@bd67th but what can women do? Women are smaller than men. What power fo we have?
Do you think if we start to have sex with a man, and say stop mid way through - he would stop? I am thinking of the men that I have been with in the past. The men I have said "no i don't want to do something, while we are having sex".
Not one of them cared that I didn't want to do it. Not one. Every single one made me do wht they wanted.
I feel like alot of men have the inherent idea that they are worth more than women, and they simply do not care what the woman wants.
Five examples of this happening to me.
I had sex with one guy who asked me again and again and again to have sex without a condom. I said no. He would not take no for an answer. He asked me again and again and again. He did not care in the slighest what I wanted.
I was having sex with a guy and he asked me to do something. I said no. He began to physically push my body into the position that he wanted anyway. I said "i said no! You have to respect that!"
He said "but you are saying no to ME!"
I said no again. He said "because you are unwilling - get out of my flat". He was really angry at me saying no. And he made me leave in the middle of the night.
I was in a room with another guy. We had met on holiday, and I simply wanted to have a drink with him in his hotel room. I did not want to do anything sexual. He kept asking me. I kept saying no. He pushed me into having sex.
Another guy wanted to do something and I said no -- and he said "how dare you disrespect me". He was awful.
One boyfriend - at certain times , I would say "I don't want sex" and he would push and push me into having sex. He would not take no for an answer.
At this current time period in history - men are very cruel to women. And governments allow them to get away with it.