@LilMissRe Sorry you felt ignored! I’ve replied to your questions below, though all of your questions have been addressed at least thematically in this thread.
1-Can I be anti-israeli (gov/policy) and not be considered anti semitic?
No you cannot ordinarily be anti-Israeli, as explained previously in the thread. Yes, you can oppose an Israeli government or government policy if this is about issues. To oppose the Israeli government overall is weird; like saying “I’m anti British government”... all of them? You’d prefer a monarchy? You want Britain to cease to exist? You need to be specific, if you’re not in opposition to the State of Israel existing.
I dislike many of the policies that have emerged under Likud, at a domestic level, but I would dislike them anywhere else. For example, I think stores should open 7 days a week without “Sunday times” or “Shabbat hours” because your choice to be at home shouldn’t ruin my weekend. My issue is with shop opening times, and so I don’t say “I’m anti Britain” or “I’m anti religious” but more “I’m anti short opening hours.”
Equally, you need to be consistent. If you oppose the treatment of Palestinians by Israel, you should be able to describe precisely what you mean by that. Equally, where other countries do the same - you should condemn them equally. If you don’t, that suggests your issue is with Israel more than it is about the treatment of Palestinians. Where countries, like Lebanon, treat Palestinians worse than Israel does - we would anticipate that you speak more about the treatment of Palestinians in that context than you would in Israel.
If you don’t do that, it suggests that specific issues are not really what bothers someone - it’s more a vessel to oppose Israel as an entity, as a people, a tactic used by anti semites.
2-Can I criticise some of the discriminatory attitudes towards different demographics and intra-jewish racism in Israel without being anti-Semitic?
Depends on what you believe about those discriminatory attitudes. Once again, the formula in my first response stands. If you use tropes or anti semitism to explain or use to deride those relationships between demographics, then no, you can’t - you’d be an anti-Semite. If you have something specific you’d like to say on this, and you’re worried it’s anti Semitic, say it and I’m happy to talk about it.
The second part of this question is unclear: you are asking if you can criticise the dynamic between Ashkenazim and Mizrahim, or even Ethiopian Jews without being anti-Semitic? Calling for equality is not an issue of Judaism, it’s an issue of fairness. So if you feel strongly about equality in all demographics, then yes, not a problem. If you talk about “how Jews even exploit lesser Jews” then no, you’re being anti-Semitic because the implication is that Jewish people are exploitative. If you only actively voice these issues about Israel, then that’s a questionable standard to single them out for.
3- Can I be offended by the following paragraphs and vocalise my concerns but not be considered anti-semitic?
The question is: what do you find offensive about the paragraphs? This taps into the religious-ethnicity debate in Israel with regard to one form of visa for Jewish people (making Aaliyah). For reference, I have an Israeli passport as does my DH, neither of us are Jewish. I am white, he is Arab (and from a country that Israel are at war with). I work there for half of the year, and have never had issues with immigration. Nor has he. That aside, Palestinians also have routed to citizenship should they want it. This is an article written on a really specific topic, and elements of this are not true in a broader context eg forbidden entry.
If you’re offended by some of the quotes, I’d raise some questions as to where they’re from. So the quote about cancer in the body of a nation is false. It’s actually a 1953 quote from the Egyptian President which states “Israel is a cancer in the body of the Arab world.” So be wary of stuff like that. I’m a Haaretz subscriber and generally like their stuff, but as with all news media, it’s imperfect and comes with a clear agenda. There are no citations in what you posted, and I’m currently in the UAE and too far from my unrestricted internet laptop but maybe there were some in the article?
Where I think, and I’ll be honest with you, I think you’re making a bit of an error (an error that could imply a little anti semitism, or at least conflation) is this statement: “Israel and Israeli policy does not represent all Jewish people.” Conflating worldwide Jews with the Israeli state is exactly what anti semites do to abuse Jews under the guise of being “anti-Israel.” It’s fair to say “the policies of the Israeli government do not represent all Israeli people.”