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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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ErrolTheDragon · 14/08/2019 22:41

That picture is close ... but no cigar.

barelove · 14/08/2019 22:52

I'm thinking of all the gross things I've seen labs do now. I watched my neighbours golden lab shit a tea towel out after eating it a day or two earlier.

ErrolTheDragon · 14/08/2019 22:52

Does any type of dog not prewash gussets if you're foolish enough to give him the opportunity?

ThePurported · 14/08/2019 23:00

My old dog had zero interest in underwear, but it was a female. I wonder if it's more of a male thing?

barelove · 14/08/2019 23:05

T'be honest, if mine are particularly crusty I'll leave them lying around for that purpose.

Datun · 14/08/2019 23:06

That picture is close ... but no cigar.

🤣

barelove · 14/08/2019 23:11

Ta da!!!

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TinselAngel · 14/08/2019 23:14

I had a lab for a year about 20 years ago before she suffered an untimely death. It was the most intense love affair of my life I think! She was amazing.

Datun · 14/08/2019 23:14

See, I can just see that dog tickling Lang's belly with its naked toe

Datun · 14/08/2019 23:28

T'be honest, if mine are particularly crusty I'll leave them lying around for that purpose.

DH is asking why I'm snorting. Bizarrely, I'm both fairly tempted to tell him, and equally determined not to.

MsJeminaPuddleduck · 14/08/2019 23:29

My parents had a wonderful black lab.

She died just before my son was born but, whilst he never met her (and they got a new [not black lab 😞] dog soon after), my son refers to her as if he'd known her. She was that much of a personality.

Even my dad, who apparently hates dogs (he doesn't), clearly adored her. He spent one autumn teaching her to jump up and catch blackberries perfectly ... and now gets (not so secretly) sad when they appear on the bushes and she's not there to scoff them.

TinselAngel · 14/08/2019 23:36

See, I can just see that dog tickling Lang's belly with its naked toe

Under what circumstances is a dog's toe not naked?

When my beautiful lab died, it's the only time in all my life I ever saw my beloved late Ddad cry.

She used to steal my clean pants off the airer and take them behind the sofa. She just liked carrying stuff.

Datun · 14/08/2019 23:39

You never know, tinsel, you never know.

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TinselAngel · 14/08/2019 23:40

❤️

WrathoSWhIttleKIop · 15/08/2019 13:53

Pffft gone.
I'm rather glad that one went.

KatvonHostileExtremist · 15/08/2019 14:30

Yup

DancelikeEmmaGoldman · 15/08/2019 14:36

Maybe the whole point of Bunbury is that it is whatever you want or need it to be? Maybe it appears differently to different people...

The Brigadoon of radical feminism?

NeurotrashWarrior · 15/08/2019 15:15

Call to the Prosecco front!

Could anyone spend some time on this thread pls?

AIBU to think given girls of 11 have become victims of revenge porn, the government needs to take urgent action http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/amiibeingunreasonable/3666236-AIBU-to-think-given-girls-of-11-have-become-victims-of-revenge-porn-the-government-needs-to-take-urgent-action

LangCleg · 15/08/2019 15:21

See, I can just see that dog tickling Lang's belly with its naked toe

HA.

True story: I used to buy Fray Bentos tinned steak pies just so that mt old Lab could lick out the tin. It was the joy of his life and he literally polished the fuckers.

Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 15/08/2019 21:23

Heaven's above there's been some deliberate stupidity about today.

GirlDownUnder · 16/08/2019 00:33

I really hope it deliberate!

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GirlDownUnder · 16/08/2019 11:22

Did we just lose a thread? I posted, it loaded, now I can’t see it or AS it, and no emails.... me, glich, or memory holed?

Thread - AGP help please

Lang posted just before me

I have screen grabs.

Be out for a bit if anyone answers this and I don’t reply - I’ve not been memory holed Grin

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Datun · 16/08/2019 11:52

This girl?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3666911-AGP-help-please

LangCleg · 16/08/2019 12:30

I can still see it.

GirlDownUnder · 16/08/2019 12:42

How very odd Confused I can see it from the link but not in FWR, 'I'm watching', 'I'm on' or AS

I'll let MN know. Cheers muchly both Wine

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