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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

GC women thrown out of Edinburgh pub

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cariadlet · 22/08/2021 20:02

Sorry if there's already a thread on this. I've been following it on twitter all day but didn't spot anything on Mumsnet.

The Edinburgh News has got a report about it.
www.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/news/politics/inquiry-launched-into-row-over-transphobia-in-edinburgh-pub-3355594

The reporter quotes a lot of the TRA's tweets which they would probably love but I think the reporter's just given them enough rope to hang themselves.

I'm sure the average reader who hasn't followed the trans debate won't be impressed by someone who calls themselves an "AGP porn addict male" in their twitter bio.

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MissingLesbianSpaces · 26/08/2021 19:29

A word on autogynephiles. This comes directly from the mouth of my friend in Ohio. There is a lesbian fest in the woods where transwoman are welcome. Many lesbians started noticing a transwoman about age 60 hanging out at the outdoor showers giving off a creepy vibe, but nobody confronted home. After fest, my friend looked at his Twitter or Facebook and he had posted pictures of women's faces being ejaculated on. Just their faces. I don't know ONE lesbian who looks at women this way. Only a man would take "part" of a woman's body and deem it a sperm receptacle. These men have destroyed my community.
When woman began talking about this dude on the festival's Facebook page later, he went into a narcissistic rage and threatened my friend with "I know where you work". The number of women who felt creeped out by him watching them shower nude, but did not publicize their feelings, was in the dozens.

Jorriss · 26/08/2021 19:30

I've got a relative who does this. Says two opinions, which are completely opposite to one another, and then afterwards makes a claim to which ever one fits the bill

Weird isn't it. It's not like words that disappear after they have been spoken. It's actually written down. There's a written record of it created by them. How can people deny what they wrote, when the words they wrote are right there in front of us. 🤔

MissingLesbianSpaces · 26/08/2021 19:31

The story above is true. I wonder how long it will stay up before being deleted this time.

Jorriss · 26/08/2021 19:31

MissingLesbianSpaces There are no words.

Jorriss · 26/08/2021 19:32

@MissingLesbianSpaces

The story above is true. I wonder how long it will stay up before being deleted this time.
Why, are we not allowed to know about this or something?
BilindaB · 26/08/2021 19:32

Ok, I will say it again - despite one assertion that I admitted I was mistaken about, my first and last post on the subject, after being asked my opinion on the matter, was that I wasn't there and couldn't know the truth. Something that is beyond others, who definitely know the truth, despite not being there.

Journeyofthedragons · 26/08/2021 19:36

Now what about the others who are certain they know what happened?

We Believe Women

BilindaB · 26/08/2021 19:36

@MissingLesbianSpaces

The story above is true. I wonder how long it will stay up before being deleted this time.
Possibly it might be, you're conflating one person with all trans women. And misgendering them. I won't be reporting it though, if it does get deleted it's not me and it wasn't me last time (Mumsnet may kindly confirm this)
Nellodee · 26/08/2021 19:38

The claim isn't that 95% of people weren't aware that transwomen may have penises, it is that although a majority of women agreed that TWAW, when they were specifically asked whether TW with penises should be allowed in women's toilets, they said no.

Evidence:
report

GC women thrown out of Edinburgh pub
BilindaB · 26/08/2021 19:39

I do find the conflation and misgendering deeply offensive though.

BilindaB · 26/08/2021 19:41

@Nellodee

The claim isn't that 95% of people weren't aware that transwomen may have penises, it is that although a majority of women agreed that TWAW, when they were specifically asked whether TW with penises should be allowed in women's toilets, they said no.

Evidence:
report

No, the claim referred to the people in the YouGov poll.
RedDogsBeg · 26/08/2021 19:42

Could you provide evidence for your only 3,000 GC women claim BilindaB, several posters have asked for this.

Rhannion · 26/08/2021 19:43

[quote BilindaB]Something like what this Margaret Atwood person thinks I suppose

twitter.com/MargaretAtwood/status/1280262917506641922[/quote]
Unfortunately science seems to have pasted her by. Ms Atwood seems to have drunk the kool aid, probably because of money as is often the case, or age has caught up with her.

RedDogsBeg · 26/08/2021 19:44

@BilindaB

I do find the conflation and misgendering deeply offensive though.
Yeah, that's clearly way more offensive that what MissingLesbian has reported, jfc.
Nellodee · 26/08/2021 19:44

Bilinda. Let's just say for a moment TWAW, TMAM.

Which type of men are the ones most likely to sexually assault women?
The ones with penises.

Which type of women are the ones most likely to sexually assault women?
The ones with penises.

It's actually really transphobic to exclude men, rather than penis people, because TMAM and they aren't really a risk.

The people we need to beware of and potentially exclude are the ones with penises.

As illustrated above, in MissingLesbianSpaces post, whatever the fuck we call them.

BilindaB · 26/08/2021 19:44

@RedDogsBeg

Could you provide evidence for your only 3,000 GC women claim BilindaB, several posters have asked for this.
Maybe sometime, if you all behave yourselves x
Nellodee · 26/08/2021 19:45

You asked for evidence, and I posted it within two posts or so.

Just come out and say you don't have it already.

-I- know where you got it from, fer Chrissake.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 26/08/2021 19:46

@BilindaB

I do find the conflation and misgendering deeply offensive though.
There is no conflation.

Missing has not said "all transwomen are like this". She has described an individual, and said people like that individual are destroying a lesbian community.

Why are you more offended that a person is being described using sex-based pronouns on a forum post they will never read, which does not name them, than you are that this person lurked voyeuristically at the showers at a women's space?

Dozens of women were actually upset and disturbed by this behaviour, but you have no comment on that.

BernardBlackMissesLangCleg · 26/08/2021 19:46

@BilindaB

I do find the conflation and misgendering deeply offensive though.
no one is saying all transwomen want access to women's spaces to perve on women

what we are asking though is how you can tell the difference between transwomen who want access to women's spaces for what ever reason and men who want access to women's spaces to perve on women?

unless you think women should just be a resource to be perved over for those who feel like it?

Nellodee · 26/08/2021 19:47

Bilinda, that link WAS to the Yougov poll.

BilindaB · 26/08/2021 19:51

@Nellodee

Bilinda. Let's just say for a moment TWAW, TMAM.

Which type of men are the ones most likely to sexually assault women?
The ones with penises.

Which type of women are the ones most likely to sexually assault women?
The ones with penises.

It's actually really transphobic to exclude men, rather than penis people, because TMAM and they aren't really a risk.

The people we need to beware of and potentially exclude are the ones with penises.

As illustrated above, in MissingLesbianSpaces post, whatever the fuck we call them.

Some muslims are terrorists. A tiny minority. It would be wrong to 'beware and potentially exclude' all muslims from anything because of this.
RedDogsBeg · 26/08/2021 19:51

Maybe sometime, if you all behave yourselves x

That's cutting edge, serious debate right there everyone, hope you are all impressed.

BilindaB · 26/08/2021 19:57

''Only a man would take "part" of a woman's body and deem it a sperm receptacle. These men have destroyed my community.''

Conflation and misgendering.

It goes without saying the story is disturbing and the individual is disgusting.

Deliriumoftheendless · 26/08/2021 19:58

Well, whatever race or religion a terrorist is, you wouldn’t let a convicted terrorist in jail near bomb making equipment would you?

A rapist on the other hand can bunk with female prisoners.

RedDogsBeg · 26/08/2021 20:00

Some muslims are terrorists. A tiny minority. It would be wrong to 'beware and potentially exclude' all muslims from anything because of this.

Yet we have safeguards in order to try and prevent terrorist atrocities, would you like to rip up those safeguards?

Some people of the male sex class are a proven threat to people of the female sex class and in order to try and prevent this safeguards were put in place, safeguards such as single sex facilities, you would appear to want those safeguards ripped up irrespective of the effect on those they were put in place to protect.