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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Eighth- Sealion training for beginners

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SophocIestheFox · 13/02/2021 21:08

Old thread nearly full!

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The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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TinselAngel · 13/02/2021 23:30

I recall distressing everyone vis a vis sea otter proclivities.

Winesalot · 13/02/2021 23:47

It was while waiting for Faircop.

I get the giggles everytime I see the words sea lion on MN now. A nervous giggle.....

I do love penguins.

But not the biscuits of course. Tim tams are still. better.

boatyardblues · 14/02/2021 00:12

@Ereshkigalangcleg

Personally I really enjoy it when my fluffy toe warmers tell me how brilliant I am. It's very affirming.

My DP is a physicist so I bought him some socks with equations on for Xmas. They are very cute Smile and I guess validate his MSc, and I also bought him some grandad style tweed slippers, which are never off his feet. So lots of cosy footwear chez Eresh.

I bought DH some posh sheepskin slippers for his birthday last year and he bought me some wonderful felted wool ones for Christmas. We are living the lockdown dream here. As we rarely leave the house, our new slippers are getting plenty of wear.
SophocIestheFox · 14/02/2021 00:14

Tim tams are still. better

This is a fact.

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TinselAngel · 14/02/2021 00:15

I now have two pairs of slippers, one for sitting, and one for doing housework in.

Winesalot · 14/02/2021 00:17

Except caramel ones Sophocles. I don’t understand them. But they seem to be limited editions so that is ok.

Long live the tim tam!!! Can’t wait for trade deal to eventuate. Maybe tim tams will again be available in British supermarkets at reasonable prices.!!!

boatyardblues · 14/02/2021 00:20

DH made me laugh hard a while ago about duck penises. We were talking about how some ducks have corkscrew penises (as you do). DH cracked a “righty tighty, lefty loosey” joke. It was several weeks into lockdown 1 so it was the funniest thing I’d heard in a while. I’ve now been on a diet of almost exclusively Dad jokes for over 10 months. Even Radio 4 seems funny now.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/02/2021 00:24

I've just been looking at maths socks. So far, the only pair I've seen in women's sizes has very easy maths on them. Hmm

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/02/2021 00:32

I have no idea whether the equations on DP's socks are easy BlushGrin he liked them anyway. I got them from a website called Present Indicative which has lots of great present ideas.

PastMyBestBeforeDate · 14/02/2021 00:37

I was going to ask for links to Maths socks for dd who is large of foot:) And very good at maths.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/02/2021 00:42

I got a bit sensitised when finding DD some physics/engineering t-shirts... searching for them, the men's t shirts were all for male engineers. A lot of the women's ones were for women whose male partner was an engineer.

The physics socks on that site are size 6-11...DD and I have size 4 feet.
However, more happily I've just found this!

https://www.presentindicative.com/collections/chemistry/products/bluestocking-enamel-pin

Grin
BlackeyedSusan · 14/02/2021 00:49

Sod the fecking dolphins,drakes and sealions....the post about rightytighty nearly did for me. Late tea, nearly inhaling lentils and chia seeds...when trying not to laugh too loudly and wake the boy

PotholeParadies · 14/02/2021 05:59

Just put the size 6-11 socks in the tumble dryer a few times.

DaisiesandButtercups · 14/02/2021 08:04

Wow this moved fast in the night! Thank you for starting it SophocIestheFox.

DickKerrLadies · 14/02/2021 08:17

Morning all, I see you've all been busy.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/02/2021 08:35

Tumble driers don't shrink socks that much IME. Some of the arts/humanities sections offered a choice of sizes for their themed socks. Similar with the t-shirts - as far as I can see the STEM ones are all 'unisex' aka 'default male', many of the arts/humanities ones are available in a choice of fittings. Its a site with some great stuff, which I shall try to remember for next Xmas, but it's got the usual everyday sexism.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/02/2021 08:37

I quite fancy a 'Procrastinator' badge, but I doubt I'll get round to ordering one...

PotholeParadies · 14/02/2021 08:48

Errol any possibility you could take over my washing? I have a genius for shrinking socks. [hopeful]

I've found these equation socks on there which come in small and large! Currently out of stock, but you can register for them to email you when they come back in stock.

www.presentindicative.com/products/equation-socks

Ereshkigalangcleg · 14/02/2021 09:03

Yes they are the exact ones I bought for DP, Potholes.

highame · 14/02/2021 09:08

Asked for slippers for Christmas and got the most bizarre Christmas ones ever, totally unsuitable for anything after boxing day? I have taking to wearing the oldies (I have 3 pairs so yer a lightweight Tinsel).

This new thread looks promising. I noticed the classic lesson in how to combat derailment.

Nice positive start, I look forward to progress during 2021

Just going to sort out the sock drawer

PotholeParadies · 14/02/2021 09:13

I am so useful. Blush

ErrolTheDragon · 14/02/2021 09:13

Ah, much better. Grin
(Now I want to make some joke about Euler's Identity but I've not had any coffee yet so can't quite formulate it.)

ErrolTheDragon · 14/02/2021 09:21

Very good, cara - I got rather simpler ones for dd** a few years back, something like this, perfect for Trekkie electronics geek, and the ' may the F=ma be with you' type

www.spreadshirt.co.uk/shop/design/physics+nerd+geek+resistance+futile+gingerbread+teacher+womens+t-shirt-D5cdd98885fd3e41a36a68c4d?sellable=30mqZQlBJ0uZgqyD2QAJ-631-8

ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 14/02/2021 11:25

As a vegan, I'm not entirely sure I approve of training sessions Hmm

A short list of ideas I sometimes find useful when reading threads on here:

Logical fallacies eg:
www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newTMC_81.htm

DARVO eg:
en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/DARVO

Manipulative techniques eg:
lifelessons.co/critical-thinking/kafkatrapping/

It can be quite entertaining to see how many you can spot in a single post...