First ever post on mumsnet.
I've lurked on FWR for a couple of years, listening and learning and being challenged intellectually and emotionally by the discussions here.
As a lurker, I would like to thank all of the women who devote so much time and energy into providing thoughtful, well-argued, evidenced content across this board - all within the context of the extra mental load of trying to keep their language 'compliant'. It is like contending with the Stroop test writing every post.
I only registered as a user earlier this month because I wanted to send NotBadConsidering a copy of her excellent post on the dangers of surgery for trans young people and adults. A lengthy post which, it transpired, was deleted because of the use of one word - 'guise'.
Words matter. We need to be able to speak the truth.
And sometimes the truth is uncomfortable.
Imagine what different outcomes there might have been in Rotherham and Manchester if the uncomfortable truth was spoken earlier.
LangCleg is a really incisive, authoritative voice promoting safeguarding and recognising coercive control.
She has consistently called for the moderators to do the Freedom programme in order that they have an awareness of any element of coercive control in the reporting they encounter, so that they are not used as a proxy for abuse.
Suppose that too is an uncomfortable truth?
I hope LangCleg will appeal, I hope she will be reinstated as she is such a fantastic asset to the discussion here and I hope that mumsnet moderators will be supported by training from the Freedom Programme.