I'm more and more seeing that the issue is you can't argue with a narcissist
No, you can’t. But you can ridicule them.
In “Rules for Radicals”, Saul Alinsky argues that ridicule is a very effective weapon against weapon. It’s also VERY effective against narcissism, because narcs can’t okay: they have no sense of humour.
This is why Posey Parker’s so effective and why they loathe her so: she has a fast, sharp wit and she’s not afraid to use ridicule as a weapon.
What she did to Harrop was comedy gold.
Ditto Julie Bindel laughing and telling Jane Fae, “You don’t know you were born.”
Of course, narcs don’t like being ridiculed, and that makes them dangerous.
But maybe it’s time some of us quit assuming logic and intellect wins against power and start playing the Fool instead.