1. Criticising someone’s arguments is not a personal attack
Nobody's said otherwise.
2. Asking people to keep their personal sexual preferences to themselves is not a personal attack
3. Telling people to not bringing their genitalia into discussions is not a personal attack.
See - this - when someone is speculating about you personally, and what you do or don't do with your own genitalia - how is it them the one bringing it up?! Are they just supposed to let it slide and not put right, and pretend that people aren't doing such a thing?
4. Questioning a link leading to something fundamentally different than purported is not a personal attack
OK, not sure what this is referring to, but fair enough
5. Disagreeing with someone about what is age appropriate is not a personal attack
Nobody said otherwise