@Sexnotgender
I wonder, how many women in prison wear dresses and makeup?
I watched a program a while back and while it was obviously just a snapshot the women were predominantly wearing tracksuit bottoms, jeans or leggings and hoodies or jumpers. I don’t recall seeing much makeup.
Perhaps we’re veering (again) into what males think makes a woman versus the reality of being a woman.
I was thinking that - on the police investigation real life programmes I have seen, the poor women are in such a terrible situation by the time they get to prison, make up and dresses are extremely unlikely to be on the list.
Surviving their trauma, drug addiction, eating disorder, separation from children, trying to work out how to get away from their pimp when they get out might be higher priorities for the majority.
Where women have found make up and dresses to be a factor in encouraging unpleasant treatment by males, they tend to quietly avoid wearing them. It is not so long ago that women were blamed for their own rapes because of what they were wearing - I still nag my beautiful teenage daughter to cover up (I still can't work out how to justify this to her) when she goes out.
I wonder why someone who is not born female would place such high value on being able to wear such things when so many women deliberately avoid it.
gahh fell for the derail again but maybe one day the message will stick?