@jj1968
I have been 'misgendered' by many many men. Never by a woman oddly'
Well clearly some women have had different experiences. I'm not saying all gender nonconforming women oppose bathroom bills, but that some have done because they think it would be harmful to them. I'm not even saying they are right necessarily (I think they are but its not my point), or that their views should supercede other views. What I objected to was attempts to erase them from the debate and the refusal to address or even acknowledge their concerns.
I don't think its so much people wanting to 'erase them from the debate'..as others trying to shoehorn them in to prop up their own view, which really, has fuck all to do with gender non conforming women or how they are percieved, and everything to do with male people, which is a totally different thing. Some women may have had that experience, if they did, thats shit. But it is not a common thing, or not among me and my butch mates anyway. Men call us men, often. But women know we are women, is the general rule.
Actually jj, the constant 'its about gender presentation' has me a little stumped. Because if its about presentation, then despite being of the female sex, I am very very much of the 'masculine' presentation, if its presentation that matters, not sex, am I meant to be in the blokes?! It seems to be you who is arguing about it being about stereotypes no? But then equally whining about gender non conforming women being disallowed in the womens?
This thread is glitching like hell..