@PamDenick I think this is very true. I had a long post earlier but how over time I started seeing things that made me less inclined to just accept this idea of TWAW. And a lot of those realisations were informed by the way my own life was changing and my needs were changing.
I'll never forget asking on day 5 post emergency c-section, if I could have some more painkillers. I'd been given codeine, but only 10mg, and was out and it was a Saturday. The hospital-based community midwife said, "of course" and sent trainee upstairs to the ward to get some for me. Trainee returned with news that I had been given the maximum I could have and if I want more, I need to speak to my GP.
Community midwife stormed out of the room, yelling, "If a man has major abdominal surgery they keep him in hospital for a week, on bed rest for 3 weeks and give him hardcore drugs but a woman after a c-section must look after a newborn and survive on paracetamol!?"
I got the drugs! 
This kind of thing, which you see repeatedly as a woman as you get older, have children, have unique medical needs etc, is just ubiquitous and totally informs your thinking. A young, healthy, wealthy, single woman with no children simply doesn't have to engage with these issues. But should if she's going to pontificate.