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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

British woman found guilty of making up rape claims

308 replies

RoyalCorgi · 30/12/2019 10:12

The war on women continues:

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2019/dec/30/briton-found-guilty-over-ayia-napa-false-claim-cyprus

The poor, poor woman. Facing a year in jail for being gang-raped.

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bd67th · 03/01/2020 21:23

I do hope the posters are never on a jury.

I've been on a jury, actually. Contrary to what you might think, I do understand the concept of "proof beyond reasonable doubt". That woman did not consent to sex with all twelve men, I am satisfied beyond reasonable doubt of that. Did she consent to sex with one or two of them? If so, which ones? That would make it hard to convict any of them. Likewise, the Belfast rugby case: one of those men raped the victim brutally enough to put a 1cm tear in her vagina, but which one?

pallisers · 03/01/2020 21:29

No motivation other than not liking people stating as absolute truths things which are matters of opinion.

well if it comes to that you have no idea how many men your friend has slept with at one time and it is just your opinion that she wouldn't be that bothered by 12. Just an opinion then not an absolute truth.

And if it is true or not it doesn't make it any less unlikely that most women would be unlikely to consent to 12 men at once. amazing that we are having to point this out to you.

Igneococcus · 04/01/2020 07:02

Janice Turner in Times today
www.thetimes.co.uk/article/claim-rape-and-a-social-media-assault-begins-q3rwvchg0?shareToken=d5f0bc3e78551206282032b61a82f0f6

There is no option to comment sadly.

SophoclesTheFox · 04/01/2020 07:45

Janice nailing it, as always.

The whole thing is a travesty, and I’m knocked sick by the rape apologism and porn sick twisting of events going on.

Donated this morning because I believe her, all day every day and twice on Sundays.

SidJS · 04/01/2020 08:30

I’ve been on a Jury and fully understand the point about beyond reasonable doubt.

She planned to go back to have consensual sex with one - yes

That she suddenly consented - whilst surrounded on her own by all those other men - to have sex with each of the other men on an individual basis - no

Do we think this is a porn fantasy of the men -yes

That all those other men ensured that in an individual basis she consented in advance to have sex with each of them - no

Did she consent to be harmed - you can’t consent to this in English law - no

Do I think the witness hearing that before the night the gang all wanted to have sex with one woman is telling the truth and it was disregarded - yes

Do I believe men who film and publish a video of the attack and call her a whore are likely to respect women and the notion of consent - no

Do I think being interrogated unrecorded for 7 hours without a lawyer after being raped will lead to a retraction - not based on how a native English speaker would write - is part of a full and fair police investigation - no.

I and everyone - male and female -at work and in my personal circle think she was raped.

Wolfpack

I believe her

HandsOffMyRights · 04/01/2020 09:16

Thanks for the share Igne
Yes, Janice nails it again.

I had a chill reading this - a reminder of my sex if ever I needed one.

#IBelieveHer

Justhadathought · 04/01/2020 09:24

Or for that matter do you think we would not believe Paris Lees if she were ever in a situation where her multiple sex partners scenario went wrong

Side note: Paris Lees is male, with patterns of sexual behaviour and attitude that tend to accompany that in many men. Also Paris Lees was very open about prostituting themself in order to pay for gender re-assignment surgery. In fact seemed rather thrilled that men "travelled from all over the country" to have sex with Paris Lees.

That's not to say Paris Lees could not get themself into a situation that went beyond what had been agreed; being ambushed and raped by multiple strangers...Still don't think that Paris Lees a good example of equivalence to use at all......

Uncompromisingwoman · 04/01/2020 09:27

That's a great article from Janice Turner today. And a welcome relief from some awful victim blaming, rape apologist posts on this thread.

HandsOffMyRights · 04/01/2020 09:36

Still don't think that Paris Lees a good example of equivalence to use at all......*

Abso fucking lutely. It's insulting to that girl to use Lees as an example, for the reasons stated by Just

Some posters insist on derailing threads about women.

This thread is about a teenage female who was raped because of her SEX.

HandsOffMyRights · 04/01/2020 09:54

Aria This young woman is a victim. Why do you feel it appropriate to use an example of a transwoman who went to prison for a violent crime?

In this article Lees talks about the thrill of attacking somebody. I can't relate to any of what Lees writes. In fact, it's bloody disturbing:

'I know the feeling. I wound up in prison as a teenager because I flew too close to the edge.

It was thrilling, actually, robbing someone. That doesn't mean I'm proud of it or that I didn't deserve to do my time. I feel remorse towards my victim now. It was a stupid teenage mistake and I'm sorry for it, but at the time, for a brief, glorious moment, I felt alive. It's why, in the fantasy worlds we create for our entertainment to transport us away from our supposedly civilized reality, we paint fiery scenes of destruction. We want to see people shot. Buildings blown up. We carve scenes of torment and pain into stone and line our places of worship with the resulting art. We want to be plunged into darkness and thrown up into the sky at amusement parks. We want so badly to be good that sometimes it just feels better to be bad.'

www.vice.com/en_us/article/5gkdz5/woman-on-a-naked-rampage-in-mcdonalds-paris-lees

TeenageTerf · 04/01/2020 13:04

Oh my gosh. I believe her 100% - this is unfair. Flowers

Thinkingabout1t · 04/01/2020 13:39

What a disgrace. Boycott Cyprus.

AriadneAufNaxos · 04/01/2020 13:56

I picked Paris Lees as an extreme example of how utterly nonsensical ferrier's posts about her friend are. Nothing in Paris Lees' past should be held against her if she were to find herself in this situation.

OldCrone · 04/01/2020 13:58

I picked Paris Lees as an extreme example

Is that because you couldn't think of a woman to use as an example?

Fraggling · 04/01/2020 14:02

I also don't understand that example.

Why the need to compare 1 person and situation to a completely different one? It makes no sense.

AriadneAufNaxos · 04/01/2020 16:58

Is that because you couldn't think of a woman to use as an example?

Actually no. Off the top of my head, and not being acquainted with ferrier's friend, I couldn't think of anyone who has written so openly about being involved in the type of situation ferrier was proposing as being believable and realistic. Unlike ferrier's friend Lees is demonstrably a real person.

My point was that even where such a person exists the point ferrier was labouring , for no reason I could see, was completely irrelevant.

BovaryX · 04/01/2020 20:27

This case is appalling. There is a good article about it in the Mail. The behavior of these guys is despicable, it’s quite incredible that their account has been accepted. This girl’s ordeal reflects extremely badly on Cyprus

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7850097/How-Israel-turned-12-teenage-boys-accused-sexually-assaulting-British-girl-Cyprus.html

ForeverFaithless · 04/01/2020 20:43

Thanks for the link to the Crowd Funder, I was able to donate.
I haven't been able to find the petition, could someone post a link please?

WrathoFaeKlop · 04/01/2020 21:04

OldCrone
Very apt.

FrauleinF · 05/01/2020 21:14

The victim can now, on top of having to give up her degree, changing her career path as she now has a criminal conviction, and having her mental and physical health destroyed, also expect a civil case from one of the fine young Israeli gentlemen questioned by Cypriot police...

Because of course, it's men accused of rape whose lives are REALLY ruined...

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7852155/Fury-one-12-Israeli-men-vows-sue-British-teenager.html

Childrenofthestones · 06/01/2020 16:46

mol.im/a/7856751
Great news. She is to get a presidential pardon and will be allowed to fly home tomorrow.

bd67th · 06/01/2020 17:17

Great that she's coming home. Not great that she gets a pardon because a pardon indicates guilt. What she needs is an acquittal on the basis of the conviction being unsafe.

DragonUdders · 06/01/2020 17:19

Another place I won't be visiting.

fridgegrazer · 06/01/2020 17:20

Can't read the link because of my ad blocker. TBH although it's great she will be allowed to go home, a presidential pardon means that she is still guilty. She still has a criminal record so it isn't much help for her future career. I wonder if she can still appeal the verdict in future and clear her name.

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