Except that no one said, Poor Posie, how dreadful to comment in a woman’s hair.”
I believe what posters said was that to judge a woman by her appearance was sexist, which it is, and that it was ironic that posters doing so also frowned on Posie’s noting noting the myriad ways a male face doesn’t look female.
As for her appearance with the You-tuber, she has apologised for that and repeatedly stated she doesn’t support his views.
As far as I know, she herself has not stated that she can’t take a comment about her hair.
You might consider taking a course in constructing logical argument.