*De-lurking just to say that I think more people are likely to be put off by the anti-trans views they see on Mumsnet than they are to become GC.
I used to love this forum, but there's only one form of 'feminism' which is allowed here and it's not welcoming to those with other views.*
Wait, what? So feminism shouldn't, in your view, centre the needs of women?
What should it do then? Centre men who feel like women and agree to the erasure of language that is needed to protect our sex based rights, OK then.
The brand of feminism you appear to resent despises gender based stereotypes that are causing these issues and recognises the need for sex based rights and the language needed to defend them.
Really we ignore all of this at our peril. You must come from a position of immense privilege to not see that women need sex based protections and language.