[quote OldCrone]I'm not a believer in the idea that doing nothing for a trans child / adolescent is a neutral act.
When you say 'trans child', what do you mean exactly? What makes a child 'trans'?
Some people are suggesting that very young (pre-school) children can be 'trans'. Do you agree with this?
The diagnostic criteria for trans children appear to be mostly based on stereotypes. Do you think it is appropriate to set children on a lifelong medical pathway because they don't conform to stereotypes?
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I suppose when I say trans child, I really mean an adolescent on a trans health care pathway. But, do I think some children will benefit from trans healthcare? As a proportion of about 12.5 million under 18's not many, but yes, I think some will. Do I think pre pubescent children can have an awareness of being trans. From my own experience, yes. Whether they have the language to articulate it or live in a supportive environment that will allow them to flourish is a different matter. My parents used to ask why I couldn't just be gay, we haven't spoken in many years and that situation is not going to change.
However, as far as I am aware the diagnostic criteria requires puberty to have started, I think they refer to it as tanned stage 2 (I could be so g) so it's highly unlikely in the UK at least that a pre pubescent child will be allowed to do anything more than social aspects that make them feel comfortable. If those social changes make them comfortable in their own skin, I look at it as a positive thing. Why force a child to be unhappy, it doesn't make sense?
When you say a life long medical pathway, I'm not quite sure we sing from the same hymn sheet. From personal experience, I wouldn't call a patch change twice a week and a trip to the nurse once a year for bloods, cholesterol and a BP check being on a life long medical pathway. It's probably quite handy as a gauge of my general health so, again that's positive.
For a small minority of children the world over, I do think trans healthcare during adolescence is on balance beneficial. Some quite invasive surgeries during adulthood can be avoided this way.
Does that mean to say that there won't be misdiagnosis and consequent de-transitions? Of course not, but there are misdiagnosis prevalent in many serious health care settings so it's important to ensure the rate is low, lessons are learnt and those affected are adequately supported. I find important to distinguish between desistors and de-transitioners though. Seeing as the numbers referred are in the thousands but the numbers treated in the hundreds I think anyone using desistance prior to diagnosis rates to curtail healthcare is possibly acting in poor faith. I certainly wouldn't advocate for the cessation of a treatment that appears on the whole to be beneficial to most. It seems a bit like throwing the baby out with the bathwater.
Of course, it's only my opinion, I'm not involved in healthcare, nor do I personally know any trans children. So, as I've mentioned before, I'm content to leave these things to the child, their parents/guardians and the clinicians involved in their care. Me sticking my size 8's in to the mix is not very likely to improve an already difficult time for a child and their family. I am really pleased though that there are parents out there who are happy to let their children find comfort, such love and care in the face of much intolerance is a really positive thing.