Asking for receipts is of course reasonable.
Dismissing large amounts of evidence, such as the parliamentary debates around the maternity bill, or what happened in Scotland around the Lamont amendment, with 'See, didn't happen!' - that's not reasonable. It ignores the huge amount of work that women did to push back and ensure it didn't happen. It assumes we won't have to do it all over again the next time something is slipped into proposed legislation that would harm us.
Dismissing posters' experiences of what's happening in their workplaces, health services or in various women's, pregnancy, childbirth and breastfeeding groups with, 'You're wrong, I found a screenshot!' - that's not reasonable. It assumes there is no problem until the very last accurate reference to women or mothers has been erased. It assumes posters are just making it up.
To do this again and again and again in quick succession, page after page, over a period of two days - that's really not reasonable.
PP suggested to that poster that they could just browse through threads on FWR and find plenty of examples. That's a good suggestion. Just on the current first page there are the following examples of the mangling of language:
- a teacher telling 9 year olds that boys can be girls
- Home Office replacing sex with gender, and gender reassignment with gender identity, in their Equality Objectives statement
- article in the BMJ advocating that clinicians record gender identity and stop recording sex
- a female student who said 'women have vaginas' is cleared after a two month long investigation into whether her comments were offensive and discriminatory
- Government of Guernsey inviting 'anyone with a cervix' for screening
- a campaign to stop the police in Scotland recording rapists as women if that's what they say they are
- a school equality policy that replaces sex with gender, gender reassignment with gender identity or reassignment, and sexual orientation with sexual identity and orientation
My intention was not at all to engage in emotional blackmail and I am sorry if some posters got that impression. (but thank you everyone for your kind wishes
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I could have made up something less emotive I suppose:
'the only reason I indulged your unreasonable demands is because it served as a useful distraction from ... clearing out the loft? doing my tax return? writing a really dull report for work? removing a dead badger from the shed?'
Nobody on any 'side' should be expected to write a thesis-level argument or rebuttal but there's a lot of middle ground between that and 'didn't happen because random screenshot'.
This is all quite dull though.
What do posters think about what Public Health Wales are doing?
Do people agree that if PHW are #100 in the workplace equality index, then #1-99 are likely to have done at least as much? Does anybody have time to go through some of them and check? (I don't, I really do have a boring report to write now!)
Is this starting to look widespread to anyone else?