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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Bunbury’s Public Service Announcement 3.1

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GirlDownUnder · 12/08/2019 13:44

The useful Bunbury Guide to Spotting Community Disruptors is constantly evolving.

The best research and advice is not to engage with community disruptors and trolls. As ever, if you suspect troll activity, report it to MNHQ.

This is a continuation of the first Public Service Announcement thread:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3438714-Bunbury-s-Public-Service-Announcement-2

Thread 3 was deleted with this note from MNHQ; We're sure there will be a Bunbury 4 around soon, but we'd be grateful if we could draw a line under the issues raised in this thread if there's to be a new one.

If and when you see threads plopped into FWR, especially a curious repeat of well worn topics, maybe check for poster history before engaging.

There are a number of posts/posters/threads that are reproduced on Twitter or Facebook to foment controversy using screen shots & flagging to either MNHQ to have threads or posters deleted. Sometimes, it’s used to approach commissioning editors with ideas for articles. It’s a tiresome tactic that we’ve had several community disruptor posters who themselves post the comments that they then highlight elsewhere as purported evidence of racism, religious intolerance, anti-men sentiments, or transphobia.

Some helpful links can be found in the first posts on thread 2 (linked above) but in essence FermatsTheorem recommended “that in the absence of a block/hide poster button, I suggest the following strategy (given that you're talking to the lurkers).

Do not name check the sealion. Instead, respond to a depersonalised paraphrase:

"It is sometimes erroneously suggested that blah. Blah is wrong for the following reasons (short and pithy). If you need more information re. debunking blah, here's a link."

Then (this next step is important to combat derailment) go back up thread to the last useful contribution to the discussion, make sure you do name check that contributor, and pick up the discussion from that point.”

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Cascade220 · 05/09/2019 14:09

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Ali1cedowntherabbithole · 05/09/2019 14:34

Wow. You can get t-shirts and everything!

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BeMoreMagdalen · 05/09/2019 14:46

Exaggerating is the residue the Goddess left because Her message wasn't given a wide enough airing. I have been struggling not to inflate every total at work by 20% all day. These are the REAL WORLD CONSEQUENCES of deleting penis stories. Think on.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 14:53

bemore

We’re not worthy, we’re not worthy

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 15:45

Sometimes there are posters who don't just shift goalposts, they try to turn it into a totally different game.

TinselAngel · 05/09/2019 15:47

I have been struggling not to inflate every total at work by 20% all day.

Just get a job doing VAT returns.

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 15:52

Its gone from football to rugby errol Grin

ErrolTheDragon · 05/09/2019 16:05

Several tries, no conversions?

Rufusthebewilderedreindeer · 05/09/2019 16:06
Grin
truthisarevolutionaryact · 05/09/2019 16:07

You're doing well Errol & Rufus - the mask is slipping Grin

Almond99 · 05/09/2019 20:32

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littlbrowndog · 05/09/2019 20:34

We can say cunts here. Dont restrain yourself. Crack on

Almond99 · 05/09/2019 20:36

I just couldn't, it's just the way I was socialised.

littlbrowndog · 05/09/2019 20:37

Try try just try

DickKerrLadies · 05/09/2019 20:40

A bloke once told me that they thought women shouldn't say cunt because it's not very ladylike.

I said at least I've got one.

Almond99 · 05/09/2019 20:41

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littlbrowndog · 05/09/2019 20:42

See my sad face 😂😂😂

Almond99 · 05/09/2019 20:43

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JossPriorsHairline · 05/09/2019 20:48

Dick Grin

Almond99 · 05/09/2019 20:49

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AccioWine · 05/09/2019 20:50

It's like fuckin whack-a-mole in here tonight. Or do I mean whack-a-sock?

littlbrowndog · 05/09/2019 20:52

Haha true that accio. Has been

GrinitchSpinach · 05/09/2019 20:56

Bunbury just telephoned to whisper: The socks want to be whacked. Why indulge them?

sigh.

Ereshkigal · 05/09/2019 21:10

Some people's sock drawers need a good clear out. They're all a bit holey. They need some new ones. Paging Santa.

TinselAngel · 05/09/2019 21:52

Glad there's a mod on duty tonight 👍🏻

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