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Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays to the good women of FWR.

148 replies

jamrollyolly · 24/12/2019 15:30

That's it really! I just realised it's almost exactly a year since my teen told me he was trans. He seems to have changed his mind now, but who knows how things would have turned out without the advice and support I got here.

Came for help, stayed for the amazing knowledge and the laughs! Hope you all have some fun tomorrow, maybe I'll get to meet some of you in London on Feb 1st!

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YellaHumberElla · 25/12/2019 14:00

Merry Christmas to all you wonderful women on here, and to all those who are reading and lurking.

The warmth, kindness and strength I’ve found here has been truly inspiring.

Wishing you all health and happiness.

Voice0fReason · 25/12/2019 15:01

Merry Christmas to all you amazing women.

I have learnt so much since I ventured onto this board and been to a few events where I have met some of you, and never have I felt more like I belonged on a group of women. Thank you.

And thank you to @MNHQ for protecting this space.

AnyOldPrion · 25/12/2019 21:26

Raising a glass to MaryZ, and adding my hopes that you will get a Christmas reprieve.

And now it’s almost Boxing Day. Time to put on my new Christmas slouching pyjamas.

🥂🍾

3dogs2cats · 25/12/2019 22:28

Merry merry Christmas from another normally just a lurker. Thank you so much for the education on queer theory and transing children. My teen is another who has compromised on non binary, after the horror of months of trans talk. All would be well were it not for my woke adult children here for Christmas, cancelling JK and forbidding me to look at MN. They kind of spoil things for me. I am starting to stand up for myself with them., though. I have learnt a thing or two on here, mainly to let them run on until they work themselves into a logical inconsistency.
You lot keep me sane.

ArranUpsideDown · 25/12/2019 22:32

All would be well were it not for my woke adult children here for Christmas, cancelling JK and forbidding me to look at MN.

They sound like - pause for effect - wokescolds. (Yes, I've only recently read that word but it is so useful.)

Snoopypants · 25/12/2019 22:53

Another lurker here wishing you all a very merry Christmas and happy new year. I’ve learned so much over the last few months on here and I’ve laughed and cried with you all. I hope 2020 is a better year xxx

ValancyRedfern · 26/12/2019 08:20

Happy Christmas to all of you wonderful women! I don't post much but MN FWR is my online home and is now in the business of changing the world! Happy Boxing Day ⛄🎅⛄🎅

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 26/12/2019 09:37

A very happy Christmas and a hopeful New Year to everyone on FWR.

T0tallyFuckedUpFamily · 26/12/2019 12:18

All would be well were it not for my woke adult children here for Christmas, cancelling JK and forbidding me to look at MN.

Bollocks to that! Tell them that they wouldn’t dream of trying to tell a man how to behave, so they can keep their sexist shite to themselves. I’m livid just reading that and I’d be telling my kids to either keep their opinions to themselves or they know where the door is.

I am starting to stand up for myself with them., though. I have learnt a thing or two on here, mainly to let them run on until they work themselves into a logical inconsistency.

I’m glad to read that, but also saddened that you have to learn to ‘stand up’ for yourself in your own home. My Adult boys are woke, but as time goes on I can see them starting to question things. It might take them having their own kids before they finally go “WTF?” But they’ll eventually get there.

Smallblanket · 26/12/2019 13:09

MaryZ your advice and support on the teenager boards over the years brought me to Mumsnet in the first place. Hope you can stay !

Lamahaha · 27/12/2019 05:45

It's too late to wish you all a Happy Christmas, but here's to 2020 and a whole new level of hills and mountains!
This time last year I was just starting out on my GC journey and have learned so much due to the brilliant, articulate and funny women here. I came to peek, I peaked, and I stayed!
Maryz is before my time but I wave to her from rural Ireland. It doesn't seem at all woke here in this backwater and this gives me hope: I believe there's a foundation of unwoke, sensible, reality based people here. Is in controversial to say that maybe traditional religion helps? I went to (Catholic) church on Christmas Eve with my daughter's and the church was absolutely packed, only standing room left. I know that daughter's PIL and husband think it's all bullshit.

Also waves to Maya. I keep tabs on your excavation site and am happy to have used my little spade once or twice. I was chuffed to see you liked one of my Real Name comments on Facebook!

FloralFestiveBunting · 27/12/2019 06:37

It's not too late to wish anyone happy Christmas. Christmas is still live for another week and a bit!

teawamutu · 27/12/2019 08:09

Had a phone free couple of days but now having a lovely time drinking tea in bed and catching up with MN.

Merry rest of festive season, my beloved vipers. This virtual sisterhood means a hell of a lot to me and has really given me hope among the woke.

LongLiveThePenis · 27/12/2019 08:11

Merry Christmas to all the women on FWR. Here's hoping for a better year in 2020.

NightLion · 27/12/2019 08:34

This is a wonderful repository of knowledge, information and support. I'm inspired by all of you. Happy Christmas and a cracking New Year!

MIdgebabe · 27/12/2019 09:35

Merry Christmas and a happy new year

Miriel · 27/12/2019 12:28

Belated Merry Christmas to you all!

New name, old poster. I got fed up of the moderation policy here and went over to GC Reddit instead. It turns out that theirs is worse - I had posts quietly deleted for not being left-wing and not thinking that communism is a good idea. I had someone tell me I couldn't be gender critical if I didn't want to abolish capitalism. I'm fairly centrist.

I know that most of the women here are on the left, but I have a new appreciation for how welcoming the board is to all gender critical women, regardless of their political leanings. Thank you for this space, and for all that I've learnt from this board.

GirlDownUnder · 27/12/2019 13:57

May the FWR be with you perfect!

Happy gin season Gin I’ll raise a glass to all here with thanks and much gratitude, but I’ll raise two to all the amazing women of FWR who can no longer post.

Zorri Bliss: They win by making you think you’re alone.

Poe: We’re not alone. Good people will fight if we lead them.

FannyCann · 27/12/2019 22:36

@3dogs2cats

All would be well were it not for my woke adult children here for Christmas, cancelling JK and forbidding me to look at MN. They kind of spoil things for me.

I feel your pain. My DD so incensed me that I was moved to do more digging on her behalf. A short scroll through the comments will lead you to find the contribution I made.
I was too cowardly to use her email address (I was tempted) when I did my digging in the interests of family harmony over Christmas. I have also resisted the temptation to put screenshots on Instagram or her Facebook 😱🤬
Perhaps I will text them to her when she hops on her plane back to university. ConfusedWink
Anyway, instead of treating her to a decent haircut I have been quietly digging. So there.

Thinkingabout1t · 27/12/2019 23:54

Happy new year to you all, and may you we! go from strength to strength.

BeardedVulture · 28/12/2019 07:53

Belated Happy Christmas to you all as well. This is an amazing place for debate, discussion, musings and analysis.

Here’s to fighting bloody hard for women’s rights in 2020 🍷

Zebracat · 28/12/2019 19:49

I’ve just name-changed,but love your comments on my previous response. Definitely getting stronger.

theflushedzebra · 28/12/2019 21:41

Belated Merry Christmas to all the fabulous FWR women, I love you all, I don't know what I'd do without this forum for an outlet against the craziness!

Welcome back, Maryz, you and all our banned sisters have been missed - hope you can stick around Thanks

@MForstater - many many Thanks to you x

Happy New Year Wine

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