The whole 'privilege' thing has been creaking badly for years. It's the sole justification on which almost all of this hangs; the reason for expecting women to suck up disadvantage, oppression and harm in the name of righting some perceived held and massively unfair advantage over male born people.
Which is almost exactly the same as MRA thinking if you check the MRA sites and stated grievances against women, and also goes hand in hand with the same view you often see explained of this 'pampered' class, (see the highly misogynist comments often on national newspapers about they never had to go and fight in wars did they? and they get to swan about fussing over hairstyles with kids while men have to go to work to support them and take time off work to pop out kids while expecting to get the same pay and on and on). However when privilege is mentioned in this context, it often seems to move over into resentment of women who are perceived as getting to have and do the things envied by males who feel restricted by gender stereotypes, and of unfairly 'gatekeeping' and 'refusing membership' to the desired things.
The 'privilege' line when you see it expressed in arguments seems to translate as a belief that female people owe males, that their suffering and surrendering their unfair 'benefits' rights this perceived wrong of them having by birthright what some males may perceive as rightfully theirs and denied to them, (please test this yourself by reading such arguments) and it often tips over into a near sadistic wishing to see punishment for the crime of being born female.
It is almost always (again please test this for yourself) based on a male view of what a male may perceive women to be, with the focus therefore only on the parts of womanhood of personal interest and relevance, which is why any mention of the realities of being born with female biology, oppression and disadvantage of such biology, is dismissed and laughed at. The quoted philosopher on a thread a while back (I can't find the link) commented that many men see women as 'terra nullis' - there is nothing there except what men project upon it, and colonising it merely puts something useful and relevant where there was nothing before.
As explained by a TW in a thread recently here (to paraphrase) if you believe you're somehow oppressed then there's no point in trying to talk to you.