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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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GrinitchSpinach · 17/08/2019 01:02

Overnight bump...

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 17/08/2019 01:53

AIBU thread. Woman told she must call her rapist Annabel, though context unclear

GirlDownUnder · 17/08/2019 05:39

Prawn that thread may have just taken a nasty turn

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Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 17/08/2019 08:21

I have my confused face on.

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 17/08/2019 14:13

I'm no longer confused, I'm disgusted. The depths some of you are willing to plumb are truly shocking.

On the other hand I'm going to have to grudgingly admit it might be working. Grin

ThatDoctorEM · 17/08/2019 19:10

Bump, checking in to the shiny new thread.

Judashascomeintosomemoney · 17/08/2019 19:37

Was just about to link to the AIBU thread on 'School trying to trans my autistic DS' but it was deleted pretty swiftly, the report button was obviously effective that time. Persistent though, aren't they?

ThatDoctorEM · 17/08/2019 19:53

Very. Men have always been scared of women's words and women talking to each other. Fragile poppets.

ThighThighOfthigh · 17/08/2019 23:39

Phwoooaaarr you lot are a bunch of feisty fillies and saucepots. We're going to sculpt you in tallow and put you in our statue garden. Everyone in good health? Organs needing checked?

TinselAngel · 17/08/2019 23:46
ThighThighOfthigh · 17/08/2019 23:57

Come closer Tonsil i have a bucket and a spoon, I'm trained.

ErrolTheDragon · 17/08/2019 23:58

Our organs are all fine afaik, thanks Thigh.

Be sure to put the sculpture in the shade please, we don't want to melt into a gooey mass, not our style at all.

ThighThighOfthigh · 18/08/2019 00:03

Naturally, we never waste good tallow. We have produced a new line of stick on willies with comedy merkins, they're on offer to those with a RFF badge.

TinselAngel · 18/08/2019 00:28
LangCleg · 18/08/2019 08:51

Thigh's patio?

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TinselAngel · 18/08/2019 09:36

Shit that's me in the middle. Was I drugged?

ThighThighOfthigh · 18/08/2019 09:52

Drugs / Snax - who knows. Is that marker pen on your torso?

JessicaWakefieldSV · 18/08/2019 12:54

Checking in... on the only thread I’ll comment on from now on... being a jailbird and all...

ThatDoctorEM · 18/08/2019 15:26

I feel excluded from Thighs Patio, I can't seem to spot me.

ThatDoctorEM · 18/08/2019 15:27

Jessica - does Mumsnet have a jail? Are you on the naughty step?

GirlDownUnder · 18/08/2019 16:47

does Mumsnet have a jail

I was threatened with permanent incarceration, they relented and offered a week, and then relented further and it was one day, time served.

All happened from late Saturday to Monday, no real coms from me and no ‘lawyer phone call’ offered.

I’m hardly prolific, or literate enough to cause a kerfuffle so I imagine JessicaWakefieldSV causes major headaches. And cheers to that Grin

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TinselAngel · 18/08/2019 16:54

I feel excluded from Thighs Patio, I can't seem to spot me.

I think it's like the Terracotta Army. There's many not pictured.

LangCleg · 18/08/2019 17:01

I feel excluded from Thighs Patio, I can't seem to spot me.

Have you given her your organ and tallow tribute yet?

GirlDownUnder · 18/08/2019 17:38

I’m only excluded from Thighs Patio because I most assuredly and probably quite violently ID as tall, willowy, and young.

Don’t even bloody “ma’am” me, I’m clearly a “MISS”

I’m just too spechial Halo Star or maybe too much Wine

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ThighThighOfthigh · 18/08/2019 18:14

It would be a good time to visit, we're busy with crafting. Fannies.