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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Single sex spaces are "The hill I am prepared to die on".

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Maskless · 04/10/2021 20:34

JHB tells BO'N that women's safety in single sex spaces is the topic she is prepared to lose her job about, and the hill she is prepared to die on.

I'm so glad to hear a high profile, loud and forceful woman making such a trenchant, no-nonsense, emphatic announcement about this issue.

Imagine how different things would be if EVERY female presenter, every female MP, every female in the public eye, was as steadfast.

www.spiked-online.com/podcast-episode/a-world-gone-mad/

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Maskless · 04/10/2021 20:36

23:30 onwards is where she gets really good.

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Dinosaurwoman · 04/10/2021 20:36

Please could you explain this more, I don’t know who JHB and BO’N are what the context is

Maskless · 04/10/2021 20:37

@Dinosaurwoman

Please could you explain this more, I don’t know who JHB and BO’N are what the context is
Oh, it's about the trans issue. Click the link to the video and all is explained.
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GingerAndTheBiscuits · 04/10/2021 20:41

@Dinosaurwoman

Please could you explain this more, I don’t know who JHB and BO’N are what the context is
Julia Hartley-Brewer and Brendan O’Neill
Conniethesensible · 04/10/2021 20:43

Just a thought. Would people like Elliot Page then have to go to the women’s bathroom? Or Chaz Bono?

And don’t you dare say they can use the disabled room. That’s insulting for actual disabled people who need those provisions.

Let’s be real this would be rather silly wouldn’t it?

ArabellaScott · 04/10/2021 20:45

Elliot Page can use the women's TOILET ffs we're not in America. Elliot is welcome, of course. Why on earth not?

Let's be real and not patronise each other, hmm?

ArabellaScott · 04/10/2021 20:48

Should transmen be sent to a men's prison should they be convicted of a crime?

334bu · 04/10/2021 20:50

Would people like Elliot Page then have to go to the women’s bathroom

Do you really think that Elliot could use the men's and not be clocked as female?

yourhairiswinterfire · 04/10/2021 20:53

@Conniethesensible

Just a thought. Would people like Elliot Page then have to go to the women’s bathroom? Or Chaz Bono?

And don’t you dare say they can use the disabled room. That’s insulting for actual disabled people who need those provisions.

Let’s be real this would be rather silly wouldn’t it?

Third spaces are the answer.

If only those lobby groups spent their £££ and energy on campaigning for that, instead of trying to take, take, take from women...they could have made real progress by now.

Conniethesensible · 04/10/2021 20:53

@ArabellaScott

Elliot Page can use the women's TOILET ffs we're not in America. Elliot is welcome, of course. Why on earth not?

Let's be real and not patronise each other, hmm?

Because he’s a man? Hardly think that’s patronising?

Also, you’ve totally dodged someone like Chaz who sports a beard, using the loo and just completely spiralled because I said toilet rather than bathroom.

How am I supposed to know who was born as female and who was born as male when they clearly present male without some sort of hideous genital inspection. or the fact your logic would allow any man to access women’s toilets. (Said toilets, happy now?)

TheMarzipanDildo · 04/10/2021 20:54

I’d have no problem with Elliot page using the women’s toilets. However I do thing we need more unisex single toilets for people who might feel uncomfortable in the toilets that match their sex.

Artichokeleaves · 04/10/2021 20:55

Women should not be allowed single sex spaces, even though this excludes many women from using those spaces (particularly some of the disabled ones that Connie is rightly passionate about protecting the rights of) ..... because that might mean Elliot Page 'has' to use the women's toilet?

You what?

I don't care what Elliot Page chooses to do, that's up to Elliot Page. What I care about is that there are single sex women's spaces for women who need them, and those spaces are protected from male people who have no regard or interest in the inclusion of females in seeking to meet their own needs.

EdgeOfACoin · 04/10/2021 20:56

Because he’s a man?

What makes Elliot Page a man? What is your definition of a 'man'?

TheMarzipanDildo · 04/10/2021 20:56

Although tbh toilets just aren’t a massive issue for me personally- prisons and women’s refuges however...

Artichokeleaves · 04/10/2021 20:57

And meant to add: Absolutely respect to JHB, I wish more women journalists had her guts.

334bu · 04/10/2021 20:58

I don't care what Elliot Page chooses to do, that's up to Elliot Page. What I care about is that there are single sex women's spaces for women who need them, and those spaces are protected from male people who have no regard or interest in the inclusion of females in seeking to meet their own needs.
Exactly!

Helmetbymidnight · 04/10/2021 20:59

the idea that we need genital inspections to have womens sports, prisons and refuges is off the scale nuts - it sounds like abusive male talk- 'im not going to respect your boundaries'

somethinginoffensive · 04/10/2021 21:00

And don’t you dare say they can use the disabled room. That’s insulting for actual disabled people who need those provisions.

So disabled people are a clear group with needs that should be respected. Women however...?!

yourhairiswinterfire · 04/10/2021 21:02

@ArabellaScott

Should transmen be sent to a men's prison should they be convicted of a crime?
I'd like to see this answered, too!

If Elliot Page is a man, Connie, should he be sent to a men's prison if he breaks the law?

Conniethesensible · 04/10/2021 21:02

@Helmetbymidnight

the idea that we need genital inspections to have womens sports, prisons and refuges is off the scale nuts - it sounds like abusive male talk- 'im not going to respect your boundaries'
I totally agree. I want to completely avoid this happening. inews.co.uk/news/uk/butch-lesbian-public-toilet-women-abuse-government-review-gender-neutral-facilities-833787
HeddaAga · 04/10/2021 21:05

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GrouchyKiwi · 04/10/2021 21:06

As if genitals are the only sign we have of someone's sex. Hmm

Good for JHB.

NiceGerbil · 04/10/2021 21:06

@Conniethesensible

Just a thought. Would people like Elliot Page then have to go to the women’s bathroom? Or Chaz Bono?

And don’t you dare say they can use the disabled room. That’s insulting for actual disabled people who need those provisions.

Let’s be real this would be rather silly wouldn’t it?

Elliot page is an actor I think? Who had a double mastectomy?

No idea about the other one.

Why wouldn't a female person, esp a famous one. Want to use the ladies?

They'd be safe in the gents? Comfy?

As the reason for separate facilities is to do with the safety of people with vaginas from penis people. If they want then obv can use ladies.

If want to use gents nothing stopping them. I'm sure most men would not feel comfy having those they clock as female coming in.

The men aren't going to feel at risk though surely. Just a bit embarrassed, annoyed, confused etc.

If there is risk it is for the ovary person who goes into the gents.

If the person born with a clitoris 'passes' (hate that term) then they will use the gents no problem.

I don't understand your point at all tbh.

334bu · 04/10/2021 21:07

Always interesting that it's always toilets that trans allies want to discuss, they never want to discuss female prisoners being forced to share cell and showers with male sex offenders or female rape victims being forced to share counselling sessions with people of the opposite sex or homeless women forced to sleep beside male bodied people. So Conniethesensible should these women be further traumatised by being denied single sex spaces?

Gncq · 04/10/2021 21:08

Gender ideology myth number 17 "For there to be women only spaces we'll need genital inspections for everyone"....