Jesus Christ Tequila, mate!
You need to take a walk down a paediatric oncology ward. Absolutely awful comparison.
Yes, people with gender dysphoria feel intense psychological pain, but there is absolutely no long term evidence that transition resolves that pain. Suicide ideation is common amongst all LGBT youth, but actual suicide of trans people seems to be more common amongst transitioners, especially post surgery. We need actual, scientific studies on outcomes for trans people, y’know, like the ones we have for cancer mums.
My stepdaughter (13) is currently experiencing ROGD (she told a teacher she hated her boobs and the attention she was getting from men and the teacher suggested she might ‘really be a boy’ and funnelled her towards mermaids (for fucks sake!) and my daughter (7) is an oncology patient who a year ago today was on a ventilator and heading towards total organ failure.
They are both struggling with a shitty hand right now but there is absolutely no comparison between the two situations.
My stepdaughter’s experience is more akin to teenagers that self harm through cutting or eating disorders. My daughter’s experience is ‘you must have this poisonous chemical that makes you puke and cry and makes you so fucking ill you have to use a wheelchair or YOU WILL DIE.
Yes, they both need professional mental health support to help them cope with their lack of agency in the wider world, but my stepdaughter’s condition can resolve with no other treatment (see the brave and amazing outspoken detransitioner and desisters at Pique Resilience Project, GNC Centric, Thomasina and Charlie et al) where my daughter’s condition has a 60% fatality rate one year after onset. Without treatment it’s 100% fatal, often within weeks.
We know that’s not true of gender dysphoria, or there wouldn’t be thousands of adult transitioners - they would never have made it to adulthood.
So, no, no comparison at all.