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Bunburying and wassailing into winter - thread 7

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CaraDuneRedux · 02/12/2020 11:41

Time for a new thread. Please can someone c&p the header post? (Am on phone.)

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HecatesCats · 02/12/2020 12:06

Glitterball Figgy puddings all round Glitterball

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

Remember there are people out there who would like to silence us by fair means or foul.

This is a continuation of the Public Service Announcement thread:

https://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3944572-Bunburys-guide-to-community-disruptors-part-5?pg=40

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging. AS is your friend.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted.. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we always have community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the ‘Break it Down for me’ and ‘It never happens’ threads but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

Go well Witches gin

Nomnomarrgh · 02/12/2020 12:17

Mmm to Bunbury or not to Bunbury? I’m always worried that I will be accused of being a disruptor (only one biscuit reference afaik).

ArabellaScott · 02/12/2020 12:23

Morning, all.

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 02/12/2020 13:14

For wave

Just the pub (shed) to do

Have done everywhere else 🎄

Bunburying and wassailing into winter - thread 7
MaudTheInvincible · 02/12/2020 13:23

That's spectacular, Rufus! Xmas Grin

fatblackcatspaw · 02/12/2020 13:34

ummmm i'm getting really wound up now....

fatblackcatspaw · 02/12/2020 13:34

I think I need to go and look at kitten pictures

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 02/12/2020 13:44

Thanks maud

😀

WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 13:46

Wow that's gorgeous rufus!
I can't offer any emotional support cat pics because she's under the bed, @fatblackcatspaw

I can offer some quality floof though.

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RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 02/12/2020 13:51

Oh gosh

Floof is an actual thing 🐑

fatblackcatspaw · 02/12/2020 13:55

yeah that sheep was on the lam for years!

fatblackcatspaw · 02/12/2020 13:56

Siamese Kitten sititng on Enid Marx's shoulder

Bunburying and wassailing into winter - thread 7
WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 13:56
Grin
WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 13:57

that is lovely fatblackcatspaw

MaudTheInvincible · 02/12/2020 14:13

Love that kitten! Also love Enid Marx's hair 😍

WaveWalker · 02/12/2020 14:14

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RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 02/12/2020 14:17

@fatblackcatspaw

yeah that sheep was on the lam for years!
😶
RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 02/12/2020 14:18

Hahahahahaaaaaa

Was funny

RufustheSniggeringReindeer · 02/12/2020 14:18

wave 😀

Id love a siamese cat

Winesalot · 02/12/2020 14:43

Noooo Rufus!!! The shed with the tribbles???

Pahrump · 02/12/2020 14:49

Afternoon bunbos just the weather for a mulled wine I think

fatblackcatspaw · 02/12/2020 15:44

@MaudTheInvincible

Love that kitten! Also love Enid Marx's hair 😍
if you google she has pics of very cross looking siamese cats... she and her partner were early siamese adopters
MaudTheInvincible · 02/12/2020 15:48

I had a siamese called Miffy when I was a very small girl. I've always thought they're beautiful creatures.

fatblackcatspaw · 02/12/2020 15:59

I think they are stunning but I have a friend who has a tonkinese and the shouting is a bit much... vocal... woah

Thelnebriati · 02/12/2020 16:21
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