• This might include menopause or andropause policies

SickAndTiredAgain · 18/10/2021 20:54

@oldwomanwhoruns

I posted this on the other current menopause thread, but worth repeating - Stonewall have gone one better and also believe that there is an 'Andropause'

Workplace Equality Index 2021, page 4
1.8 Has the organisation reviewed other policies to ensure they are LGBT inclusive?
Guidance:
• This might include menopause or andropause policies

To be fair, andropause isn’t a stonewall idea and isn’t new. I’ve no idea on it’s validity but I’m not sure it’s anything to do with stonewall - article from 2002

academic.oup.com/biomedgerontology/article/57/2/M76/547924

Delphinium20 · 18/10/2021 20:59

Is 'The Menopause' a British way of saying it, with 'the'? Or are they having a go at that too?

GeorgiaMcGraw · 18/10/2021 21:10

I've commented. Sick of "woman" being a taboo word. They can all just fuck off, frankly. I am an angry, hormonal, pregnant woman. One day, if I'm lucky, I'll be an angry, hormonal, menopausal woman. No man will ever experience these things. That is reality.

Disfordarkchocolate · 18/10/2021 21:17

@Piapiano

There's a bit at the bottom of the website which says something like "did you find the information you were looking for?". In clicked no, said that I didn't understand it and why have they erased the word "women". It's anonymous.
I had fun filling this in too.
KittenKong · 18/10/2021 21:19

Oh yes, it will probably all be ignored though, as they are beyond help.

PickAChew · 18/10/2021 21:21

I couldn't find the feedback link.

BelindaBumcrack · 18/10/2021 21:22

Oh wow! It's people etc until the section about "Supporting trans, intersex and non-binary employees" Women don't actually get a mention at all. But men do. How absolutely fucking surprising... !!

WomaninBoots · 18/10/2021 21:29

We can't even keep the bloody menopause for ourselves can we?

Side effect from variously poisoning your body with cross sex hormones is not the fucking menopause!

KittenKong · 18/10/2021 21:30

@PickAChew

I couldn't find the feedback link.
Allllll the way down at the bottom.
World menopause day for 50% of people
Tidyspy · 18/10/2021 21:31

Could it be hereditary I wonder…? Maybe there’s a test you can get to find out if you’re a carrier (or whatever the scientific term is)? And what could the symptoms be? It’s just all so mysterious. Baffling.

PickAChew · 18/10/2021 21:37

Ah, thanks, kitten

I'd blame my menopause brain but apparently that doesn't affect me.

KittenKong · 18/10/2021 21:39

No - it’s easy to miss, the way they’ve put it into the bar there. Have fun!

itsraininghere · 18/10/2021 22:15

That is unbelievable. Women totally removed . Trans and intersex specifically recognised.