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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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GCAcademic · 05/09/2019 22:03

Lucky old me, I've had another PM tonight about the abusive male nurse, who is apparently a hero and a role model.

Cascade220 · 05/09/2019 22:05

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 22:09

GC

Eeeewwwww

Poor you, have you told MNHQ

Deliriumoftheendless · 05/09/2019 22:12

littlbrowndog you’ve been outstanding tonight.

GCAcademic · 05/09/2019 22:15

Rufus - yes, and it seems the mods are quick off the mark tonight.

BarbaraStrozzi · 05/09/2019 22:16

GC poor you. This is getting a bit fucking creepy - why does this weirdo (I'm assuming it's the same one as before) keep singling you out? Are they connected in some way with the pervy male nurse?

LangCleg · 05/09/2019 22:23

This is getting ridiculous now.

MNHQ - time for a bit of reflection?

Datun · 05/09/2019 22:25

What was Almond's problem? I missed it.

Honestly GCAcademic someone connected to the case must be targeting you. No one in their right mind would ever think that was something to defend. It's not the sort of thing that normal TRAs or MRAs come on here and bang on about.

Ugh. Here's some hand san

GCAcademic · 05/09/2019 22:26

Barbara - Judging by their posts and latest name change, they appear to be of the autogynaephilic tendency, so I suspect the story I started a thread about has caught their attention for some reason I'd prefer not to think too deeply about.

BarbaraStrozzi · 05/09/2019 22:26

Well said, Lang.

BarbaraStrozzi · 05/09/2019 22:30

I realise it's annoying when you've built up a posting history under one name, and lots of regulars know you, but I'd name change in these circumstances (in fact I did name change recently when a weirdo started to target some of my posts, and he wasn't nearly as weird as this one).

BeMoreMagdalen · 05/09/2019 22:32

All very well exhorting against troll hunting after yesterday's shit show and the number of goady stockings knocking about still. Enabling bollocks.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 22:35

and it seems the mods are quick off the mark tonight

Excellent

LangCleg · 05/09/2019 22:52

Well said, Lang.

Current policy is enabling community disruption. It needs a rethink because it is clearly creating more work for the moderating team than the problem it thought it was addressing did.

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 23:42

Is 'respectable anarchist' an oxymoron?

GCAcademic · 05/09/2019 23:50

The PBP is back again, and has sent me another PM. Does anyone know what a TOG is, by the way? I'm only familiar with the term in relation to duvets, but I'm guessing that this bloke isn't talking about thermal insulation.

I won't be name-changing, btw. This bloke is more pathetic than sinister. Bog standard MRA, ten-a-penny, no imagination, just a basement and a laptop.

From:
zoklet
To:
GCAcademic
Subject:
Advice
Date:
Thu 05-Sep-19 23:12:00
I am a TOG and I am a homosexual gay and if I paid you, would you make a ventriloquist Video of your kitten making its lips move in time to you saying “A woman’s place is in the kitchen”

If not you could just protest instead

TinselAngel · 05/09/2019 23:53

I only know TOG as being a Wogan fan and I'm suspecting that's not it. I'm sorry you're being harassed. Presumably you can't block DM's if somebody keeps creating new accounts Thanks

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 23:55

Goodness, he's aiming for a higher thread count than a high quality sheet.

TerfTalk · 05/09/2019 23:56

What's a TOG? Or do I not want to know?

GCAcademic · 05/09/2019 23:58

Bloody hell, he's a possible Wogan fan? I draw the line at that. The bloody weirdo. I feel violated now.

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 23:59

None of these seem to fit
acronyms.thefreedictionary.com/TOG

Tedious Old Guy, maybe?

TinselAngel · 06/09/2019 00:00

It was Terry's Old Guys and Girls I think? Suspect I'm very naive and it's really not referring to that Confused

TinselAngel · 06/09/2019 00:01

Terribly Odious Git?

ErrolTheDragon · 06/09/2019 00:03

Now posting links - I wouldn't click one with a barge pole.

2BthatUnnoticed · 06/09/2019 01:34

Totally Obnoxious Geezer?

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1