My daughter is 4 years old and she is more respectful and feminist than any of you
Your daughter is 4. She's should be busy being a child, not a feminist.
Also, my son is 4. He plays with a baby and a pram, loves the colour pink, does my hair, wears nail varnish and watches my little pony.
He is still a boy. Despite what mermaids and stonewall would have you believe.
I actually feel sorry for your daughter, knowing she will be brought up to believe that she must be feminine or she isn't a real woman, and that she must push aside her own discomfort, privacy and safety to allow male bodied people into sex segregated spaces on the basis of kindness.
On that note, why is it always girls and women who must be kind? Never boys and men?
Don't you see that's one of the issues. Sexist stereotypes, telling girls to be kind and boys to take what they want, leads to make bodied people taking away females safe spaces while the women sit quietly because they must be kind.